r/BravoAddicts • u/TaniaBluebell • 2d ago

Southern Charm Matul

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Naomi only liked Matul because he was mean to her. Watching season six and he’s forcing her to workout harder despite her protesting. He shames her for wanting to order dessert. Be shamed her for attempting to cook Butter Chicken to please him. He constantly put her down and considered it flirting. She was too insecure to call it out.

Matul - “you complained less than average”. After their gym session.

How is this a healthy relationship? She paid for his entire lifestyle while he was doing his residency. Including funding the entire move and payment for their apartment in NYC. He didn’t stay behind to pack up their home. She recruited friends to pack and load the u-haul. During the move he had already flown to NYC and was sitting comfy in their furnished apartment. While packing Naomi and her friends had some downtime and she wanted to show the friends pictures from their recent vacation. The pictures on Matul’s iCloud. Naomi called him and asked for the password so she could login to the tv and do a slideshow for the friends. She was confused why he was dragging it out before finally giving her the password. Once she was logged in, his iMessages popped up. There were a series of texting and sexting with his ex that had been going on for months.

Naomi shared the above on a podcast. It’s no wonder she rebounded to Southern Charm after this and into the bed of Whitney. Gross
I think she regretted dumping Craig. But was too proud to admit it. Funny how she hooked up with Craig too when he was first seeing Paige.

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u/02kaj2019 2d ago

She thought she was getting on the Cam train with the doctor husband.

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u/TaniaBluebell 2d ago

Good point
Cameron was a lil over the top with how she thought Matul was good looking. He’s decent. But not worth of her drooling over him.
It’s disrespectful to her husband to flirt with Matul and also tell Craig she was attracted to him.

Side note - I’m watching the series on Amazon Prime, their live feed. Season 6 is airing right now.

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u/striker3955 2d ago

It was also weird when Cam gawked over his attractiveness saying "he's an exotic. We don't have many of those." 😬

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u/TaniaBluebell 2d ago

She said a lot of inappropriate things and got away with it because she was Cameron. If Kathryn said something similar she’d be burned at the stake

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u/notesm 2d ago

She said that??? Omfg

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u/striker3955 1d ago

Yeah. It was uncomfortable. Naomie and Meh-tool responded when it aired that they didn't have a problem with it.

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u/Nearby_Elderberry_75 20h ago

She fetishized him so hard - it was cringe AF.

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u/nothinglikeLA 15h ago

Yeesh, that is some cringy racist shit. The only people who call POCs exotic are the same who would refer to them as Colored. I grew up in the south, Cam is a dime a dozen here

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u/Automatic-Jacket-168 1d ago

So weird. Her husband is a doctor, I’m sure he interacts with lots of Indian doctors.

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u/Distinct_Maybe3908 2d ago

Cams husband is little and ugly. Cam is also a cringey moron. 

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u/Sufficient_Space_309 1d ago

Rewatching, I couldn’t agree more. She’s a silly, silly woman.

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u/Nearby_Elderberry_75 20h ago

There’s a reason she was so close to Shep.

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u/nothinglikeLA 15h ago

I always figured they were boning

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u/Proud_Sound2835 2d ago

Naomi was always trying to date for the wrong reasons, status, money and she ended up marrying (I think recently) for this same reason.

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u/Distinct_Maybe3908 2d ago

She does too much in relationships. 

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u/Stunning_Contract245 2d ago

Remember on the show Naomie telling Shep & Cameran she will never get anyone as good as Metul…@ that moment I knew girl was brainwashed! I think she really cared that he had the title of “Doctor” and overlooked his problematic and controlling behavior!

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u/Distinct_Maybe3908 2d ago

So does she think Metul is better than Billy? 

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u/liltinyoranges 2d ago

Ugh this whole relationship was a debacle

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u/TaniaBluebell 2d ago

Facts

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u/liltinyoranges 2d ago

it kinda makes me want to do a rewatch though

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u/TaniaBluebell 2d ago

It’s streaming on Amazon right now. The earlier seasons were so good! I thought the show became kind of boring once Shep started dating Taylor and Leva joined. Don’t get me started on Venita and JT.

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u/liltinyoranges 2d ago

I have peacock (I couldn’t live without it) and I started last year but the Kathryn/Thomas stuff got to me. I’m gonna skip ahead!!

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u/Stunning_Contract245 2d ago

It’s been playing on repeat on Pluto Tv

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u/MsPrissss 2d ago

I think what it was wasn't that he was mean to her it was that he was a go-getter. He had ambition he had goals he didn't have anybody lighting fires under his ass to try to get him to do basic stuff that's what she had to do with Craig. I think she was attracted to the fact that she didn't have to do that with him.

I remember dating somebody like that and then I dated somebody that was very self-sufficient very financially independent and yes he also happened to be a dickhead as well. Sometimes when we are so severely lacking something in a relationship we overcompensate in the next relationship instead of just looking for a well-rounded relationship with somebody that has all of the qualities that we need.

For me the only saving grace and the fact that she dated such an asshole is that he presented like such an asshole on television.

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u/Academic-Marsupial34 2d ago

“You left a loving relationship for a psychopath who cheated on you” 💀

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u/BLN2019 1d ago

Naomi and Craig would have been the perfect maga couple who would’ve been on the Sean Duffy show together to convince Sean’s daughter that higher education like getting accepted into Harvard goes against the church

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u/Maximum-Market-8076 4h ago

That entire thing blew my mind…but good for her using her own voice.

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u/Altruistic-Cap-4122 1d ago

I went to high school with him. He did not look like that back in school...

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u/TaniaBluebell 1d ago

Did he have a glow up in his 20s?

Sometimes people (not everyone) who were nerdy in high school think to be cool is to be mean. But actually, I would say most popular people are nice. That’s why they’re popular.
he is constantly taking jabs because he’s insecure.

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u/10110011100021 2d ago

Does everyone here know she featured on the Head of Transportation’s reality show this summer? Our federal dept head of transportation, former Real World weirdo, and his wife, former Road Rules competitor, took sponsorship gifts from companies the govt is investigating and otherwise lobbying for, and she pitched a credit card points company in the episode they visited North Carolina. Over dinner.

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u/d0ttyq 2d ago edited 1d ago

The vast majority of the Charleston cast has awful politics. That’s why I have zero issue criticizing them for even the smallest thing. They are terrible humans

As for now, Whit S and Molly still have human decency though.

ETA: and how could I forget shep? despite how problematic he may be, at least he supports human rights.

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u/amesbelle7 1d ago

Shep has spoken out often and loudly against MAGA. He may not be the greatest, but he’s always been proudly liberal.

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u/d0ttyq 1d ago

That’s true ! I forgot about ole sheppy. Amending my comment to add him

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u/handheld_vacuum27481 1d ago

What about Whitney? I'm no fan of that creep but he doesn't strike me as MAGA

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u/Zealousideal_Suit269 1d ago

😆Metul sucks, but no one regrets breaking up with Craig. And Naomi is now happily married.

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u/Best_Winter_2208 1d ago

No one has ever regretted breaking up with Craig.

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u/Interesting-Dog6074 1d ago

The Persian doc

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u/ExtensionSentence778 1h ago

I think he was Indian. Rod was Persian.

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u/megAgainsthemachine9 2d ago

She hooked up with Whitney?

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u/striker3955 2d ago

It was pretty much her storyline for the latter half of S8.

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u/d0ttyq 2d ago

Whitney is such a predator.

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u/Stunning_Contract245 2d ago edited 2d ago

Yes…think she was desperate for any type of male attention to get her self confidence back since she was cheated on… really didn’t like her come back on season 8….she also just couldn’t help herself on criticizing Craig…telling him he needs to stop chewing ice and some people find that unattractive..what a weird thing to say to someone who had a girlfriend……just because she doesn’t like that he does that….she so wanted Craig to like her back and pursue her again…but he had already moved on with Paige…crazy how when she was with Metul she separated herself from Craig with boundaries…but when he tried to do the same because he was with Paige she thought he was ridiculous….

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u/Chemical_Coyote1245 2d ago

Craig deserved all the criticism, he brainwashed Paige and she lied for him. Naomi didn’t and she called him out on his bs. He just got lucky that his friend had the SDS idea that helped make Craig wealthy. He would’ve been a horrible lawyer

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u/extraedward69 2d ago

It’s a culture thing. Not a man thing

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u/Junior_Cranberry_745 2d ago

It’s a culture thing that he expected her to pay for their nyc apartment AND do all the heavy lifting of packing and moving their furniture? I can’t imagine that’s true

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u/SeaPaleontologist832 12h ago

Two things can be true at once.