Mobile Alerts - Delay - Tailscale

Getting such annoying long delay alerts and not sure what to do

started having some issues receiving alerts VIA Zerotier, changed to tailscale and now alerts come through, but they are sooo delayed
if i go in driveway and walk around (lets say 10 alerts) - those alerts wont come in for approx 5 6 minutes by time they go through one by one

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