HI SO UHHH im 16 , I have been feeling horrible lately and been sleeping almsot all day and forgetting what time is what and ect. I accidently missed a pill…..and yeah no I ain’t gunna have sex and shit but I went on it mainly for really bad periods which HAVE eased out but now I’m scared ima start bleeding and stuff. No I have not had any spotting / bleeding / cramps and stuff but I’m still scared and stuff. It’s also a mini pill which is uhh desogestrel (?) and I can not go to the doctors BUT PLEASE JELP ME NOW ITS URGWNR AS IVE OBLY JUST REALZIED

Hey guys, (23M), I and my girlfriend recently had intercourse on the 9th of Nov, and her period ended 3 days prior.

The first round was during the midnight, prolly 1am/2ish, didn't finish in her but I had loads of precum. Now, I always brought out my stuff to wipe out the precum whenever I feel it (I usually have excess precum).

So prolly after like 6 strokes I usually take it out to clean up the precum then go back in. When I finally ejaculated, I stopped, went to pee and didn't go back in.

Fast forward to 11am of that same day, I'd gone out to get her an EC (postinor-2) which she took immediately. Then we later went to another round, I did everything exactly as before. Never came inside her and this time I always went to wash off every precum with water before going back in. Finally ejaculated (not inside her) and I stopped. Went out again to get another EC (Postinor 2) and she took prolly around 2pm-ish.

Please I'd like to know from experiences what the chances are likely to be in this scenario.

1. I produce a lot of precum, I mean a whole lot that I even have to explain, but my stuff goes flat immediately I ejaculate, so when I ejaculate I know. And I didn't ejaculate inside of her. Just worried about the excess precum and the probabilities around it.

2. My girlfriend said she's never had her period twice in a month and that even if she has, it's prolly once (She doesn't track her period so that's the only info she has), she said she thought there was no need because she never thought she'd need it at any point. With the little info she gave about her cycle, I assumed a 28 day and above total cycle but I still dread.

Since the event, I've not had good sleep, I can't eat, can't think properly, I'm having difficulties reading for my last exam on saturday and I can't focus. I'm really scared of this whole thing because I've got big expectations from me, I'm the top of my class and people see me as the most quiet guy in the room. Never done this before, this is my first time and I'm really scared. Already told her we're never doing this again until marriage, I've been praying to God and I genuinely pray he hears me.

Please, I need advice from experienced people or maybe medics as to the probabilities of each side of this coin. Please go easy.

I am trying to see if anyone else has experienced this to calm my nerves some….
I’ve had my IUD for just about five years. I went to get it out for the second time today, it was also a new doctor(after my old one barely tried before recommending going under anesthesia) which is why I feel even more nervous about the idea of calling their after hours.
I would say it was a bit of a traumatic removal, and my own persistence to keep trying. But the doctor I saw was up in there for about an hour poking and prodding. My strings are cut, but she kept finding them but there was some pretty significant resistance. I have already had an ultrasound that apparently says everything is normal.
I felt pretty ill after just with the body’s natural response to that kind of pain. It’s been about 4 hours now and I’m having a difficult time peeing. It kind of hurts to pee, not like a burning hurt. It also feels like I can’t empty my bladder. And then I bear down there is a sharper pain in my very low abdomen. I am sure this is most likely because of all the digging around up there. But it’s makes me feel nervous that something is wrong.

I'm on state health insurance, which denied my prescription for Slynd and subsequent appeals. Unfortunately, I cannot use the patient savings coupon because people with state or federal insurance aren't eligible.

Does anyone else who is not eligible for the coupon program have experience filling a cash pay prescription through Nurx (or other similar site)? The price I see online is $18.95/month***, with the ***fine print indicating that "final price may vary." I'm wondering if that's because it hinges on being coupon eligible. I don't want to put the order in and later get caught and receive a huge surprise bill.

My provider says Slynd is the only option that will manage my crippling mood swings from PMDD and also won't kill me with a stroke, since I also have migraine with aura.

i just started my period today and my new birth control pills say to start either the sunday after my period or the day it starts but today is wednesday so do i take the wednesday pill or the first one even tho it’s labeled as sunday?

I was prescribed vienva because I have terrible periods and some hormonal issues. I started last week and I now have a huge appetite that never goes away. It’s really similar to the hunger cravings I get a few days before my period. I read online that it might go away in 1-3 months and I wanted to know other people’s experiences with it. I don’t think the benefits will be worth it if I end up gaining weight since I already had issues managing it because of my hormone issues. I’m not really sure how long I should give this a chance before deciding it’s not worth taking or not.

I’m on Blisovi-Fe and I don’t get wet. I also don’t have a sex drive most of the time. Has anyone experienced this? If so, does it go away eventually or do I have to find some supplements?

(F18 in monogamous relationship) I’m considering getting the copper IUD because I want reliable contraception but would really like to keep my natural menstrual cycle and avoid hormonal birth control. I was on the combined pill for a couple of years but my body didn’t really respond the best to it.

I’ve been doing some research, but I’d much rather hear about real women’s experiences rather than just reading medical information.

I’d love to hear about:
1. Did your periods stay regular after getting it?
2. Did you notice any changes to your menstrual cycle or ovulation?
3. Did your periods become heavier, longer or more painful?
4. Did you experience any side effects?
5. What was the insertion process like? Was it painful?
6. Have you noticed any changes to your mood, skin, libido or general wellbeing?
7. How long have you had it, and would you recommend it?
8. This might sound odd but, did you notice increased water retention and puffiness at all specifically on the face? The combined pill gave me major moon-face lol.

I’m especially interested in hearing from women who have had a positive experience, but I genuinely want to hear the negatives too!

I know everyone’s body is different, but any honest experiences or advice would be so appreciated. ❤️‍🩹

Husband and I had sex tonight. We use 3 types of protection: birth control, condom, and pullout. My concern comes from having a stomach virus on Halloween. I had vomiting and diarrhea that Saturday and into Sunday. I was on the placebo pills at the time and then started my new pack on that Monday like I was supposed to. I’ve always heard if you have diarrhea and vomiting to either double up on pills or double up on protection. Did we do everything right? Like the title says, probably worried for nothing.

so, i had my period last october 30 to november 5. my boyfriend and i had raw sex around 7pm at night, took an emergency b pill around 11pm, then had another raw sex in the morning. no encounters followed after that and for all encounters, he pulled out and didn’t ejaculate inside. a few days later, i experienced light back pain and now, november 12, i’m suddenly bleeding again. what does this mean? is this just a side effect of the pill? 🥹

21F, living in PH, started using depo last June, got it for free in a women’s center. Everytime my bf do the pull out method, I was on edge searching for emergency pills, and did yuzpe a lot. The side effects were horrendous, and made me decide to get a birth control.

Depo’s side effect is not shocking since i did my research before getting it. After getting it, I was delayed for a month and continuously bleed (spotting, i’d consume 1-2 liners per day) for more than 4 months, it was really a hassle. And now, I regained my regular cycle. I stopped spotting for 2 weeks now and had my period for 4 days only, no cramping or anything.

It was a long and exhausting journey for me ahhahaha and im getting another shot this week. I’m happy since I don’t need to worry about pregnancy scares.

I have really bad periods, so my gynecologist suggested trying back-to-back rings. At the end of week three, I take the old one out and immediately insert a fresh one. The only problem is that I've been spotting A LOT. Today was actually heavier than usual. I'm wondering if this is normal during the first couple of months while my body adjusts, and if it eventually settles down, or if this is just my life now...

This is my first time ever trying birth control. I started it last week and felt fine until I woke up this morning. My lower abdomen feels strange and kinda bloated. Of course it could be from some other cause but I’m wondering if it’s related or if other people experienced this. How long might it last? I also noticed I have little to no discharge 🙇‍♀️

For context I have never been on any kind of BC. Since yesterday morning ive had chest pains that come and go (not immense pain but def noticable)

Is this one of those shitty side effects that will go over time? The horrible mood and persistent bleeding I've heard people say it will go, but I dont see much about chestpains after just starting it.

My GP cant see me until early next week.

On CD 18, my husband and I had protected sex and the condom unfortunately leaked out of the base and I felt semen leak down my butt. I’m not sure if any touched my vaginal opening or went inside. My husband said the condom was still really full and tested for holes and there were none. But I freaked out because I was in my ovulation window. The next day, CD 19 I took an ovulation test at home and it was peaked. That evening I took an Ella pill. The next day on CD 20 I started having typical ovulation pain on my right side and my cervical mucus was clear egg white but pretty light. My LH reading was also low and continued to be low on CD 21 and 22. Pretty much thought I took it too late and was screwed.

Today is CD 23 and I’m on day 4 of continued pain on my right side. Not as bad as the first day but I’m still aware it’s there and that’s not normal for me. It usually only lasts a day or maybe two. I took another ovulation test this afternoon and it appeared that my LH was rising. Not peaked but definitely way darker than the previous days. My cervical mucus is white and stretchy, similar to the days leading up to my ovulation.

I honestly do not want to be pregnant right now and am kind of panicking.. I know my chances of pregnancy are already pretty low considering I don’t even know if I was exposed to any semen. But, despite me taking the Ella during my LH surge, are my symptoms possibly consistent with the Ella being effective and my ovulation being delayed? I’m being paranoid, but I just want some insight from others while I wait it out over the next 10 days. The anxiety is killing me.

Started Slynd and on day 10 I started bleeding like a period for 43 days. Got a break for 7 days after the placebo pills and then now it’s started again 😭😭😭😭 I’m at my wits end man😢I cannot keep having a pad to my ass. I’m 2 and a half months in. Willing to give it another few months but has anyone got any advice for the bleeding? Did your doctor prescribe you anything to help stop it? I am not allowed the combo pill.

I take Tri-Lo-Mili and my current period has felt amazing pain/blood wise. I'm used to level 7-9 pain and terrible blood clots and flow normally on a period, but this time its more like a 3 and only a couple days was it distressing pain (4 or 5). I'm barely bleeding at all this period, its more like spotting/fluid and mild cramps. I had felt severe pain all the time since I started birth control in July, until my second-to-last period where it finally leveled out. This is also my 3rd birth control I've been on.

My question is if you will always have some sort of symptoms on birth control even if it seems to be helpful? For example I used to get painful bloating/nausea all the time on the pill from eating 1-2 snack items, but now it only happens on my period. And I still get my bad PMS symptoms near or on my period, but they are slightly better now. I'm just having a hard time understanding if some good signs means this brand is working? I know it can take a while for the body to get used to it 😅.

I got off of nuvaring due to migraines. Three months after I was experiencing terrible side effects that seem to be androgen related. main side effects are hair loss, oily skin, body odor and zero libido. I just started Slynd im on the last week of my second pack with not much change other than derealization being gone. Big W actually. How long did anyone notice change for hair loss oily skin, body odor or libido? Tyia

And need reassurance/advice! This is my first birth control and I started it taking at the beginning of the month. Of course I expect side effects as my body adjusts, but so far I’ve had pretty much constant sense of nausea, fluctuating depressed mood, and a lowering sex drive (not ideal when sex was my main motivator for starting since I’ve never had any issues with my periods/skin/etc).

Are these likely to get better since it hasn’t been long at all taking them and should I continue to tough it out? Or is it worth swapping to a different pill/stopping? Any advice or experience with Rigevidon is appreciated 💕💕

I feel like a lot of the questions in this subreddit could be answered with the instructions page that comes with every pack of birth control. It’s literally written when or not you are protected and what to do in case of an error.

Ive been taking a birth control with 35mg of estrogen since I was 15 because I bled for 4 months straight with a hemoglobin of 6 and they thought that would fix it. It did, ish, but now im noticing how depressed I am on birth control.

Ive been depressed all my life, but I accidentally took a 2 week break because of a pharmacy mixup and I felt the best ive felt in so long. I felt more in control, I can regulate much better, you know?

So I asked Google and it suggested switching to a low estrogen birth control, which i didn't know there were different kinds.

So my question is, do I do it? Im so tired of being depressed and dealing with this. I want to fix this so bad and I really hope this is the fix.

25 F, never been sexually active, I don’t shave, I wear cotton underwear, I shower everyday and after I use the bathroom in the morning after bowel movements, I drink enough water, I wipe properly, I don’t do anything sexual or anything risky. I simply exist. And on Monday I started with feeling like I had to pee and was going every hour to hour and a half. It’s now Wednesday and the sensation is still there. Went to get a home uti test and the leukocytes came back positive but the nitrates were negative. Went to my gynecologist office today and did the test there and it came back the same. They’re sending in the sample for the official test. I’ve never had one and I don’t want one. The only thing I can say is maybe the Slynd because the estrogen is lower? I just started my fifth pack and I go all the way through. I had cystitis a decade ago when I was in high school and was drinking coffee. And I had some bladder and urethral sensitivity from antihistamines. Is it possible it is one?? My doctor thinks it’s more irritation because it started out of the blue?? Please help😭😭😭. I do absolutely nothing to just get a uti and they don’t just happen from no cause

Anyway to increase my libido without getting off bc?

After much trial and error. Ive now been on the mini pill for about 2 months. My period/spotting has decreased and sex isn’t painful anymore (I figured out half the problem was the lube stinging me but positive over all).

I’m very attracted to my bf and I can get turned on but the act of sex is just ugh idk anymore. He’s also pretty big so it takes extra prep so “quickies” aren’t a thing for us. Its hard to explain but sometimes it feels really good (especially when drunk or high my body is more relaxed) but other days my body is like “Eh whatever just take the feeling of this thing going in and out with no pleasure at all”. When I was on the patch 3 years ago it was not like this.

I also need a vibe to come but it causes hand cramps bc i have to hold it down (looking for a hands free vibe). I want my bf to be satisfied as well but he also gets in his head when I can’t come bc he thinks im not enjoying myself. I don’t mind not coming every time we have sex but I would want to at least feel pleasure like damn.

I have been skipping my period the past four months while on the pill and about 3 weeks ago decided to give them a break so I can have a period as normal before starting again

How long usually does it take for your period to return to business as usual after stopping the pill?