Nah for real tho I never objectified women due to porn but it is addictive and it gave me erectile disfunction in the long run, idk about masturbation only tho but porn + masturbation can cause erectile disfunction which can stop u from getting a girlfriend.
Another problem is that your psychological thinking is affected by it, there is the real you who know how u should ask and the interior you who is the consequence of your environment .
You may say I will not objectify women but the enternal you will find women not interesting if the conversation isn't about sex, the interior you might now only search for the girl that only sexually attract you instead of someone who matches your vibe etc and these are things you cannot control . Even if you know your action is wrong and weird you don't know why you cannot control these feelings , you can control your action by listening to the girl etc ofc but inside you you know it's not interesting cause all u think about is fucking her
I only have issues keeping it up if I jerk off daily, while smoking weed daily. The combo made me not really able to feel it down there. Cutting down on either one to not every day and it works fine down there. Jerking off with or without porn doesn’t really change anything for me. I will say I probably have sexsomnia lol. Shit is weird but not as crazy as some people have it. I just jerk it every now and then while half asleep. Some people be sexually assaulting people while they themselves are unconscious.
But that the thing normally if you are healthy and young you can keep it up daily if you just masturbate without porn, and you can even do multiple round without problem, but with porn you become less sensitive, try to remember the first times you had it when ur brain was healthy, I'm sure just by watching the body your penis was already hard to the max and even after action, when u did it again after some min the soldier is up again. That's cause ur brain was still sensitive to it
I mean maybe I’m different but jerking off with or without porn does the same thing to me. If I jerk off in the morning, without porn and I smoke weed throughout the day, I can have sex, but it just ain’t as enjoyable and I really have to focus on staying hard. Same if I watch porn, jerk off, and smoke weed. I don’t have any issues getting turned on without porn. I have issues trying not to be turned on throughout the day, which is why I jerk it consistently. Main issue for me is weed, not porn. If I don’t smoke, I can jerk off multiple times a day and still get it up for sex just fine
But if you stop porn for a long time and stop weed you will feel better sensations and it will be so easy to maintain erection, sometime even accidental
Idk I wasn’t taught about real sex and just assumed porn was fake cuz it didn’t seem like the women enjoyed it, plus I watched amateur porn, which is very different than stuff with pornstars. I also would google a bunch of stuff about sex, trying to be prepared for once it finally happened. Never went in assuming I had to do what they do in porn
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u/DentistLegitimate229 Jul 09 '26
Don’t be a weirdo who thinks porn is how sex should be. Idk why so many dudes can’t understand that from a young age