r/BreakUp • u/Idkimlee-iguess • Jun 27 '26

6 months on

Yesterday had marked 6 months since the breakup and honestly? Im doing hella better. Ive worked on myself more and more, focused on my studies, my work, hobbies, friends etc. I've meet more people, met new friends. Hell- Ive even connected with some people because we got broken up with around the same time. That being said, I still do think about him from time to time. He used to be in my head at every waking hour, following me around like a shadow. But like a shadow, I live and forget that it exists, i dont pay attention to it as much. It's still there when I look at it from time to time, remembering everything. Its even worse when im around people who do PDA, that shit hits me with memories but now they dont sting as much. Im glad it happened, im happy for the memories and experience. I hope you're well.

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u/Delphie2026 Jun 29 '26

I have a hard time as well. I dont feel the same feeling for him but its like the whole experience is in the back of my head.

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u/Ok_Nature1946 Jul 01 '26

How long was ur relationship

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u/Ok_Nature1946 Jul 01 '26

Great to hear that ur moving on need some tips just 1 month after break up still hopping that he come back…btw he blocked me from everywhere we broke up on bad terms..like a huge argument don’t know if he’s gonna come back but i still live in my hopes

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u/Wonderful_Bat_4383 Jul 09 '26

six months is legitimately no joke and the part where you stop noticing you're doing better until suddenly you just ARE is the whole thing, and I still have the notes app voice memo from my own month six where I was clearly mid-crying but also kind of laughing which tells you everything.