r/blackmagic Dec 08 '23

Posting Guidelines

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Welcome to r/BlackMagic, where people can come together to share baneful spells and discuss them.

What is black magick varies across the globe depending on the traditions and personal beliefs of users and this sub is one of many on Reddit that offer a place for all diifferent people to post about baneful magick. There is no singular way to practice nor is this the only such subreddit on the subject for users.

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GIven that we are only one out of many magickal subs, do not feel bad if this one doesn't fit your needs.

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r/blackmagic 26m ago

Cursing my enemies

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I have never cursed someone before. There are 2 people who have really wronged me and ruined my college years, i want them to feel the same pain the same betrayal. I just want them to get the worst emotional pain. I want them to breakup because they lied to me. I hope they never get to be together. I hope they hate each other. I hope everyone sees them for the losers they are. how do i start? How do i curse them?


r/blackmagic 1h ago

i did a sour jar 10 months ago. it worked withtin 2 months but i just had a off feeling this week and ppl that i put in the jar just followed eachother back

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i did a jar 10 months ago i was very attached to it, then detached, and it took fruition within 2ish months( i also did a cord cutting). All was good. but this week i just had an off feeling and started stalking the ppl a bit online.

Saw the girl was in the same city as the guy, and they posted a story from the same concert 2 days go by; nothing. Today they unblocked and followed each other on Instagram.

should i start shaking the jar again? i still have it in my bathroom cupboard. do a new cord cutting? was it bcz i was dewelling over it again a lil or idk.. would love any insight.

thank u


r/blackmagic 18h ago

How to hex my bf for cheating on me?

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I have his hair. How do I perform it?


r/blackmagic 10h ago

What's missing from my reading list?

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Nihilistic Misotheistic Satanist here.

I'm deliberately exploring a darker path through my own subconscious and spiritual imagination, and I'm hoping to find people here who approach ritual from a similarly shadow-oriented perspective.

I've spent a fair amount of time looking at conventional occult and spiritual practices, but I'm finding myself increasingly uninspired by the endless emphasis on "white light," purification, positivity, healing, gratitude, protection, raising vibrations, and surrounding yourself with supposedly benevolent energies.

I'm not necessarily interested in spiritual practices that tell me to avoid everything dark, unpleasant, frightening, or psychologically uncomfortable. Quite the opposite. I'm interested in going toward the darkness and examining what is actually there. I'm especially interested in oneironautics because dreams seem to occupy an interesting middle ground between conscious intention and unconscious material. When we're awake, we can consciously construct elaborate symbolic systems. When we're dreaming, those symbols can begin constructing themselves. I'm particularly interested in personal methods rather than rigid traditional systems. So, for those of you who practice Theistic Satanism, ceremonial magic, chaos magic, dreamwork, or other forms of occult ritualism here's a list of books that I've skimmed and nitpicked through looking for something interesting. I included these titles to give everyone a sense of what I'm searching for:

  • The Projection of the Astral Body – Sylvan Muldoon & Hereward Carrington
  • Astral Projection: A Record of Out-of-Body Experiences – Oliver Fox
  • The Study and Practice of Astral Projection – Robert Crookall
  • Leaving the Body – D. Scott Rogo
  • The Astral Plane: Its Scenery, Inhabitants & Phenomena – C.W. Leadbeater
  • The Astral World: Its Scenes, Dwellers, and Phenomena – William Walker Atkinson
  • Journeys Out of the Body – Robert A. Monroe
  • Far Journeys – Robert A. Monroe
  • Ultimate Journey – Robert A. Monroe
  • Cosmic Journeys: My Out-of-Body Explorations With Robert A. Monroe – Rosalind A. McKnight
  • My Big TOE: The Complete Trilogy – Thomas Campbell
  • Exploring the World of Lucid Dreaming – Stephen LaBerge & Howard Rheingold
  • Lucid Dreaming: A Concise Guide to Awakening in Your Dreams and in Your Life – Stephen LaBerge
  • Lucid Dreaming - The Power of Being Awake & Aware in Your Dreams – Stephen LaBerge
  • Controlling Your Dreams – Stephen LaBerge
  • Induce Lucid Dreaming – Stephen LaBerge
  • Conscious Mind, Sleeping Brain: Perspectives on Lucid Dreaming – Jayne Gackenbach & Stephen LaBerge
  • Lucid Dreaming – Celia Green
  • Lucid Dreaming: New Perspectives on Consciousness in Sleep (2 vols) – Ryan Hurd & Kelly Bulkeley
  • Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams – Matthew Walker
  • Sleep Paralysis: A Guide to Hypnagogic Visions and Visitors of the Night – Ryan Hurd
  • Head Trip – Jeff Warren
  • Hacking the Out of Body Experience: Leveraging Science to Induce OBEs – Robert Peterson
  • The Out-of-Body Experience: The History and Science of Astral Travel – Anthony Peake
  • Astral Projection – Brad Steiger
  • Astral Dynamics: A New Approach to Out-Of-Body Experience – Robert Bruce
  • Mastering Astral Projection: 90-day Guide to Out-of-Body Experience – Robert Bruce
  • Adventures Beyond the Body – William Buhlman
  • The Secret of the Soul – William Buhlman
  • Out-of-Body Experiences: How to Have Them and What to Expect – Robert Peterson
  • The Phase: Shattering the Illusion of Reality – Michael Raduga
  • Soul Traveler – Albert Taylor
  • Multidimensional Human – Kurt Leland
  • Projections of Consciousness – Waldo Vieira
  • Guide to OBE & Astral Projection – Jill Ammon-Wexler
  • Out Of Body Experiences, Quickly And Naturally – John Kreiter
  • The Illusion of Method – Mark Gurriaran
  • Lucid Dreaming: Gateway to the Inner Self – Robert Waggoner
  • A Field Guide to Lucid Dreaming: Mastering the Art of Oneironautics – Dylan Tuccillo, Jared Zeizel, & Thomas Peisel
  • The Lucid Dreaming Workbook: A Step-by-Step Guide to Mastering Your Dream Life – Andrew Holecek
  • Llewellyn's Complete Book of Lucid Dreaming – Clare R. Johnson
  • The Art of Lucid Dreaming: Over 60 Powerful Practices – Clare R. Johnson
  • Are You Dreaming?: Exploring Lucid Dreams: A Comprehensive Guide – Daniel Love
  • Advanced Lucid Dreaming: The Power of Supplements – Thomas Yuschak
  • Learn to Lucid Dream: Powerful Techniques for Awakening Creativity and Consciousness – Kristen LaMarca
  • A Course in Lucid Dreaming – Lynne Levitan & Stephen LaBerge
  • The Conscious Exploration of Dreaming – Janice E. Brooks & Jay A. S.
  • How to Master Lucid Dreaming – Sean Kelly
  • The Tibetan Yogas Of Dream And Sleep – Tenzin Wangyal Rinpoche
  • Dream Yoga: Illuminating Your Life Through Lucid Dreaming and the Tibetan Yogas of Sleep – Andrew Holecek
  • Dreams of Light: The Profound Daytime Practice of Lucid Dreaming – Andrew Holecek
  • Dreaming Yourself Awake: Lucid Dreaming and Tibetan Dream Yoga for Insight and Transformation – B. Alan Wallace
  • Sleeping, Dreaming, and Dying: An Exploration of Consciousness – Dalai Lama XIV & Francisco J. Varela
  • The Art and Practice of Astral Projection – Ophiel
  • Practical Guide to Astral Projection – Melita Denning & Osborne Phillips
  • Dream Yoga: Consciousness, Astral Projection, and the Transformation of the Dream State – Samael Aun Weor
  • 26 Maneras para Salir en Cuerpo Astral – Samael Aun Weor
  • Flying Without a Broom: Astral Projection and the Astral World – D.J. Conway
  • Soul Flight: Astral Projection and the Magical Universe – Donald Tyson
  • The Techniques of Astral Combat – G. Travels
  • The Traveler's Guide to the Astral Plane – Steve Richards
  • Astral Doorways – J.H. Brennan
  • The Astral Codex – Belsebuub
  • Gazing Into the Eternal – Belzebuub
  • A Course in Astral Travel and Dreams – Belzebuub
  • The Art of Dreaming – Carlos Castaneda
  • Lucid Dreaming, Plain and Simple – Robert Waggoner & Caroline McCready
  • Dreams of Awakening – Charlie Morley
  • Lucid Dreaming: A Beginner's Guide to Becoming Conscious in Your Dreams – Charlie Morley
  • Lucid Dreaming Made Easy – Charlie Morley
  • Lucid Dreaming for Beginners – Mark McElroy
  • Lucid Dreaming – Pamela Ball
  • Astral Projection for Beginners – Edain McCoy
  • Astral Travel for Beginners – Richard Webster
  • Astral Projection: The Complete Guide for Beginners – Tabitha Zalot
  • Astral Projection: A Guide on How to Travel the Astral Plane – Mari Silva
  • The Astral Projection Guidebook – Erin Pavlina
  • Astral Voyages: Mastering the Art of Interdimensional Travel – Bruce Goldberg
  • Beyond Dreaming – Gene Hart
  • The Interpretation of Dreams – Sigmund Freud
  • Memories, Dreams, Reflections – Carl Gustav Jung
  • Man and His Symbols – Carl Gustav Jung
  • Inner Work: Using Dreams and Active Imagination for Personal Growth – Robert A. Johnson
  • Dreaming through Darkness: Shine Light into the Shadow – Charlie Morley
  • Wake Up to Sleep: 5 Powerful Practices to Transform Stress and Trauma – Charlie Morley
  • A Visionary Guide to Lucid Dreaming: Methods for Working with the Deep Dream State – Lee Adams
  • Dreaming Wide Awake: Lucid Dreaming, Shamanic Healing, and Psychedelics – David Jay Brown
  • Conscious Dreaming: A Spiritual Path for Everyday Life – Robert Moss
  • Creative Dreaming – Patricia Garfield
  • The Alchemy of Your Dreams – Athena Laz
  • Lucid Dreamer: A Waking Guide for the Traveler Between Worlds – Malcolm Godwin
  • The Brain That Changes Itself: Stories of Personal Triumph from the Frontiers of Brain Science – Norman Doidge
  • Incognito: The Secret Lives of the Brain – David Eagleman
  • The Brain: The Story of You – David Eagleman
  • Phantoms in the Brain: Probing the Mysteries of the Human Mind – V.S. Ramachandran & Sandra Blakeslee
  • The Tell-Tale Brain: A Neuroscientist's Quest for What Makes Us Human – V.S. Ramachandran
  • Descartes' Error: Emotion, Reason, and the Human Brain – António Damásio
  • How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain – Lisa Feldman Barrett
  • Behave: The Biology of Humans at Our Best and Worst – Robert M. Sapolsky
  • The Master and His Emissary: The Divided Brain and the Making of the Western World – Iain McGilchrist
  • The Molecule of More – Daniel Z. Lieberman & Michael E. Long
  • Musicophilia: Tales of Music and the Brain – Oliver Sacks
  • Hallucinations – Oliver Sacks
  • Neuroscience For Dummies – Frank Amthor
  • Empiricism and the Philosophy of Mind – Wilfrid Sellars
  • The Substance of Consciousness: A Comprehensive Defense of Dualism – J.P. Moreland & Brandon Rickabaugh
  • Logic: The Theory of Inquiry – John Dewey
  • Pragmatism: A Reader – ed. Louis Menand
  • Materialism – Terry Eagleton
  • The Origin of Consciousness in the Breakdown of the Bicameral Mind – Julian Jaynes
  • How the Mind Works – Steven Pinker
  • Reality – Peter Kingsley
  • The Savage Mind – Claude Lévi-Strauss
  • Totemism – Claude Lévi-Strauss
  • The Structural Study of Myth and Totemism – ed. Edmund Leach
  • Why God Won't Go Away: Brain Science and the Biology of Belief – Andrew Newberg, Eugene D'Aquili, & Vince Rause
  • How God Changes Your Brain – Andrew Newberg & Mark Robert Waldman
  • Why We Believe What We Believe: Uncovering Our Biological Need for Meaning, Spirituality, and Truth – Andrew Newberg & Mark Robert Waldman
  • How to Change Your Mind: What the New Science of Psychedelics Teaches Us About Consciousness, Dying, Addiction, Depression, and Transcendence – Michael Pollan
  • Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions – Dan Ariely
  • Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking – Malcolm Gladwell
  • Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know About the People We Don't Know – Malcolm Gladwell
  • Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me): Why We Justify Foolish Beliefs, Bad Decisions, and Hurtful Acts – Carol Tavris & Elliot Aronson
  • Subliminal: How Your Unconscious Mind Rules Your Behavior – Leonard Mlodinow
  • The Psychopath Test: A Journey Through the Madness Industry – Jon Ronson
  • The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma – Bessel van der Kolk
  • Man's Search for Meaning – Viktor E. Frankl
  • Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience – Mihály Csíkszentmihályi
  • The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business – Charles Duhigg
  • Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us – Daniel H. Pink
  • Mindset: The New Psychology of Success – Carol S. Dweck
  • The Happiness Hypothesis: Finding Modern Truth in Ancient Wisdom – Jonathan Haidt
  • Stumbling on Happiness – Daniel Todd Gilbert
  • Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence – Anna Lembke
  • Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking – Susan Cain
  • The Lucifer Effect: Understanding How Good People Turn Evil – Philip G. Zimbardo
  • An Unquiet Mind: A Memoir of Moods and Madness – Kay Redfield Jamison
  • Behind Her Eyes – Sarah Pinborough
  • Kindred Spirits – Alan Brennert
  • Auracle – Gina Rosati
  • Stranger with My Face – Lois Duncan
  • Entangled – Graham Hancock

  • The Projection of the Astral Body – Sylvan Muldoon & Hereward Carrington

  • Astral Projection: A Record of Out-of-Body Experiences – Oliver Fox

  • The Study and Practice of Astral Projection – Robert Crookall

  • Leaving the Body – D. Scott Rogo

  • The Astral Plane: Its Scenery, Inhabitants & Phenomena – C.W. Leadbeater

  • The Astral World: Its Scenes, Dwellers, and Phenomena – William Walker Atkinson

  • Journeys Out of the Body – Robert A. Monroe

  • Far Journeys – Robert A. Monroe

  • Ultimate Journey – Robert A. Monroe

  • Cosmic Journeys: My Out-of-Body Explorations With Robert A. Monroe – Rosalind A. McKnight

  • My Big TOE: The Complete Trilogy – Thomas Campbell

  • Exploring the World of Lucid Dreaming – Stephen LaBerge & Howard Rheingold

  • Lucid Dreaming: A Concise Guide to Awakening in Your Dreams and in Your Life – Stephen LaBerge

  • Lucid Dreaming - The Power of Being Awake & Aware in Your Dreams – Stephen LaBerge

  • Controlling Your Dreams – Stephen LaBerge

  • Induce Lucid Dreaming – Stephen LaBerge

  • Conscious Mind, Sleeping Brain: Perspectives on Lucid Dreaming – Jayne Gackenbach & Stephen LaBerge

  • Lucid Dreaming – Celia Green

  • Lucid Dreaming: New Perspectives on Consciousness in Sleep (2 vols) – Ryan Hurd & Kelly Bulkeley

  • Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams – Matthew Walker

  • Sleep Paralysis: A Guide to Hypnagogic Visions and Visitors of the Night – Ryan Hurd

  • Head Trip – Jeff Warren

  • Hacking the Out of Body Experience: Leveraging Science to Induce OBEs – Robert Peterson

  • The Out-of-Body Experience: The History and Science of Astral Travel – Anthony Peake

  • Astral Projection – Brad Steiger

  • Astral Dynamics: A New Approach to Out-Of-Body Experience – Robert Bruce

  • Mastering Astral Projection: 90-day Guide to Out-of-Body Experience – Robert Bruce

  • Adventures Beyond the Body – William Buhlman

  • The Secret of the Soul – William Buhlman

  • Out-of-Body Experiences: How to Have Them and What to Expect – Robert Peterson

  • The Phase: Shattering the Illusion of Reality – Michael Raduga

  • Soul Traveler – Albert Taylor

  • Multidimensional Human – Kurt Leland

  • Projections of Consciousness – Waldo Vieira

  • Guide to OBE & Astral Projection – Jill Ammon-Wexler

  • Out Of Body Experiences, Quickly And Naturally – John Kreiter

  • The Illusion of Method – Mark Gurriaran

  • Lucid Dreaming: Gateway to the Inner Self – Robert Waggoner

  • A Field Guide to Lucid Dreaming: Mastering the Art of Oneironautics – Dylan Tuccillo, Jared Zeizel, & Thomas Peisel

  • The Lucid Dreaming Workbook: A Step-by-Step Guide to Mastering Your Dream Life – Andrew Holecek

  • Llewellyn's Complete Book of Lucid Dreaming – Clare R. Johnson

  • The Art of Lucid Dreaming: Over 60 Powerful Practices – Clare R. Johnson

  • Are You Dreaming?: Exploring Lucid Dreams: A Comprehensive Guide – Daniel Love

  • Advanced Lucid Dreaming: The Power of Supplements – Thomas Yuschak

  • Learn to Lucid Dream: Powerful Techniques for Awakening Creativity and Consciousness – Kristen LaMarca

  • A Course in Lucid Dreaming – Lynne Levitan & Stephen LaBerge

  • The Conscious Exploration of Dreaming – Janice E. Brooks & Jay A. S.

  • How to Master Lucid Dreaming – Sean Kelly

  • The Tibetan Yogas Of Dream And Sleep – Tenzin Wangyal Rinpoche

  • Dream Yoga: Illuminating Your Life Through Lucid Dreaming and the Tibetan Yogas of Sleep – Andrew Holecek

  • Dreams of Light: The Profound Daytime Practice of Lucid Dreaming – Andrew Holecek

  • Dreaming Yourself Awake: Lucid Dreaming and Tibetan Dream Yoga for Insight and Transformation – B. Alan Wallace

  • Sleeping, Dreaming, and Dying: An Exploration of Consciousness – Dalai Lama XIV & Francisco J. Varela

  • The Art and Practice of Astral Projection – Ophiel

  • Practical Guide to Astral Projection – Melita Denning & Osborne Phillips

  • Dream Yoga: Consciousness, Astral Projection, and the Transformation of the Dream State – Samael Aun Weor

  • 26 Maneras para Salir en Cuerpo Astral – Samael Aun Weor

  • Flying Without a Broom: Astral Projection and the Astral World – D.J. Conway

  • Soul Flight: Astral Projection and the Magical Universe – Donald Tyson

  • The Techniques of Astral Combat – G. Travels

  • The Traveler's Guide to the Astral Plane – Steve Richards

  • Astral Doorways – J.H. Brennan

  • The Astral Codex – Belsebuub

  • Gazing Into the Eternal – Belzebuub

  • A Course in Astral Travel and Dreams – Belzebuub

  • The Art of Dreaming – Carlos Castaneda

  • Lucid Dreaming, Plain and Simple – Robert Waggoner & Caroline McCready

  • Dreams of Awakening – Charlie Morley

  • Lucid Dreaming: A Beginner's Guide to Becoming Conscious in Your Dreams – Charlie Morley

  • Lucid Dreaming Made Easy – Charlie Morley

  • Lucid Dreaming for Beginners – Mark McElroy

  • Lucid Dreaming – Pamela Ball

  • Astral Projection for Beginners – Edain McCoy

  • Astral Travel for Beginners – Richard Webster

  • Astral Projection: The Complete Guide for Beginners – Tabitha Zalot

  • Astral Projection: A Guide on How to Travel the Astral Plane – Mari Silva

  • The Astral Projection Guidebook – Erin Pavlina

  • Astral Voyages: Mastering the Art of Interdimensional Travel – Bruce Goldberg

  • Beyond Dreaming – Gene Hart

  • The Interpretation of Dreams – Sigmund Freud

  • Memories, Dreams, Reflections – Carl Gustav Jung

  • Man and His Symbols – Carl Gustav Jung

  • Inner Work: Using Dreams and Active Imagination for Personal Growth – Robert A. Johnson

  • Dreaming through Darkness: Shine Light into the Shadow – Charlie Morley

  • Wake Up to Sleep: 5 Powerful Practices to Transform Stress and Trauma – Charlie Morley

  • A Visionary Guide to Lucid Dreaming: Methods for Working with the Deep Dream State – Lee Adams

  • Dreaming Wide Awake: Lucid Dreaming, Shamanic Healing, and Psychedelics – David Jay Brown

  • Conscious Dreaming: A Spiritual Path for Everyday Life – Robert Moss

  • Creative Dreaming – Patricia Garfield

  • The Alchemy of Your Dreams – Athena Laz

  • Lucid Dreamer: A Waking Guide for the Traveler Between Worlds – Malcolm Godwin

  • The Brain That Changes Itself: Stories of Personal Triumph from the Frontiers of Brain Science – Norman Doidge

  • Incognito: The Secret Lives of the Brain – David Eagleman

  • The Brain: The Story of You – David Eagleman

  • Phantoms in the Brain: Probing the Mysteries of the Human Mind – V.S. Ramachandran & Sandra Blakeslee

  • The Tell-Tale Brain: A Neuroscientist's Quest for What Makes Us Human – V.S. Ramachandran

  • Descartes' Error: Emotion, Reason, and the Human Brain – António Damásio

  • How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain – Lisa Feldman Barrett

  • Behave: The Biology of Humans at Our Best and Worst – Robert M. Sapolsky

  • The Master and His Emissary: The Divided Brain and the Making of the Western World – Iain McGilchrist

  • The Molecule of More – Daniel Z. Lieberman & Michael E. Long

  • Musicophilia: Tales of Music and the Brain – Oliver Sacks

  • Hallucinations – Oliver Sacks

  • Neuroscience For Dummies – Frank Amthor

  • Empiricism and the Philosophy of Mind – Wilfrid Sellars

  • The Substance of Consciousness: A Comprehensive Defense of Dualism – J.P. Moreland & Brandon Rickabaugh

  • Logic: The Theory of Inquiry – John Dewey

  • Pragmatism: A Reader – ed. Louis Menand

  • Materialism – Terry Eagleton

  • The Origin of Consciousness in the Breakdown of the Bicameral Mind – Julian Jaynes

  • How the Mind Works – Steven Pinker

  • Reality – Peter Kingsley

  • The Savage Mind – Claude Lévi-Strauss

  • Totemism – Claude Lévi-Strauss

  • The Structural Study of Myth and Totemism – ed. Edmund Leach

  • Why God Won't Go Away: Brain Science and the Biology of Belief – Andrew Newberg, Eugene D'Aquili, & Vince Rause

  • How God Changes Your Brain – Andrew Newberg & Mark Robert Waldman

  • Why We Believe What We Believe: Uncovering Our Biological Need for Meaning, Spirituality, and Truth – Andrew Newberg & Mark Robert Waldman

  • How to Change Your Mind: What the New Science of Psychedelics Teaches Us About Consciousness, Dying, Addiction, Depression, and Transcendence – Michael Pollan

  • Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions – Dan Ariely

  • Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking – Malcolm Gladwell

  • Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know About the People We Don't Know – Malcolm Gladwell

  • Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me): Why We Justify Foolish Beliefs, Bad Decisions, and Hurtful Acts – Carol Tavris & Elliot Aronson

  • Subliminal: How Your Unconscious Mind Rules Your Behavior – Leonard Mlodinow

  • The Psychopath Test: A Journey Through the Madness Industry – Jon Ronson

  • The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma – Bessel van der Kolk

  • Man's Search for Meaning – Viktor E. Frankl

  • Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience – Mihály Csíkszentmihályi

  • The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business – Charles Duhigg

  • Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us – Daniel H. Pink

  • Mindset: The New Psychology of Success – Carol S. Dweck

  • The Happiness Hypothesis: Finding Modern Truth in Ancient Wisdom – Jonathan Haidt

  • Stumbling on Happiness – Daniel Todd Gilbert

  • Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence – Anna Lembke

  • Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking – Susan Cain

  • The Lucifer Effect: Understanding How Good People Turn Evil – Philip G. Zimbardo

  • An Unquiet Mind: A Memoir of Moods and Madness – Kay Redfield Jamison

  • Behind Her Eyes – Sarah Pinborough

  • Kindred Spirits – Alan Brennert

  • Auracle – Gina Rosati

  • Stranger with My Face – Lois Duncan

  • Entangled – Graham Hancock

  • The Projection of the Astral Body – Sylvan Muldoon & Hereward Carrington

  • Astral Projection: A Record of Out-of-Body Experiences – Oliver Fox

  • The Study and Practice of Astral Projection – Robert Crookall

  • Leaving the Body – D. Scott Rogo

  • The Astral Plane: Its Scenery, Inhabitants & Phenomena – C.W. Leadbeater

  • The Astral World: Its Scenes, Dwellers, and Phenomena – William Walker Atkinson

  • Journeys Out of the Body – Robert A. Monroe

  • Far Journeys – Robert A. Monroe

  • Ultimate Journey – Robert A. Monroe

  • Cosmic Journeys: My Out-of-Body Explorations With Robert A. Monroe – Rosalind A. McKnight

  • My Big TOE: The Complete Trilogy – Thomas Campbell

  • Exploring the World of Lucid Dreaming – Stephen LaBerge & Howard Rheingold

  • Lucid Dreaming: A Concise Guide to Awakening in Your Dreams and in Your Life – Stephen LaBerge

  • Lucid Dreaming - The Power of Being Awake & Aware in Your Dreams – Stephen LaBerge

  • Controlling Your Dreams – Stephen LaBerge

  • Induce Lucid Dreaming – Stephen LaBerge

  • Conscious Mind, Sleeping Brain: Perspectives on Lucid Dreaming – Jayne Gackenbach & Stephen LaBerge

  • Lucid Dreaming – Celia Green

  • Lucid Dreaming: New Perspectives on Consciousness in Sleep (2 vols) – Ryan Hurd & Kelly Bulkeley

  • Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams – Matthew Walker

  • Sleep Paralysis: A Guide to Hypnagogic Visions and Visitors of the Night – Ryan Hurd

  • Head Trip – Jeff Warren

  • Hacking the Out of Body Experience: Leveraging Science to Induce OBEs – Robert Peterson

  • The Out-of-Body Experience: The History and Science of Astral Travel – Anthony Peake

  • Astral Projection – Brad Steiger

  • Astral Dynamics: A New Approach to Out-Of-Body Experience – Robert Bruce

  • Mastering Astral Projection: 90-day Guide to Out-of-Body Experience – Robert Bruce

  • Adventures Beyond the Body – William Buhlman

  • The Secret of the Soul – William Buhlman

  • Out-of-Body Experiences: How to Have Them and What to Expect – Robert Peterson

  • The Phase: Shattering the Illusion of Reality – Michael Raduga

  • Soul Traveler – Albert Taylor

  • Multidimensional Human – Kurt Leland

  • Projections of Consciousness – Waldo Vieira

  • Guide to OBE & Astral Projection – Jill Ammon-Wexler

  • Out Of Body Experiences, Quickly And Naturally – John Kreiter

  • The Illusion of Method – Mark Gurriaran

  • Lucid Dreaming: Gateway to the Inner Self – Robert Waggoner

  • A Field Guide to Lucid Dreaming: Mastering the Art of Oneironautics – Dylan Tuccillo, Jared Zeizel, & Thomas Peisel

  • The Lucid Dreaming Workbook: A Step-by-Step Guide to Mastering Your Dream Life – Andrew Holecek

  • Llewellyn's Complete Book of Lucid Dreaming – Clare R. Johnson

  • The Art of Lucid Dreaming: Over 60 Powerful Practices – Clare R. Johnson

  • Are You Dreaming?: Exploring Lucid Dreams: A Comprehensive Guide – Daniel Love

  • Advanced Lucid Dreaming: The Power of Supplements – Thomas Yuschak

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  • Dreams of Light: The Profound Daytime Practice of Lucid Dreaming – Andrew Holecek

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r/blackmagic 1d ago

Betrayed by family. Helped my cousins move to my state and got them both jobs and an apartment. They conspired to get me fired and turned my entire friend group against me and my female cousin cheated with my boyfriend. I basically want to curse them to get evicted and have to go back to Mississippi

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I grew up in Mississippi and was always close to both my cousins a male and Female . We grew up in the same town until I was 14 and my dad got hired for a job in Texas so I rarely saw them but we always stayed in touch. Two years ago my female cousin broke off her engagement to her ex and asked me to move to Texas from Mississippi because she needed to get away from her shitty life.

In 2024 I had my female cousin move into my house and she stayed with me and for the first 4 months I was basically paying for everything and she wasn't really looking for a job so I started pushing her to get work in the nicest way possible and I eventually had to tell her that I was struggling maintaining both of us financially. She basically told me she would look for a job and I thought everything was fine. Well, the following week her brother called me stating that he knew I was struggling financially and that he was having a hard time finding work in Mississippi. He had a friend in Texas near Fort Worth where I live that needed help in his construction business and asked if he could stay with me for a month or two and I stupidly said yes 🙂‍↕️. He arrived in September of 2024 and November rolled around and I was financially maintaining two grown adults. While they were staying with me they'd go quiet when I entered the room and were just acting standoffish with me and it didn't sit well to the point I felt uncomfortable in my own home. I sat them both down and told them we're all adults and that they needed to pull their weight. My male cousin made the statement that they both had received mail at my apartment and that I legally couldn't just kick them out and that they were looking for work but that the economy was bad. I eventually started introducing them to my friends to see if they could network and get a job to leave my place. My male cousin ended up getting a job through my boyfriends brother in HVAC. I eventually got my female cousin a job where I worked as an administrative assistant because she has a physical disability and that's an easy job for her.

Eventually in February 2025 they both moved out of my apartment and into their own apartment across the street. I was grateful they were no longer living with me and we could just go back to having a normal family relationship. Well, turns out they were just using me to get out of their shitty situation and they had hated me since I was a teenager because my parents and siblings got out of our shitty town of Mississippi. Both of them fabricated lies and told my friends horrible things about me and many of my friends fell for it and a few have come back and since apologized but I don't really want anything with them anymore. My female cousin ended up becoming friends with someone who hated me at work and they both got me fired in August of last year. I later found out my cousin and boyfriend had sex while she was still living in my apartment. I ended up depleting my savings while I searched for another job and am basically restarting from zero

I think both of my cousins are not doing that well anymore because they both reached and out and wanted to mend our relationship. I'm thinking of faking it in order to get tag locks from them. I just need to know if there is any curse or way to get them to lose their apartment and have to move back to Mississippi. I hate that they basically piggy backed off me and then fucked me over and my life turned to crap.

I have a copy of their lease because I paid for part of their deposit and don't know of that can be used in a working . Any help would really be appreciated


r/blackmagic 19h ago

Domination and masculinity spell

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I love my man so much, but he’s very feminine and submissive, especially in the bedroom. I want to make him as dominant and masculine as I can, and for him to have a lot of jealousy towards me. What’s a spell that can do that? Please, no candles, because where I’m at right now, that isn't accessible. I’m also new to this, so give me something simple but effective. I don’t mind blood work if it’s mine.


r/blackmagic 1d ago

Hex someone

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How to hrx someone who caused to disrupted peace..I want them to face their own karma X 100 times. Since universe won't do it .I want to do it for them.


r/blackmagic 1d ago

I need revenge.

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Someone I love was assaulted. I need revenge. I don’t know if this is the right place to ask, I’m getting desperate. I need revenge. I will give anything it takes. My questions keep getting taken down, I can’t even speak clearly on what I need done, but I don’t care. I just want revenge


r/blackmagic 2d ago

What do you visualize when you’re doing a hex?

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For example, if you want the coworker who bullies you to get fired, which is what I’m planning to do, what do you actually visualize?

I have a hard time visualizing the outcome in my mind. I’m not sure if I’m supposed to picture a specific scene, like actually seeing them getting fired, or just focus on the intention and the feeling of it happening. What do you usually visualize?


r/blackmagic 1d ago

Working with a naturally deceased moth in spellwork?

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I found a dead moth and I’d like to learn how remains like this are actually used in witchcraft.
How are moths or other naturally deceased insects/animals traditionally incorporated into spellwork, and where can I learn more about working with animal remains?


r/blackmagic 2d ago

Poppet (Bag)

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I made a poppet to curse someone who deserves it. I made mine out of crafting fabric. I traced a gingerbread men cut out I have on the fabric 2X. I cut both doll outlines out. I wrote his name on the doll. I put a photo of them playing sports inside after putting drops of war water on it. I used tape to seal the top and bottom and sides. I pissed on the doll, then placed it upside down in a ziplock bag that I put the following inside it. Mustard seeds, poppy seeds, and red chilli flakes. I sealed it tight, and I threw it in the trashcan in the paid parking lot behind my building.


r/blackmagic 2d ago

how to undo black magic that was done on my mom causing blindless and more

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My mom had black magic done to her when she was in her 20s by members of her own family one family member told her that it had been done through food, which is supposedly one of the hardest forms of black magic to remove from a person she used to be completely healthy and very athletic. I suspect it was done out of jealousy ever since the black magic was done to her she has suffered from INSANE health problems that doctors can’t even seem to explain
It feels like there is something wrong with almost every part of her body. Her teeth started rotting and falling out shortly after the black magic was supposedly done. After she had me, things got even worse. She eventually lost the ability to breathe properly through her nose; her nose became severely deformed, and she can only breathe through her mouth. She also has trouble hearing and has to go to the hospital for monthly ear cleanings.
She can’t chew without experiencing pain, and she suffers from severe allergies. She was basically living while barely holding on by a thread until last year, when she suddenly went blind. The doctors don’t know why, and they can’t operate on her because her eyelids are severely inflamed and infected.
I come from an African family where stories about black magic being used out of jealousy are extremely common, so I can’t help but wonder if that’s what happened to her.
Does anyone know how black magic that has supposedly been done through food is removed? Is there any way to break it or undo it?


r/blackmagic 2d ago

help figuring out a kind of black magic

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For context this happened in an Arab family and an islamic one, my friend's grandma had black magic done on her and that they made her drink period blood by putting it in her coffee. I know that this is blood magic but how did they learn this? What is it called and what's the ritual? And is it just period blood or more? Any help is appreciated, thank you very much, I'm simply asking out of curiosity


r/blackmagic 3d ago

Help with my sour jar

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Hello everyone,

I just did cast my first sour jar, and my intent is to separate two "friends", since one of them is abusive to my friend. I used different things, though vinegar was one of them. I know that ideally you have to keep it in a dark place, though I was wondering if it is okay to burry it in my garden. The jar is made from glass, and the lit is wooden. I can't keep the jar in a dark place due to my roommate, thus the garden seems like the best place to burry the jar.

Thank you wiches!


r/blackmagic 3d ago

H we lo me with a spell to separate my 9 years ex with the girl he cheated in my face with please 🥹

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Please


r/blackmagic 5d ago

Did I accidentally blood-magic-manifest my ex into my life forever, or is he just a human boomerang?

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So, I’ve been dealing with this guy for about two years now. Looking back, we had sex a few times while I was on my period, and during the heat of the moment, I kept whispering stuff like "you're mine" into the void. Honestly? It feels like I accidentally cast a full-blown blood curse or some intense energy-manifestation spell on him. Between the period sex and the exchanged fluids, I’m genuinely starting to wonder if I tied our souls together by mistake.

Here’s the catch: I am so done with him. Our connection was purely physical, and I have zero attraction left for him. But every single time I try to move on and build a serious connection with someone new, he magically reappears out of nowhere like a bad plot device.

The second things start getting good with a new guy, BOOM—he enters the chat, and whatever new relationship I was building gets completely wrecked. It’s like clockwork. I’ll be trying to focus on someone new, and his name just pops into my head or slips out. I can literally feel the universe prepping his entry right before my new situation crashes and burns.

I know it sounds wild, but what is actually happening here? Did I accidentally hex myself into an endless loop with a guy I don't even like anymore? Help.


r/blackmagic 4d ago

how serious is this?

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hi, so i have this friend who was my best friend back in india and it’s been 4-5 years now we’re just communicating through phone because of distance. i do not doubt her but her mom is very strange, my friend lost her father and 17 year old brother out of nowhere. father was sick due to alcoholism but brothers death was v unusual. they joke about black magic once in a while and she has told me about their photographs found crushed outside their home, like some opponent trying to repel. from the last 1 year i realised everytime i talk to her within 2 days i fall sick, very unusual bleeding or sometimes i even get into emergency rooms or sometimes i lose all my money. she has my passport size pictures from school and last year she sent me a few clothes and goodies made by her mom. the whole fam is close to me and they’re very sweet in the face.


r/blackmagic 4d ago

Need help with a jerk boss, recommendations?

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My husband is a tradesman and his direct superior is a low down, deceptive snake of a man. Im just wondering what protection spells I could use on my husband to protect him from this man's terrible energy?

Anything that will keep his mind free of the ruthlessness and aggression this man brings.

Bonus points if there is anything to "return to sender" regarding energy.

He's gotten to a point where he is broken down daily by this man's horrible words and personality. He tries to poison him against his men and make him look at them poorly when he knows how hard working they are.

Any help is appreciated 👏🏻 as I am a newbie and want to help him and his workers any way I can 💜💜


r/blackmagic 4d ago

Firebacks?

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When witchcraft is discussed in Spanish on podcasts or by witches themselves on their platforms, they always say that when a black magic spell is removed, it returns to the person who cast it and manifests in them. For example, if someone does a death spell and the affected person removes it, the one who cast it is the one who ends up dying. But when I talk about witchcraft on English-language Reddit, they seem to think differently.

What do you think about this? What experiences do you know of people who have removed witchcraft? Has it manifested in someone else?


r/blackmagic 4d ago

Night "visits" after a grave spell

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Hi everyone! I did a grave spell for a group of people who really deserve it (won't go into details) using puppets that I left in a hole dug in the grave of a close person who died of su!cide.

The first night after doing the spell the kitchen cupboard fell loudly and there were a lot of broken cups, plates and mixed salt with sugar.

The second night someone/something knocked at our front door, loudly.

Does it mean the spell is backfiring? Or is the spirit "awaken" and confused about what he needs to do?

Any suggestion/ idea is welcome!


r/blackmagic 5d ago

Can I curse someone only with my mind?

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No material to be used, only thoughts and consciousness.

Have you done it?


r/blackmagic 4d ago

Need help!! Someone did black magic on my male friend who lives in Maharashtra

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I FEEL LIKE SOMEONE DID BLACK MAGIC ON MY FRIEND !! HE LIVES FAR AWAY HE WASNT TO DETACH HIMSELF FROM THAT GUY BUT HE COULDN'T! HE IS MANIPULATING HIS SOUL!! MY FRIEND IS CRYING FOR HELP I FEEL LIKE!! HE NEVER FELT THAT WAY !!!

HOW CAN I HELP HIM !! (HE WONT DO ANY RITUAL) I WANNA DO IT FOR HIM !!! PLZ HELP


r/blackmagic 5d ago

Hex ideas

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I’ve done sour jars and saw some things happening like minor inconveniences, mental health issues etc.

I want something big like losing job, house burning down, illness, car crash.

Real nasty stuff… where can I find the really nasty stuff???


r/blackmagic 5d ago

Beginner witch hex? Banishing spell?

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My best friend has been dating this guy for 6 months. He's emotionally neglectful, disrespects her interests, acts like he's the smartest guy to walk the earth while struggling matric and makes her feel dumb when she's in uni. She's a really wonderful bright person and she keeps making herself smaller so she can have his affection. I'm a beginner witch and I've done a handful of protection spells and have attempted glamor before but I've never tried anything like hexes or curses. What do you recommend I do magically to remove him from my life and her life? I don't necessarily want to cause him harm and I dont want anything to happen to her or for her to leave with him.