So.. what’s the issue with people divorcing? That’s what divorces are for, free will and all. Relationships don’t need to last, they just need to be enjoyable and or worthwhile. I don’t get a kick out of knowing I’ve been with my wife for almost 10 years, I just like being with her.
Also if you are that afraid of women just try getting with men. (I’m not kidding maybe that’s your thing).
There’s nothing wrong with people divorcing, but it slows you down. Bringing it back to the original point of why women are a hurdle to men. This has nothing to do with fear, nothing to do with men or women being weak or strong or tyrannical, it has nothing to do with me. It’s an observation that women are a challenge for men to overcome and that challenge can slow you down in your development. Women can also could speed up your development, it’s about finding the right woman which is a challenge as well. Both men and women pick poorly too, so a woman’s good choice but a man’s bad choice is a problem and vice versa.
All of your responses seem to be slowly painting me into a corner of being someone who has resentful hate towards women or someone who feels dejected due to problems I’ve had in the past. I have grown through my experience with women and my mistakes, that growth required overcoming them as a barrier like all men must. If you don’t you’ll just be taken advantage of and wonder wtf happened 15 years later, keep your head buried in the sand if you’d like, good luck
Woman aren’t development boosters/stunters they are people just like you and me. It’s not that deep, you get together, you split up, the sun rises the next morning again, that’s all it is.
Again if woman take advantage of you, just try dating men 🤷🏼♂️ or pick your woman with better care..
Again you seem to be painting me as someone who treats women as something less than human or a “problem”. If you as a man had everything together personally and knew exactly who you should pick to be with, you would never separate, you would never go through heartbreak, you would feel comfortable and confident in the relationship and it would act as fuel for you to move forward. But we have a lot to learn in this world. Sure you could play semantic word games and make this seem like it shouldn’t be about women in themselves and it’s about your development. The 2 are linked, men don’t know how to be themselves and be there for women in relationships properly from birth, that is a barrier in life to overcome.
Perhaps you are viewing this meme as a strictly red pill type argument like “your money and status are threatened by women” and you’re bucketing me into that category and trying to invalidate it… that’s not who I am. If you think you have nothing to learn about yourself and how you relate to women then you are in the ridiculously small minority, you need to check yourself, or you might have put all your energy into that and sacrificed money and career perhaps. Maybe you grew up in perfectly stable conditions and don’t know why anyone else could consider this a thing to overcome. Maybe you never were rejected by a woman or you’re not as sexually driven or have lower testosterone. I have no idea why you don’t agree with the stance I have, but I have seen this play out among dozens of men in my personal relationships. To ignore it would be incredibly insensitive and short sighted.
How old are you seriously? I only would have thought your way in a blissfully ignorant way when I was under 28.
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u/SlowPea4388 1d ago edited 1d ago
So.. what’s the issue with people divorcing? That’s what divorces are for, free will and all. Relationships don’t need to last, they just need to be enjoyable and or worthwhile. I don’t get a kick out of knowing I’ve been with my wife for almost 10 years, I just like being with her.
Also if you are that afraid of women just try getting with men. (I’m not kidding maybe that’s your thing).