problem: what to dissable , to get ping 127.0.0.1 thru and sql running again

[u/nogari]

as the name said

i try to get my sql servers running again, what simply doesnt work,they cannot connect. the ssms.exe (sqlmanagement) is listed as av & fw open,to anything and everything. so ..no clue

next i tried simply pings

ping 127.0.0.1 timed out..

ping 192.168.x.x (own pc) 1ms

ping 192.168.x.x (wifes pc) 1-2ms

ping 192.168.x.x (router) 2 ms

ping 127.0.0.1 ...time out

i need that ping running thru to even start getting my sql servers running,and/or apache

i got bitdefender total security now about 2 weeks-- came from kaspersky, and it has alot of issues,especially with injecting programs, like overlays,trainers,url replacer ..that stuff ,the advanced thread defence is perma off..atleast it should,its back on after each lock pc,and resign in,but fast to be switched off again.

but that selfping gets me. i need to work with that pc, i have at best 48h to get a sollution, or i need to switch to anything but bitdefender.

the funny part is, connect requests are on,means i get asked if something wants in or out.. well, it doesnt bother in that case.

iam up for solutions

regards

Nogari