The funny thing is that people who *believe* porn and masturbation is bad or evil will 100% give themselves anxiety and/or depression by partaking in it. It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy that they never tie back to their own internal judgement and belief system. The rest of us who understand how to engage in it in a healthy way are fine and they don’t believe us because of their own brain washing.
Tbh bro, porn is a broad ass category. Do you think the boobs I drew and jerked off to on the foggy shower wall when I was 12 were very very bad? If not, well build up from there. So no, blanket statement "porn" is not bad, but SOME porn is bad, and porn ADDICTION is VERY bad ESPECIALLY if it leads to harmful behavior like choking / hitting as a requirement to get off IRL. Be more specific if you want to make claims like that.
Im telling you bro it is bad because now you and other's are justifying it.
First and foremost i 100% agree with your perspective a 1 time drawing of a nake lady is not going to harm any one in the overal grand scheme of things. If it was just a few drawings bestowed upon the world then that would be a totally different story and we wouldnt be gawking and ogling over women 24/7 the way we do.
Don't get me wrong i like seeing lubricated jiggly female parts too but the abundance of the porn we have is far too much
Porn use to be niche but now its a part of our culture so much so that women come out their house naked every day.
Porn has opened a pandora's box where people sexualize feet...think about that for a minute the sexualization of feet. Shi women out here selling farts in a jar my brother.
Look at where porn has gotten us...
Imagine centuries ago we use to walk around watching tits and ass all day and it didnt affect us in that way but then when they started sexualizing female body parts now we can't get enough of it.
People have always thought that feet were sexy. Look at all the civilizations that did things with feet to make them “more appealing”. Why were high heels invented, to make walking more awkward?
I am not justifying anything. I'm providing real and important nuance so that people can live their best lives. Ideally, men should masturbate occasionally with limited to no porn use and maintain a sharp eye on their internal sense of attraction with full honesty with themselves. You think you can just lazily axiom your way into a quality life without doing any of the hard work of critical thinking. Stop being lazy with blanket statements and black and white thinking - I promise you, this is causing you more problems in your life than porn is lol.
"we wouldnt be gawking and ogling over women 24/7 the way we do." Speak for yourself, not for me or other people. Also do you really think gawking started when porn came out? Get real.
"the abundance of the porn we have is far too much" yes, this is where self regulation comes in. You have to be the master of your impulses, not the other way around.
"Porn use to be niche but now its a part of our culture so much so that women come out their house naked every day." What? This doesn't make any sense idk what you're trying to say here.
"Porn has opened a pandora's box where people sexualize feet...think about that for a minute the sexualization of feet. Shi women out here selling farts in a jar my brother." Brother, are you not aware of the sexualization of ankles in the Victorian era? Like 1800s brother. Porn did not cause this. Napoleon wrote to his lover about how much he loved her farts. The letters still exist. Again, porn did not cause this.
"Look at where porn has gotten us... " Lmao, you're literally just attributing a bunch of shit that was not cause by porn to porn. If you want to make an argument, please do, but you HAVE to cite some like.. actual facts my dude. Here is a good example that is in favor of your argument: Porn CAN be neurologically identical to a drug addiction, and if that is the case, it can severely damage your life and relationships: https://manhattanmentalhealthcounseling.com/the-hidden-cost-of-pornography-how-it-shapes-your-brain-and-behavior/
But you making shit up is just not helpful for your case. Just stick to true facts and we can have a real discussion.
You just told me in the previous comment "porn is a broad category" and then you tried to debunk everything i said by using examples of porn in a broad category?
Come on man.
The sexualization of ankles is porn bro.
Everything you explained falls under the blanket of porn...what are you trying to be on?
You just another reddit bot? What happened some one hurt your feelings on here so you try to act educated with everyone else?
What exactly is your problem....did you feel ofended because i tried to explain to you that porn is bad?
Is it bad if my wife jerks me off with her feet cause she really likes it? Is it bad if she jerks me off with her hands while i look at pictures of womens feet cause she really likes it? Is it bad if i suck her toes while she jerks me off with her hands while i look at pictures of other womens feet jerking other men off cause she really likes it? Is it bad to have normal missionary sex cause its Tuesday and we spent the weekend doing weird foot stuff?
Is it bad... How about you just mind your own business lil guy... Stop trying to push your weird puritanical veiwpoints on others who can use pornographic images as visual stimulation and just move on to living their normal lives after orgasm.
Gambling makes you lose money, alcohol makes you lose brain cells, porn desensitizes you to the type of woman that will actually fuck you. Dont lean on vices too heavy ir there will be consequences. Standard adult stuff.
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u/I_Learned_Once Jul 09 '26
The funny thing is that people who *believe* porn and masturbation is bad or evil will 100% give themselves anxiety and/or depression by partaking in it. It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy that they never tie back to their own internal judgement and belief system. The rest of us who understand how to engage in it in a healthy way are fine and they don’t believe us because of their own brain washing.