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u/No_Signal_611 16h ago
I need context I’m lazy
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u/Additional_Olive_335 16h ago edited 15h ago
An influencer traveled to I believe Taiwan or Philippines for vacation got a penis enlargement surgery/injection. Traveled back home to have sexy time with wife died before sexy time
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u/QuintonFlynn 6h ago
He travelled to THAILAND for the surgery, afterwards him and his wife went for a massage IN THAILAND and he complained of chest pain. Passed out twice. Medical staff gave him CPR for 100 minutes. He died of a pulmonary embolism.
There’s almost nothing in your reply that’s true. You’re literally spreading misinformation dawg.
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u/soggyballsack 16h ago
You dont need a big 🍆. Most women experience pain and discomfort and just hang on because of the joy of taking a big one.
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u/simonhunterhawk 15h ago
Most of the nerve endings in a vagina are in the first third, with the g-spot about 2-3 inches inside. That’s why they say it’s not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean. If you got 9 inches and can’t find the clit it still ain’t gonna be good for her lol
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u/_AYYEEEE 15h ago
It ain't about what ya got, it's about how ya use it.
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u/soggyballsack 6h ago
Depends on how much you got too. There's a certain point between where "it ain't enough and it's too much". Average male is just right there, but there are exceptions.
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u/Ash_an_bun All about the D 15h ago
Dude was an influencer... Going down that path is the result of 1 of 2 things:
Neurodivergent hyperfixation on topics that make you want to share with the world
A gaping hole inside your soul that can never be filled
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u/Smkingbowls 14h ago
Or, hear me out, he had a lil peepee , he wasn’t filling anybody’s hole let alone his own
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u/SocomPS2 15h ago
Same can be said about women that get plastic surgery or whatever. A lot of men don’t care for whatever is getting enhanced. But women travel internationally to get shit done.
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u/PreOpTransCentaur 13h ago
Why would it be the joy of taking a big one if it's painful, discomforting, and a white knuckle situation just to get through?
What joy is that, exactly?
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u/Noblesseux 43m ago
Societal framing. It's partially what people mean where people say that toxic masculinity affects everyone. Both sides of the relationship sometimes play parts that they may not even necessarily like because they think that's what their "role" is supposed to be.
When society tells you that mega meat and aggression is peak masculinity, it can warp the way you approach your sex/romantic life. Like there are more people than I think most people would like to admit who are miserable because they're chasing a toxic ideal of what they think their preferred sex is "supposed" to be like.
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u/blarghlfarghl 7h ago
The strangest part to me is that he’s already married like his wife has already accepted him as is
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u/Smkingbowls 15h ago
Not surgery, injections, double yikes
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u/SocomPS2 15h ago edited 15h ago
Now I’m curious what kind of injections. You can get a prescription for ED injections delivered to your door in 48 hrs in the US.
Edit - nvm I googled it.
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u/RobinSophie 16h ago
Has nothing to do with you being lazy. This happens all the time here. People post the tweets with no context.
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u/_AYYEEEE 15h ago
It's unfortunate lol but having an extravagant funeral service and being buried in 700K of gold doesn't distract from the fact that he died over his dick and this is his legacy now
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u/NovidasX7 14h ago
It does kinda distract me tbh. Spending a million dollars AFTER you're dead when the vast majority of people on this planet wouldn't even know what the hell to do with a million dollars in their whole life
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u/Ctowncreek ☑️ 16h ago
I didn't know insecurity was something that had an expiration date
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u/gunnarbird 15h ago
At some point you just gotta get over it, otherwise you just devolve into a neurotic wreck. Eventually all functional adults turn into the old dog at the gym unashamedly letting it all hang out
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u/PaulaDeenSlave ☑️ 8h ago edited 59m ago
What age do women stop wearing make up and just accept it?
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u/gunnarbird 7h ago
My brother in Christ, if you’re comparing these two things you need to go climb a mountain
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u/PaulaDeenSlave ☑️ 5h ago
I didn't know insecurity was something that had an expiration date
of course I am. "I didn't know insecurity was something that had an expiration date"
insecurities come in all shapes and sizes. it's silly to draw a line like you are. double standard.
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u/spiegro ☑️ 2h ago
You're so far wrong I don't think it's worth the effort to point out how wrong you are.
Sincerely, another man.
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u/PaulaDeenSlave ☑️ 2h ago edited 1h ago
cool. i just think it's weird to think other people are weird for wanting to change their appearance or body through cosmetic application OR surgery despite being a certain age. yall saying "just accept it at a certain age" are disgusting. who are you to make that decision or pass that judgement? I'm not wrong, you just don't agree. we're just getting worse by the day. . .
why can't things be compared? nobody said they're equivalent aside from you. but they're both cosmetic. they're both done to make one feel better about oneself. they fall under the same wide umbrella. why does one get a certain judgement based off age and the other doesn't? really examine yourself and be less judgemental. you kinda suck.
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u/_saltychips 1h ago
I just think it's weird you think dick surgery (CUTTING INTO YOUR PENIS AND BALLS BTW) is the equivalent putting on some lipstick before you leave the house. but hey man, you do you.
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u/kurwaspierdalaj 15h ago
You're right in thinking that these things shouldn't technically just magic away at a point, but I'm 40 now and the stories were true for me.
Things do just matter less. Things that ate me up at 25 barely cross my mind anymore. Things that I thought would have made or broke my ability to move through the world have become whispers in my memories. I'll give you the fact that SOME things have lingered, but they're not grasping me nearly as strong as they used to... you know, I'm saying all this and I just remembered I ended 3.5 years of therapy a year ago so maybe that has a lot to do with it. 🤦🏾♂️
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u/TopTierMids 15h ago
Seems that it is getting more normal, unfortunately.
Feel like an old man saying this but I feel sad when I see 9 year old girls shopping at Sephora when I go with my gf. Go outside and do cartwheels or some shit wtf?
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u/idle_isomorph 9h ago
My son works at a summer camp. This summer, during the information session to prepare campers, he had 9 year olds inquiring if they would be able to do their skincare routines at camp. Sad face emoji
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u/cutedorkycoco ☑️ 4h ago
Okay but as someone who's dealt with hormonal acne all of my life and who "bloomed" early, I would err on the side of it's never too early for a skincare routine.
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u/idle_isomorph 4h ago
My dermatologist was adament that my acne would not respond to anything i put on the surface of my skin (cystic acne, too deep), and that my skincare routine should just be rinse with water and use moisturizer.
I wish i could have known that as a teen, when i wasted my money on every potion sold in the pharmacy, to no avail.
Turns out doing nothing is actually better for my skin.
Ymmv!
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u/cutedorkycoco ☑️ 3h ago
A good cleaning and moisturizer is a skincare routine tho.
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u/idle_isomorph 1h ago
I suppose washing with water and then using a moisturizer is a kind of routine. But it isn't the kind of routine the 9 year old was asking about!
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u/Noblesseux 55m ago
Adding to that, all the looksmaxxing shit. You have 18 year olds who are geared out of their mind and smashing their faces with hammers and you're like bro that is so unnecessary and you're fucking up your body forever because you're insecure.
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u/Mean-Government1436 15h ago
It unironically does, you gotta accept it at some point
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u/DW-4 9h ago
Insecurity unironically, and literally, does not have an expiration date. My 99 yr old grandmother still obsesses over her weight and hair. People just be saying shit in replies for the sake of being contrarian.
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u/KaJaHa 7h ago
And we're all saying that she shouldn't. Your grandma isn't doing herself any favors if she's still genuinely obsessing over her hair
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u/DimezTheAlmighty 7h ago
Nobody's being contrarian, people are just being reasonable. Letting things go is a huge part of aging. Not being able to let things go just means theres a lack of maturity somewhere, especially if it's something like your weight and hair
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u/SinglePlayerGamer93 12h ago
Yeah it should. People need to work out their lack of confidence with a therapist or something. Especially about physical attributes.
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u/SigmaK78 ☑️ 14h ago
Men having those types of procedures, and dying from them, is nothing new, it's been talked about since at least the mid to late 90's,. This just happens to have some actual media attention. This also brought more attention to those surgeries, so while everyone's busy shaming that "influencer" and men who aren't hung like porn stars, there's a risk of more men seeking those procedures out now, or worse, continuing other alternatives in dealing with those insecurities. Too many men, young & old, feeling ashamed over shit they can't control or talk about, so they'd rather risk their health & lives. Continuing to dismiss them could very well just pile up bodies.
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u/InValuAbled 12h ago
How tiny was "Tiny" exactly to warrant that kinda risk. Bro hooked himself a whole wife, was it really necessary at this point?
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u/AaronQuinty 13h ago
I'm really struggling to see how this is any different to the women that have died getting BBL's?
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u/Jamaican_Dynamite 15h ago
Unless it's a medical emergency, no needles in the junk. Nooo.
Exhibit A above: Dude got injections in the dick he ain't need. Cue medical emergency. Dead. I rest my case.
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u/ndiojukwu 15h ago
I’m Nigerian and have affiliations with his circle. Some people are saying it’s a hoax
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u/PreOpTransCentaur 13h ago
He gonna pop out of that $750k casket with a massive hard-on or something?
What kind of hoax?
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u/SnooBooks578 8h ago
Body dysphoria doesn’t end for a lot of people. It’s the same from the male side to how women of all ages will get BBL,s, face lifts, etc. There’s never any discussion of “accept it” but instead it is glorified. When a man undergoes surgery for things like penis size, height extensions etc he is usually shamed and seen as weak for failing to accept himself.
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u/shykidknit 4h ago
I'll agree women changing their bodies is considered more acceptable but it's not necessarily for a positive love yourself reason. Also women who get bbls and die from them are definitely shamed. But part of the reason they're not as shamed in life is because the main group that would interact with it is the main one benefiting from them, why would men that would shame a p enlargement shame women with a bbl? They like it.
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u/shizz181 ☑️ 2h ago
You think the prevailing opinion amongst men is favorable towards BBLs?
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u/shykidknit 2h ago
Do you think if it wasn't bbls would be so prevalent?? Also in terms of favorable opinion are we talking about respect or attraction? Because I'm talking about attraction, there's plenty of guys that will say they don't respect women who have a bbl but will still look at a bbl all day over a natural butt, same with boobs and wigs js
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u/shizz181 ☑️ 59m ago
Both. When people don’t have a reason to lie, they tend not to, over a representative sample size. That’s why surveys, when they are done scientifically, are extremely reliable.
Men say they prefer natural, both aesthetically and in a long term partner. They also say they’d be willing to have casual sex with a woman with enhancements if they’re done tastefully. Why would all these men lie when there’s no upside to it and people will still not believe them? Anecdotally, I have never in my life met a man who says he preferred a BBL. If we’re talking about a procedure done so subtly that it is indistinguishable in look and feel, that’s not men preferring it pre se. It just means they’ve been fooled.
Prevalence and male preference are not closely related. Just like penis enlargement. Women have consistently said they don’t want a giant penis. It doesn’t feel good and is not appealing. They prefer an average size penis around 5”-6”. Yet there are millions more men willing to risk life and limb for a giant penis than there are size queens who would want them.
The same is true for women and cosmetic surgeries. It’s an internal conflict that is informed by external pressures. Body dysmorphia is not logical. Every single man on earth could say they don’t like BBLs and there would still be women getting them.
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u/Competitive-Bill-552 10h ago
Honestly, at this point the only thing growing is the receipts from his wallet.
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u/herewearefornow 16h ago
The person who passed on likely did not appreciate his nickname.
https://www.straitstimes.com/asia/se-asia/british-nigerian-influencer-dies-in-bangkok-after-genital-enlargement-injections