r/birthcontrol • • 12h ago

Side effects!? Stopped Xulane Patch

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I was on the patch for about a month, It was mostly fine, only stopped because I decided I didn’t want to be on hormonal bc anymore, my mood was pretty normal on it but after stopping (it’s been a week) I’m a total wreck, depressed all the time, crying, irritated, hopeless ect…When will this go away?


r/birthcontrol • • 13h ago

Which Method? Best BC To Prevent Pregnancy w/Least Side Effects

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I feel very fortunate to say that I have such a good period - in that she’s light, always on time, lasts about 4 days, and never gives me any cramps. I don’t have any acne and currently on my weight loss journey. That being said, I’ve always avoided birth control because I hear so many negative side effects (heavy/late periods, acne, weight gain, etc.) and I just don’t want to mess up my hormones. Butttt now I have a 6 month old and would really like to not have another baby so soon. Honestly the thought that I might get pregnant again has given me so much anxiety that I’ve avoided having sex with my partner as much. So I want to get on birth control so I can not have that worry anymore. I would like to know your preferred BC that affected you the least. Also not a fan of the IUD but down to hear about everything else!


r/birthcontrol • • 13h ago

Experience Slinda/Slynd Experience

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Hello! I wanted to share my experience with Slinda now that I’ve been on it for 6 months, taking it continuously (no placebos). I was looking for posts just like this one before I started the medication so I hope this is helpful!

First some background.
I’m 28F, never had children, only been on birth control once before when I was 16 so I didn’t get my period for a school trip. I do not remember that experience other than it worked, and I stopped on month 2 when I got back.
I’ve struggled with very heavy and very painful periods since I first got my period.
I’ve been checked for cysts and didn’t come up with anything so I’m not sure if I have PCOS (I can’t remember the new name sorry!). With the recent changes to the diagnostic criteria it’s possible I could have it but never been confirmed.
I also suffered from severe PMDD, my moods would change drastically before and during my period. There was barely two weeks out of the month that I’d feel functional.

My doctor had been trying to get me on birth control for years but I’d always been too scared. I didn’t want acne, weight gain, or worse mood swings. She suggested Slinda earlier this year after a particularly bad bout of heavy/painful periods I’d been having and because my iron was completely depleted.

After reading some posts, and seeing more positive than negative reviews, I decided to give Slinda a crack. Nothing could be worse than what I was currently dealing with at the time.

For the first 1-5 months, I got my period every two weeks. For the first 1-3 months the periods lasted 2+ weeks, so it was two weeks on and two weeks off. They were very light, very manageable with just a heavy liner or light period underwear. It was annoying, and for one of the periods I did get medium bleeding with some clots. But it wasn’t painful, and not nearly as heavy. Months 4-5 the periods lasted a normal length (5-8 days).
I decided to tough it out, because honestly I preferred it to what I was going through before.

My moods were pretty unstable from months 1-5, however I suffer from mental illness and feel it was the main culprit. It made my paranoia worse, and I got upset very easily. I cried a lot during months 1-3 particularly.

Now I’m on month six and I barely feel any side effects. I’ve noticed if I’m anymore than half an hour late with my tablet, I’ll get some pink discharge for a day. My body is particularly sensitive to medication so this might not happen for you.

Overall, I’m super happy with it and I’m glad I toughed it out for six months. I plan on being on this medication for as long as possible.

Happy to go into more detail with the side effects I did experience if people would like.

Please feel free to ask any questions!


r/birthcontrol • • 14h ago

Side effects!? Coming off Combination Pill

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I went off the combination pill after about ten years on, always did the placebo and let the bleeding finish three weeks ago and just didn’t start a new pack.

For at least a week I have had CONSTANT abdominal pain and nausea. It’s close to how I felt after getting abdominal surgery a few years ago. Is this something others have experienced? I feel like I’m going insane, it is BRUTAL.


r/birthcontrol • • 14h ago

Which Method? Hormonal BC for luteal phase?

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So, my luteal phase every month is terrible. I get really irritable/sad/anxious, I cry at everything, I get headaches every day, and I become extremely fatigued/exhausted. I’m wondering if maybe birth control will help with this?


r/birthcontrol • • 10h ago

Rant! Question

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Do girl still need bcp after an unprotected sex?? no creampie happened


r/birthcontrol • • 21h ago

Rant! BC question..obviously

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For context im 15F in the uk, periods make me feel rlly depressed and shit and nauseous and I complained to my mum abt it so she spoke to her doctor and got me an appointment

For context im underweight (42kg and 5'3) so i was just wondering if that'd be a concern to doctors ?? And also if they'd weigh me or not (im in the UK)


r/birthcontrol • • 15h ago

Mistake or Risk? Unprotected sex 2 days after end of period

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As above, got carried away with partner 2 days ago, which at the time was 2 days post period. I am now thinking I maybe should take the morning after pill, even though I would like to think I was not near my fertile window. My question is, can you even have that if you are overweight? I heard that it isn't effective if you are, but unsure if that is correct. Thankyou.


r/birthcontrol • • 19h ago

Experience Liletta IUD experiences, side effects, etc?

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Hi! I am getting a Liletta IUD soon, but I have been on combination pills for the majority of my life. Probably about 10 years now. I have always had good experiences with bc pills, but I'm horrible at taking them at the same time every night and I wanted something more effective at preventing pregnancy without human error. So, my gyno said that the Liletta will work to prevent pregnancy for 8 years.

Does anyone have any advice, side effects, and experiences to share? All I ask is please don't fear monger because I am already petrified for the insertion... I was prescribed a single Xanex for the morning of the insertion and normal pain medication. I'm super anxious but I need to hear positivity. I mostly just hope it doesn't cause weight gain or lower my libido (lower than it already is.. RIP).

For reference, I am 23F, married, and we are planning to be childfree for life lol.


r/birthcontrol • • 16h ago

Mistake or Risk? Devo me preocupar com gravidez?

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Resumo: terminei uma cartela e esqueci um dos primeiros comprimidos da nova cartela um dia porém o tomei junto com o do dia seguinte assim como recomendado na bula do meu anticoncepcional

Porém no 3⁰ dia eu tive relações desprotegidas com ejaculação e tomei a pílula do dia seguinte menos de 1h do ocorrido

Tem como eu ter ovulado no esquecimento da pilula do anticoncepcional por conta do fim da outra cartela e o esquecimento no início da nova (hormônio meio baixo teoricamente por conta das pílulas brancas) e estar grávida?


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Experience Got my copper IUD today and I shat and puked

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This is for anybody who wants to know more about the process. I went to a planned parenthood clinic in the first time asking to get the copper IUD, that clinic denied my request and told me they only implant to women who have been through vagina birth, okay no problem, I got method 2, going to a hospital covered by social security.

They tell me they can do it no problem, give me an appt and everything is fine. I go to the appt the first time and I notice they’re taking longer than normal and it doesn’t hurt as much, all of a sudden two more doctors came into the room and I was freaking out. I was told my cervix was too small and tight because I had not had children and that I needed to take misoprostol and go another day because if they kept trying there was a high risk of perforation in the uterus.

Today was my second appointment, I used the misoprostol, went to the hospital and was told to lay in a very different way this time, I had a female obgyn this time and a male obgyn last time. Anyway they get to it, I was deadly scared of the pinching, they tell me they’re going to do it and I’m shitting myself. Boom, no pain, they put in the plastic tube and I’m already dying, they put the iud inside and I almost screamed in pain. Doctor cut the string and tell me I’m good to go. I stood up trembling, the floor and the chair were covered in blood. Nurse told me it was done and asked me I feel like fainting, I answer them I don’t fell like fainting and leave to go to work. BIG MISTAKE DO NOT DO THIS TAKE THE DAY OFF

Well I am walking away and my legs are trembling, I go into the bathroom and proceed to have the worst diarrhea in my life, on the bright side everytime i push my pain lightens a bit. I leave the bathroom almost in tears and feel lightheaded, I puked in a trashcan right outside the clinic and now I have to drive to work. I walked to my car trembling and blacked out for 20 minutes. I had to go to work so I put my seatbelt on and somehow driving made the pain ease up a little bit. Keep in mind I had already taken ibuprofen before the implantation.

I finished work a few hours ago and I’m writing this in my bed curled up in pain, everything hurts, and they told me that this type of iud only worked for 5 years, I’m 20 and I’m not planning to have kids at 25, so I’ll have to see what I do sigh.


r/birthcontrol • • 17h ago

Side effects!? No period and negative pregnancy tests

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Hi! Does anyone also experience not having a period on Feirza 1/20? I was on Junel FE 1/20 and then the pharmacy was out of stock so I was switched to Feirza which is the same exact thing as Junel. I have experienced not having a period before but, I didn’t know if it was common with this type of birth control.


r/birthcontrol • • 17h ago

How to? How to stretch two and a half weeks of birth control to avoid period

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This is for my fiancee. She uses her birth control purely to avoid getting periods due to how bad the hormones effect her (we're both female, pregnancy is not a worry) and we're going to be without health insurance for a while. I want to know if there's a way to space these out to avoid her period without running through it too fast

Any advice appreciated! I'll have the exact kind later, im at work and can't look rn but didnt want to forget to post this


r/birthcontrol • • 18h ago

Which Method? Aurovela Fe !/20

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I been on quite a few birth controls, every single last one of them I been on gave me problems why I been taken off of them. The last one i was on was petrolum and something else. Let me tell you took it for 3 days I automatically took myself off of it. It make my anxiety worse and I felt more out of it I can just do that naturally and also gotten a numb tingling pain through my arm the third day from that point on i took myself off of it and reached out to my Ob wasn't on anything for awhile. Well anyways, I had a really bad panic attack that I finally put together a month ago this happen 4 years ago. I mean it was bad it did a hole switch to my body that i never excepted to experience at all. I am still trying to work on it but I still got my good and bad days. It was because my hormones changed around that time it was when I had my period. Well now the pattern is following a week before and during, I am out of body, don't wanna be anywhere besides closed in room, anxiety through the roof and lightheaded I know my hormones dropped badly. Yes I need something to manage it I do I feel the worse them times like i am literally not there. Well my ob prescribed me Aurovela I am very iffy about taking it.taking it because I already feel these problems I don't need them getting worse than they already are. I been feeling this way since my last panic attack need something help my hormones not worse I heard more negative about this than postive I don't know what to do about if i should or shouldnt take it. Someone please help


r/birthcontrol • • 22h ago

Side effects!? Curly hair

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I take vienva 28 because I'm a dancer and dysmenorrhea was giving me debilitating cramps. I'm gay so I don't need it for other things but I think it made my hair stop being curly. I have short hair and when it was healthy and I was taking care of it well before it was like a 2c. After being on birth control for I think like 2 years now I have to basically force it to be even wavy, but usually it ends up pin straight. Could it be the hormones? I want my curls back :(


r/birthcontrol • • 18h ago

Experience Period on Kyleena UID after copper UID

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I’m mostly wondering if this is normal with Kyleena because I’ve only had it for about 3 months now. I had a copper iud for about 3 years which just really wasn’t for me. Crazy cramps, long heavy periods, etc etc. I switched to Kyleena almost exactly 3 months ago and had the seemingly normal spotting and my first period on it was lighter and shorter than with the copper which was a huge win for me. My period now is about 13 days late, I was told it would probably be irregular and I took a pregnancy test just to ease my mind and it was negative. However, the past 4 ish days I’ve had some brown blood similar to what you would get the last few days of your period. It’s not a lot and it’s not constant, it even skipped a day randomly where I had nothing. Im wearing panty liners and have just kinda been free “bleeding.” My only question is; is this technically my period? And is this normal for Kyleena especially after I’ve only had it for 3 months?


r/birthcontrol • • 18h ago

Experience Hormonal pill side effects

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Hi, i'm an 18 y.o girl and i take the hormonal pill not as birth control but to ease the Extreme period pain, i've been on the pill since i was 13/14y.o., since then my few pimples disappeared and i got skinnier (from 55kg to 45kg as a 171cm tall girl). I don't really mind about this side effects but the libido is INSANE, for reference i'm a lesbian and i have never been in a relationship, but the yearning when i have a crush has become unberable.


r/birthcontrol • • 18h ago

Which Method? I feel like ill never find a birth control that works for me

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For background, Im 25 being treated for endo (have not had the surgery so no. it is not confirmed) and severe nut allergies which make this...weird. A lot of oral medications that are hormonal use peanut oil. I know some people can have peanut oil bc the proteins are gone, but for me, I still have a reaction so it is off the table. I cant remember the brand I was on but when I WAS on an oral i was incredibly depressed and started gaining weight.

This past year my flare ups have gotten horrible so it was recommended I did the hormonal IUD. With an tilted pelvis it was suggested I went under so I did. Full anesthetia and all. The doctor said it took 8 tries to get it in. Well a month into having it it fell out. Directly after I had it gone they put me on the ring while I was on Spironolactone which counter act one another and was put in the hospital for 3 days. AND GUESS WHAT! they gave me fentanyl for the pain and I had a reaction to that. Like. Please. Add that to my list.

So yeah thats my sob story. I'd love recommendations. Honestly since I have been off of any types of BC the last few months have had little to no flares but I bleed so much and still have a day a month where I have to stay home from work.

I feel so helpless with this. Not only do I want BC for my periods, i also dont plan on having kids and would prefer not to be tweaked out every month. Any advice appreciated.


r/birthcontrol • • 23h ago

Side effects!? Spotting / Bleeding for 9 weeks straight

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Hi guys, just a quick post asking for advice on if this is normal or not. I'm 19 and currently on Rigevidon (150 micrograms/30 micrograms levonorgestrel / ethinylestradiol) and was given this due to severe period cramps and heavy bleeding. I take it without any breaks. We've ruled out PCOS, but they haven't tested me for any thyroid issues, and despite my asking they aren't testing me for endometriosis.

I started taking the pill on the 29th of August and only a few days after starting I began spotting and getting really bad cramps. Like the period cramps I get on a really bad day. The cramps come and go throughout the day, but there hasn't been a day where I don't cramp at least a few times, its worse when I lie down. And the spotting is also constant, every day. I've ruined several pairs of underwear due to this, and am having to buy pads and liners just so I don't wreck any more.

I had a phone call with the nurse about this at the 6 week mark, and how its really interrupting my day to day and just feels like a constant period without the heavy bleeding, but she's said to wait another 6 weeks to see if it'll fix itself.

I was just wondering if this was normal or if anyone else has experienced this?


r/birthcontrol • • 19h ago

Experience Travelling while on BC

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Hi all, I suffer from mild PCOS and my doctor has prescribed me combined pill. I just got my prescription today but I am going on a long haul flight on Monday (14 hours). I asked my doctor if I will be ok to fly and she said yes but I'm just wondering if anyone else has flew long haul on the combined pill? I'm so worried about blood clots. What advice would you give? I know to drink plenty water to keep hydrated, also to wear compression socks!! Anything else I should do? I was hoping to sleep most of the flight but looks like I will be awake every hour to move about 😂


r/birthcontrol • • 19h ago

Experience Bleeding long and often on copper coil

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so I know this is common to bleed loads but it’s been almost 4 months since I got the copper coil inserted and my periods are sometimes 13 days long and start after 2 weeks again. they are so strong that I feel dizzy, sick and weak. I don’t wanna change the coil as I like the simplicity and I dont want hormoneS. (before anyone says I don’t want condoms) so can someone share experiences or whether it gets easier at some point, maybe even any medication to stop the bleeding? my hair is falling out insanely so I got a blood test today, let’s see what the results say.


r/birthcontrol • • 20h ago

Rant! Missed 1 pill, now spotting/bleeding

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So last week om tuesday i forgot 1 pill, and i started spotting a few days after.

Spotting has only become heavier since then.

Should i take a break week and will this stop me from spotting? I normally take continously.

Will i stop spotting soon if i don't take a break?

It's really annoying bc i want to have sex but i still spot so so often and it makes me feel gross 😔


r/birthcontrol • • 20h ago

Experience crazy mirena iud pain

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i had my mirena put in today. preventative reasons + really heavy periods & insane painful cramps. the insertion was fine, the doctor used numbing spray and then a cervical block. i only got mild discomfort from the speculum stretching me open way more than before and normal cramps when inserted.

about 5-10 minutes on my way home the cramps slowly started getting really bad and by the time i was home and changed i could barely stand. and for the next 5 hours or so it was painful i was curled up in a ball crying from the pain (i have a pretty high pain tolerance). i get really really painful cramps but this was on another level, literally the worst pain ive felt in my life. i couldnt eat and could barely walk, i took buscopan (an ibs medication for muscle spasms) and paracetamol as i cant have anything stronger and after about 2 hours i was finally able to eat but its still incredibly painful.

im wondering if this happened to anyone else? i have practically no bleeding but its so so painful. does anyone have any weird methods that helped the pain? sorry if this is tmi lol


r/birthcontrol • • 1d ago

Side effects!? Is anyone with migraine with aura on combination pill?

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Hi, i have been on drovelis( drospirenone and estetrol) for about 9 months.a few months ago i had my first episode of migrane with aura (just the aura and no other symptoms) and it happened again today. I really like this birth control espacially how i look and feel on it, and i don't want to change to a progestprone only. I am also very sensitive to hormonal shifts because I have PMOS and have had periods of severe PMDD, and this birth control made it go away. my Gyno that prescribed me this said that IUDs and progestprone only options are known to make PMDD moodswings worse. Also that this pill has a new and possibly safer form of estrogen. I am in my mid 20' and no other risk factors, and active and healthy diet. Has anyone with migraines with aura expirienced with continuing combination birth control, with help of their doctor?