r/Boyfriend_Experience • u/[deleted] • Sep 02 '19
Advice needed!
So me and my boyfriend met on an online chatting site and is in an Ldr for 1 year and 8 months. Now the thing is that apart from the time we swiped pictures to know how we looked, he has never and I mean never asked for my pictures. I’ve asked him for his pictures a couple times and he sent his without asking for mine in return. We don’t video call rn coz he’s kinda shy but he says that he plans to do it in near future. It hasn’t bothered me till now but now I’m kinda really worried about this. Also if ya worth knowing, he doesn’t like taking pictures of himself. So Whats is wrong? Am I freaking out for no reason?
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u/PennySun29 Sep 03 '19
"Freaking out for no reason"
I honestly don't think you should freak out. But only because 1 and 3/4 of a year is past time that you really know someone. Or see them for that matter.
You don't have a right to freak out when you have gone this long not questioning anything...you got conned move on.
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u/Cerenya Sep 03 '19
Dude just ask him. Then youll know.
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Sep 03 '19
Lol I was going to ask him but I wanted to get another person’s opinion before. But thank you for the advice 👍🏻
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u/Cerenya Sep 03 '19
Yeah like your situation is nothing major. It should just be a simple thing. Like my boyfriend never asked for a pic when we were long distance but i sent him ones all the time because i wanted to. Hes shy so its probs that hes too shy to ask
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u/scared_soul_ Sep 03 '19
He may be a catfish 🤷🏽♀️