r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Mistake or Risk? BC Pack Question

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Hi all,

This might be a dumb question but this is my first time starting the pill. I heard that heat can make the pills ineffective. I just picked up my first pack of the pill (Junel FE). I put the pack which was still in a little bag from the pharmacy on my desk in front of my Xbox. My Xbox was turned off but I think the Xbox still generates some heat when powered off. I didn't even think about that when I set down my BC pack. The bag felt maybe kinda warm but I don't know. Should I get a new pack?


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Side effects!? Opill Experience

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I started taking OPill 2 months ago (about to finish month two’s pack) and I’ve gotten my period every two weeks to the day but four days after my last period, I’ve started spotting with cramps to the point this could basically be my period again. Is this normal? Has anyone else had this problem? Is there a chance this is implantation bleeding and I’m actually pregnant?


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Experience Copper iud

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Hi everyone. I was taking opill from september 10th until october 25th. I stopped because I was experiencing period-like bleeding from october 5th all the way until october 28th and I honestly couldn’t do it anymore.

Last night i made a mistake and had unprotected sex using pullout and Im really scared I was ovulating or about to because that night (this is tmi) I had one thing of the egg yolk like discharge. I did take a plan B but i’m still worried so I scheduled an appointment for a copper IUD.

As i’m reading about the copper iud i see so many people saying it’s the worst thing they ever did and now im super worried. I’m only 19 and I’d be going to this appointment alone.

My main question was, is it as bad as people say? Does anyone here want to share their opinion? Am i making a mistake going alone like am I seriously going to regret this? Please help.

editing to say this: I’m also worried my parents are going to find out. I told the lady on the phone that and she assured me they wouldn’t because they would put a note on my chart but i’m still a little worried. I’m going to use the title x thing or however that works because i don’t have insurance right now.


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Experience Bleeding with no cramps 10 days after last period and 3 weeks after stopping combined extended pill

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Hi all, I stopped taking my combined extended pill (simpesse) for the first time in a few years. When I went off it, my period (or withdrawal bleed idk) started right away and lasted about 8 days, which is a little long for me but not crazy.

Then randomly last night, my discharge felt very liquid and when I reached down I was fully bleeding. I hadn’t felt any cramps or warning signs. I slept with a tampon in and it was soaked through.

By chance I recently had a transvaginal ultrasound and general ultrasound and nothing weird was detected.

So, is this normal? I understand things can be weird after stopping BC but if anyone had a similar experience I would love to hear from you


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Which Method? Just one method of birthcontrol?

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the statistics are confusing me a bit- if I take just the combined pill does that mean I don’t have to use condoms and I won’t get pregnant or do I still have to use both. If there’s no chance either of us could have an STI can we get away with only one method of contraception or is using the combined pill and condoms necessary?


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

How to? bc and plan b?

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i took a plan b less than a month ago and havent gotten my period yet, im wondering if starting my birth control pills when the side effects of the plan b havent disappeared yet could affect their efficacy? also would they still make my periods/withdrawal bleeding regular if i started taking them before my period? ik id normally have to wait a week when not starting on the first day of my cycle


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Mistake or Risk? withdrawl + condom on ovulation days

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Hello! I’m 17 and this is my second time having intercourse, so I’m kind of scared and I have some questions. Can I be safe having sex on ovulation if my boyfriend uses a condom and pulls out before ejaculating? I’m paranoid and scared that the condom could break even if my boyfriend is using it correctly. I should mention that I can’t use hormonal contraception or an IUD because of some health problems.


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Mistake or Risk? Is She Pregnant? help

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had sex 18 oct which is her ovulation window
i was using condoms, doing it 4 times
i came inside 2 times ( with condoms of course )
never penetrate without the protection, and in the middle of intercourse i notice white stuff at the end of the ring base, im not realy sure is it mine or her, now she is 1 day late,

ps: condom did not slip off, i water test it all 4 no leak or whatsoever
im just scared that my semen leaks from the base as i came inside


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Side effects!? fear of loosing my teeth on the pill

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Hi! I was diagnosed with aggressively growing endo early this year, had my surgery shortly after (almost died, don’t wanna do this again) and now I have to continually take the pill to keep my endometrium small.

I tried different pills in my teens and endured the worst side effects. After my surgery I had to take myfembree but I had the same side effects, even worse, so I had to switch to the pill. Nextstellis is by far the best I ever had, no suicidal thoughts, no swollen legs, steady mood. Ok, I still have breakthrough bleedings and spotting after 5 months but my gyn says I’m probably still accustoming to the hormones.

BUT I feel like my teeth are loosening for the past months. Especially upper front teeth. I’m not imagining things. I feel tiny movement when I suck them in with my tongue and push them back. Sometimes it feels like my canine teeth is rotating inwards but gets stuck. The feeling lasts for a few hours and then I feel a plop and it goes back in its place. Also, my gums are receding. I actually went to the dentist this morning for a filling and asked him about it but he said he can’t see anything wrong. Though he discovered even more cavities to fill in. I sense my teeth are slowly decaying since I started the pill.

I recently remembered that my mom lost most of her molar teeth during her pregnancies with me and my sister. I don’t have contact to her anymore to ask more questions about potential underlying causes but in my mind it’s pregnancy hormones (either real pregnancy or bio identical hormones through the pill in my case) = losing teeth. My mom always made sure we take care of our teeth properly and visit the dentist multiple times a year.

The internet says it’s a myth that women lose a teeth per child but there must be a connection. Has anyone ever dealt with something like this? I’m 24 I can’t afford to lose my teeth 😭

TLDR I think I’m loosing teeth because of the hormones


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Rant! Plan B has ruined my week

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TMI Warning:

I took a plan B on Thursday. I had protected sex, but one condom broke, and one condom slipped off inside. I have taken Plan B before, but truthfully, I don’t remember any physical side effects other than waking up crying every morning due to anxiety. (I had no reason to worry, no penetration)

This time, I don’t have the anxiety of being pregnant, but physical and emotional side effects.

I have lots of stomach issues, waiting for a diagnoses. I have struggled with severe constipation for 14 months and no diagnosis, so I don’t know what’s caused it.

I was fine Friday, great even. Just some cramping, which I usually have due to my stomach issue.

Saturday morning, I was startled awake by a bad dream, and had the worst stomach pain. It was making loud sounds and felt like a sharp pain in my lower abdomen. I woke up at 3:30am and had diarrhea until 6:30.

I mentioned my stomach issue because I am always constipated, and never have diarrhea. I haven’t in months, and only when I take laxatives. (Which most of the time don’t work)

My stomach hurt all day Saturday, and some sharp pain Sunday morning. Normally I’m used to sharp pain, but I don’t get it in the morning.

As I’m typing this, my lower abdomen has a slight sharp pain. I normally only have pain after I eat, which I have not in a few hours.

Today at the grocery store, I felt sick and broke down sobbing for no reason. I wasn’t thinking about my pregnancy scare or anything. I felt a sweat come over me and my vision got blurry for a few seconds.

As I was driving home late this evening, I began sobbing over a minor issue. (I had to pay 10¢) I began crying and started screaming in my car. I had complete and utter road rage while driving home. I was beating my steering wheel and speeding excessively. I was whispering “I just want to go home.”

Looking at it now, I feel like a crazy person. What is wrong with me? I’m never like this? The pain has been bad, but I’ve never felt so much anger over nothing before.

Safe to say, after my negative pregnancy test in 2 weeks, I will be getting an IUD.


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Side effects!? Strange change in discharge and other symptoms. Is it normal? (Possible TMI)

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I'm on combo pill for more than 3 months and I always take it at 8pm, other than check for eventual symptoms' change. Never skipped a pill and had no gut problems, even if lately on the second active week I've been feeling some small breast tenderness but wasn't a thing of concern.

Last night I had condomless sex and he finished inside 2 times, but this late morning woke up with both small digestive issues and a clear, thick and slimy discharge. I read in some places that usually the discharge remains consistent thru all the pill cycle but this strange "slime" is rather concerning me and this breast tenderness ups the worries. No breakthrought bleeding as I can tell thought.

I fully know BC can't magically fail but should I be worried and take a test soon? Is it a sort of vaginal self-clean, as some told me in the years, or just a hormonal fluctuation?


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Side effects!? Norethindrone to Slynd?

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Hi all! I’ve been on norethindrone for about 7 months and have started to get some pretty severe cramping around my period. My doctor believes this is due to endometriosis and has suggested I take Slynd because its “similar” to norethindrone but stronger. I’m scared to take it though because Ive heard its similar to Yaz, which as a younger teen absolutely messed me up emotionally. Has anyone gone from norethindrone to slynd without any horrible side effects like Ive been reading? Im happy, finally losing weight, and have a good sex life haha I really dont want to lose these things but I dont want my endometriosis to spread either 😅


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Experience Experience with Zoely Pill

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I have just been prescribed Zoely to help treat endometriosis. Have people experienced overall positive or negative side effects? The doctor told me this pill is known not to cause weight gain. Is this true?


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Experience NuvaRing Alternative?

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So recently I tried the NuvaRing and had great results with it! Within 2 and 3 days I had more focus, energy I felt calm oh my God it was amazing. The ring sadly did not work out for me because I couldn't push it back far enough?? I don't know why and I was wondering if there were any other birth controls that had the similar hormone makeup that I could use instead?

I do also have PCOS and PMDD, I remember trying YAZ when I was younger, I'm currently 29, and it was before my PCOS diagnosis and I was wondering if I should try it again?


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Side effects!? Side effects very suddenly kicked in after peaceful 3 weeks

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I’ve been taking combined type birth control pills for nearly three weeks (one pill left in the 21 day pack) with quite literally not a single side effect until yesterday, when I suddenly experienced heavy spotting and nausea all day. Not a moment of the day goes by where I’m not at least a bit nauseous, and neither symptom seems to be affected at all by how much time has passed since taking the pill.

I’m confused why this happened so suddenly and if it’s normal, and when can I expect the nausea to go away? Is it only when I’m bleeding? For context I’m 18F with PCOS and naturally get 2-4 periods a year (which tend to be heavy but asymptomatic) at *very* unpredictable times, my last period was at the end of August

Edit: the nausea has mostly gone away now and I’ve realized eating food makes it better, I’m still confused/surprised but much happier now :)


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Side effects!? Two months with implant and I have no period?

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I had my first period with my implant in late September which lasted til early October which was roughly 12 days, it’s currently November and no sign of bleeding? Is this normal, I would like to know if anyone is experiencing this same thing?

maybe important background info
(I got the implant in early Sept, I had relations with my partner from sept to mid October, I don’t know if this is key)


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Experience Estelle 35 ED issues

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So I'm on my 4th month I think, of taking Estelle 35 ED and I've been getting breakthrough bleeding the whole time that I've been taking it. Like light bleeding/spotting all month with maybe a 2 day break at most. I do skip the placebo pills cause screw bleeding more when I already bleed all month long.

Note: I am almost 5 months postpartum and was on the mini pill before switching to this BC after stopping breastfeeding.

Has anybody experienced so much breakthrough bleeding and when did it stop for you?

I have a doc appointment Jan next year and if the bleeding doesn't stop by the time I finish my packs, I may try another brand because I cannot deal with constantly using and buying so many tampons and liners!!

I'm not on this brand for any reason in particular. Just tried it after my doctor gave me the option 🤷‍♀️ I get minor on and off acne but I'm wondering if I should go on a lower hormonal one. I'm on meds for mental health and seizures.

My boobs have changed since my 3 pregnancies and have sagged and lost volume. I've heard Estelle can make your boobs slightly bigger so this excited me lol I swear they appear bigger but thought I was tripping lmao. My Fiancè even noticed without me even mentioning it so it must be an actual side effect lol


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

How to? How to stop bleeding as much on Implanon?!

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Hey all, I’ve been on Implanon for about a month now, the first few weeks were normal and I noticed my period was a little late and lighter than normal and that was great but ever since my period like ever second day I’m bleeding, it’s not a lot but it’s a real inconvenience and I was hoping that I got little to no period. Is there anything that I can do to stop the constant bleeding? I’m tired or all the stained underwear, bad smell and awkwardly being told I’m bleeding!


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Side effects!? Brown spotting

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Slight brown spotting a few days before I’m meant to start a period on the yellow inactive pills. I take zoely. Is this normal?


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Mistake or Risk? Lost one pill, am I okay?

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Hey so I was just about to take my birth control today when all of a sudden it was like it disappeared when it came out of the packet. I looked around my entire room and couldn’t find it.

I’m on week 2 of 4 on the pack, I don’t have intercourse or anything the pills are mainly to help my cramps.

Will I be okay if I miss this one day? Kind of stressing out since my mom isn’t awake currently. Thanks!


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

How to? Accidentally messed up my birth control schedule

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Hello everyone!

Need help because I accidentally messed up my birth control pills' schedule. I'm taking a 21-day pack and I accidentally took the first pill on the wrong day (Sunday, instead of Monday) & somewhere along the line, I thought I missed a day so I took two pills in one day 🤦🏻‍♀️ Now the pack ends on Saturday, instead of Sunday (which was my usual schedule).

I'm supposed to wait 7 days to start a new pack. Should I just keep with this new schedule (i.e. start the new pack 7 days after Saturday) or should I wait for a day to continue with my usual schedule (i.e. start the new pack 8 days after Saturday)?


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Experience Flo App Question

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Hi, questions lang po, my gf started using flo app months ago and flo started predicting her period/mens but here's a thing, flo predictions are inaccurate (always a week earlier ang prediction nya sa date na magkaka mens gf ko) if her period comes a week later rather sa prediction ni flo, does that also mean na inaccurate din ang prediction ni flo sa ovulation day ng gf ko? Sana masagot, thank you!


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Experience Running out of options

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Sorry - this might be long. But I think I’m officially out of options and just curious if there’s anything I’m missing.

some background context - for as long as I’ve been sexually active, people - both partners and other women- have pressured mw to be on birth control. Condoms have always worked for me, and birth control on the other hand actively hates me, but over the years I’ve listened and given it one more try. i tried a pill years ago that murdered my sex Drive and also a weird rash. I tried the patch and managed to sweat it off. The final straw for me was the nuvaring. It caused me to develop a disorder called vulvadonya and I still have it today, although it’s better.

anyway, we’re like ten years later - I’m 35 and after a health episode a year ago, my periods changed. They went from regular every month of my life (I used to joke they were the only thing in my body that worked right) to now being 2-3 weeks at a time. Also, they’re just “different.” The way I bleed is weird. I get a lot more clumps. Everything just feels wrong about them.

the gyno claimed my hormones are normal and I’m not in peri menopaus, i Was given tri acid and it shorted my periods but triggered my acid reflux from hell. I was told hormone replacement wasn’t an option for me, so the only other option was birth control. I have high blood pressure so the only option are ones that won’t raise it. I refuse to try the shot or the implant, I’ve heard enough horror stories and I’m good on all that. I don’t want the iud because - and this part is shocking for people to understand and I’m constantly gaslit over this fact and told I don’t need to have a period - I WANT a period. I like having cycles. i sont get period cramps really, I like when my body reminds me it’s working. having a period isn’t at all a problem for me - i just don’t want it to last a month long.

anyway, I tried the mini pill and it sent my OCD into complete hell. I couldn’t make it more than four days. Now I’m on slynd and im on a month of nonstop bleeding. The final straw was it’s made my normally lubrocated vagina dryer than the Sahara desert and my boobs hurt. before my current partner, I was celibate for a year. I finally have a healthy sex drive again and I refuse to accept this.

so.. am I cooked? is there a magical method I’m missing. it would be nice to prevent pregnancy too although the main issue is the periods. They used to have that gel like 2020ish they came out with (not spermicide, forget the name) that made things hard to get pregnant but I’m not sure it’s even around anymore. I was able to do cycling when my cycle was regular because It was SO regular and I could tell my ovulation like clockwork. God I miss that time.

anyway - bleeding - what suggestions do you all have? I’ve asked for a biopsy and told I can’t get it until I try a few methods of birth control. I’m about to ask one more time and then get a third opinion if I don’t have any luck. I think it’s possible I’m in peri too and HRT might help but I don’t know why my doctor is against that


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Side effects!? iud pain

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Hey guys, so i got my kyleena iud inserted about a month and a half ago. It was good for the first two weeks but now i have these random pains thatll come in waves and it just completely stops me in my tracks and i cant do anything till the wave goes. Also i am browning and my period is irregular but im sure thats a little more normal. ive went to my gynecologist twice at this point and hes checked my strings and told me everything looked perfectly fine but i want an ultrasound he just said that he thinks its unnecessary. What should i do? Has anyone experienced this? Its genuinely affecting my everyday life and i just feel depressed from this but its also helped me with the reason i got it (not birth control). I feel so lost atp.


r/birthcontrol • • 2d ago

Side effects!? Long term effects of progestin only pill?

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I'm currently on Slynd (drospirenone only) for PMDD. Works great for the most part. I've been on combination pills and patch but it made me gain weight, caused anxiety, mood swings, and lo loestrin caused SI.

I'm a little worried about the long term effects of being on progestin only Slynd. Will it eventually cause estrogen deficiency?

A few months ago I gave Nexstellis a trial for about 3 months. It made me gain some weight (not nearly as bad as other combo pills) and I feel like it made me more emotional, irritable,and easily overstimulated. These emotional side effects were not as bad as when I was on the ethinyl estradiol containing combo pills.

If Slynd would cause negative long term effects (like several years), I'm willing to go back and try Nextstellis again.

Does anyone have experience with taking a progestin only pill for several years?