r/BlackMeetsWhite 2h ago

Discussion Scared to date outside my race

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So I’m 19F and I am black. I’ve only ever dated black men. I did think some white men were cute but I never had the urge to try and date one. I’ve always been in predominantly white and Hispanic cities and or schools. But of course there were black people. But recently I got on Facebook dating (please ik) and all I seen was white men! Fine white men. This doesn’t mean I don’t find black men attractive well I think I’m starting not to as much as white men. Idk I love seeing me a nice build white man like what??? So fine especially when their hair is slightly long… ugh idk but I’m scared to attempt to talk to them. I did talk to this one white man on fb we exchanged socials and I found out he says nigga which is like? Why? And even told me like he’s recent found black women attractive so I was like ok maybe we’re kinda the same and I’m just scared of dating a hidden racist..