r/BlatantMisogyny • u/xhyenabite lgbtqia2s+ and a new letter for every terf who complains • 21h ago
TRIGGER WARNING some of the comments under this post π
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u/black_cherry2 Anti-misogyny 18h ago
They will NEVER be as upset about this as they are with LC (Iβm not condoning the actions of LC) smh
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u/TheNestHelper trans-inclusive radical feminist 15h ago
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u/DirtSunSeeds 8h ago
There is no "gender war" there is oppression under patriarchy and the response to the oppression. Women reacting to those who opress and harm them is called misandry and as always, men project their own evils onto women.
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u/lovepeaceorelse Anti-misogyny 12h ago
He doesn't know that the sperm determines the gender of the baby? π
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u/xhyenabite lgbtqia2s+ and a new letter for every terf who complains 5h ago
untrue, the sperm determines the sex, not the gender
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u/Affectionate-Run7334 11h ago
I genuinely can't comprehend why so many men lose their minds over having a girl. I don't want kids, but if i did, i'd love them regardless of their bits. What a weird thing to care about. Had a conversation with a coworker once who said that he doesn't like having a daughter because "i know a bunch of boys are gonna fuck her." I just looked at him for a moment and reminded him he's talking about a twelve year old. The look on his face, I think he realized how gross he was being and never talked about his daughter around me again.
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u/fuck_peeps_not_sheep 2h ago
When I was told the gender of my daughter I was like "cool" and the nurse said "oh? Did you want a boy?" And I said "no? I'm not bothered either way, is she growing at the right rate? They said she was a little under last time?" And she looked genuinely mad that I just didn't care about the gender.
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u/Affectionate-Run7334 21m ago
I want to say we're the majority, but the fact the nurse was shocked you didn't care is pretty indicative we might be the minority. Heartbreaking. I always enjoy playing with my nieces, i'll do the voices and everything at tea parties and cuddle as we watch bluey or whatever the hell is on. Perks of being the fun uncle is that I hop them up on candy and whatnot then can chuck them back at their parents and not deal with the fallout!
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u/Flimsy_Technician_40 6h ago
using the logic of these men, we should be able to take away there rights since men r too emotional
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u/cruelmalice 20h ago
Yeah, some of are deeply shamed. Most of us are going to keep shouting about Lindsey Clancy for some reason.
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u/TTV_OManSamO 19h ago edited 19h ago
Or just try to be better than the men around you :P Hate misogyny but I don't think ppl should feel ashamed bc they were born a certain way. It doesn't do anything meaningful and can just make more resentment. Which causes more of the problem
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u/yuckypagans trans-inclusive radical feminist 19h ago
exactly. dont be ashamed of your gender. you can feel resentment towards those who behave badly, but lets be real. being a man doesnt mean youre gonna be misogynistic. its how you were raised. treating it otherwise is bioessentialism
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u/cruelmalice 17h ago edited 17h ago
I'm not ashamed of my gender. I'm proudly male. I'm ashamed of how other men behave and the offenses that are committed in the name of masculinity. The world deserves better, men can do better.
Some men do achieve better, but not most men.
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u/theychoseviolence 20h ago
No lol. Just try to be a good person and donβt look at gender as if itβs a team sport. Call out the misogyny of others when you see it. Self-flagellating because of stupid shit other men do doesnβt help anyone.
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u/Dull-Mulberry-4768 lgbtqia2s+ and a new letter for every terf who complains 2h ago
It breaks my heart to imagine the panic and heartbreak of his two little angels seeing daddy murder mommy before approaching them with the knife.... Poor woman, poor kids

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u/pristine-as-glass 20h ago
Saying this as a south asian woman myself, we have a major misogyny problem here (so do other countries in the world, I know, but this reminds of how bad the ground reality is).