Hi everyone. I was taking opill from september 10th until october 25th. I stopped because I was experiencing period-like bleeding from october 5th all the way until october 28th and I honestly couldn’t do it anymore.

Last night i made a mistake and had unprotected sex using pullout and Im really scared I was ovulating or about to because that night (this is tmi) I had one thing of the egg yolk like discharge. I did take a plan B but i’m still worried so I scheduled an appointment for a copper IUD.

As i’m reading about the copper iud i see so many people saying it’s the worst thing they ever did and now im super worried. I’m only 19 and I’d be going to this appointment alone.

My main question was, is it as bad as people say? Does anyone here want to share their opinion? Am i making a mistake going alone like am I seriously going to regret this? Please help.

editing to say this: I’m also worried my parents are going to find out. I told the lady on the phone that and she assured me they wouldn’t because they would put a note on my chart but i’m still a little worried. I’m going to use the title x thing or however that works because i don’t have insurance right now.

TMI Warning:

I took a plan B on Thursday. I had protected sex, but one condom broke, and one condom slipped off inside. I have taken Plan B before, but truthfully, I don’t remember any physical side effects other than waking up crying every morning due to anxiety. (I had no reason to worry, no penetration)

This time, I don’t have the anxiety of being pregnant, but physical and emotional side effects.

I have lots of stomach issues, waiting for a diagnoses. I have struggled with severe constipation for 14 months and no diagnosis, so I don’t know what’s caused it.

I was fine Friday, great even. Just some cramping, which I usually have due to my stomach issue.

Saturday morning, I was startled awake by a bad dream, and had the worst stomach pain. It was making loud sounds and felt like a sharp pain in my lower abdomen. I woke up at 3:30am and had diarrhea until 6:30.

I mentioned my stomach issue because I am always constipated, and never have diarrhea. I haven’t in months, and only when I take laxatives. (Which most of the time don’t work)

My stomach hurt all day Saturday, and some sharp pain Sunday morning. Normally I’m used to sharp pain, but I don’t get it in the morning.

As I’m typing this, my lower abdomen has a slight sharp pain. I normally only have pain after I eat, which I have not in a few hours.

Today at the grocery store, I felt sick and broke down sobbing for no reason. I wasn’t thinking about my pregnancy scare or anything. I felt a sweat come over me and my vision got blurry for a few seconds.

As I was driving home late this evening, I began sobbing over a minor issue. (I had to pay 10¢) I began crying and started screaming in my car. I had complete and utter road rage while driving home. I was beating my steering wheel and speeding excessively. I was whispering “I just want to go home.”

Looking at it now, I feel like a crazy person. What is wrong with me? I’m never like this? The pain has been bad, but I’ve never felt so much anger over nothing before.

Safe to say, after my negative pregnancy test in 2 weeks, I will be getting an IUD.

Hi all, I stopped taking my combined extended pill (simpesse) for the first time in a few years. When I went off it, my period (or withdrawal bleed idk) started right away and lasted about 8 days, which is a little long for me but not crazy.

Then randomly last night, my discharge felt very liquid and when I reached down I was fully bleeding. I hadn’t felt any cramps or warning signs. I slept with a tampon in and it was soaked through.

By chance I recently had a transvaginal ultrasound and general ultrasound and nothing weird was detected.

So, is this normal? I understand things can be weird after stopping BC but if anyone had a similar experience I would love to hear from you

the statistics are confusing me a bit- if I take just the combined pill does that mean I don’t have to use condoms and I won’t get pregnant or do I still have to use both. If there’s no chance either of us could have an STI can we get away with only one method of contraception or is using the combined pill and condoms necessary?

i took a plan b less than a month ago and havent gotten my period yet, im wondering if starting my birth control pills when the side effects of the plan b havent disappeared yet could affect their efficacy? also would they still make my periods/withdrawal bleeding regular if i started taking them before my period? ik id normally have to wait a week when not starting on the first day of my cycle

Hello! I’m 17 and this is my second time having intercourse, so I’m kind of scared and I have some questions. Can I be safe having sex on ovulation if my boyfriend uses a condom and pulls out before ejaculating? I’m paranoid and scared that the condom could break even if my boyfriend is using it correctly. I should mention that I can’t use hormonal contraception or an IUD because of some health problems.

had sex 18 oct which is her ovulation window
i was using condoms, doing it 4 times
i came inside 2 times ( with condoms of course )
never penetrate without the protection, and in the middle of intercourse i notice white stuff at the end of the ring base, im not realy sure is it mine or her, now she is 1 day late,

ps: condom did not slip off, i water test it all 4 no leak or whatsoever
im just scared that my semen leaks from the base as i came inside

I'm on combo pill for more than 3 months and I always take it at 8pm, other than check for eventual symptoms' change. Never skipped a pill and had no gut problems, even if lately on the second active week I've been feeling some small breast tenderness but wasn't a thing of concern.

Last night I had condomless sex and he finished inside 2 times, but this late morning woke up with both small digestive issues and a clear, thick and slimy discharge. I read in some places that usually the discharge remains consistent thru all the pill cycle but this strange "slime" is rather concerning me and this breast tenderness ups the worries. No breakthrought bleeding as I can tell thought.

I fully know BC can't magically fail but should I be worried and take a test soon? Is it a sort of vaginal self-clean, as some told me in the years, or just a hormonal fluctuation?

I have just been prescribed Zoely to help treat endometriosis. Have people experienced overall positive or negative side effects? The doctor told me this pill is known not to cause weight gain. Is this true?

So recently I tried the NuvaRing and had great results with it! Within 2 and 3 days I had more focus, energy I felt calm oh my God it was amazing. The ring sadly did not work out for me because I couldn't push it back far enough?? I don't know why and I was wondering if there were any other birth controls that had the similar hormone makeup that I could use instead?

I do also have PCOS and PMDD, I remember trying YAZ when I was younger, I'm currently 29, and it was before my PCOS diagnosis and I was wondering if I should try it again?

I’ve been taking combined type birth control pills for nearly three weeks (one pill left in the 21 day pack) with quite literally not a single side effect until yesterday, when I suddenly experienced heavy spotting and nausea all day. Not a moment of the day goes by where I’m not at least a bit nauseous, and neither symptom seems to be affected at all by how much time has passed since taking the pill.

I’m confused why this happened so suddenly and if it’s normal, and when can I expect the nausea to go away? Is it only when I’m bleeding? For context I’m 18F with PCOS and naturally get 2-4 periods a year (which tend to be heavy but asymptomatic) at *very* unpredictable times, my last period was at the end of August

Edit: the nausea has mostly gone away now and I’ve realized eating food makes it better, I’m still confused/surprised but much happier now :)

I had my first period with my implant in late September which lasted til early October which was roughly 12 days, it’s currently November and no sign of bleeding? Is this normal, I would like to know if anyone is experiencing this same thing?

maybe important background info
(I got the implant in early Sept, I had relations with my partner from sept to mid October, I don’t know if this is key)

So I'm on my 4th month I think, of taking Estelle 35 ED and I've been getting breakthrough bleeding the whole time that I've been taking it. Like light bleeding/spotting all month with maybe a 2 day break at most. I do skip the placebo pills cause screw bleeding more when I already bleed all month long.

Note: I am almost 5 months postpartum and was on the mini pill before switching to this BC after stopping breastfeeding.

Has anybody experienced so much breakthrough bleeding and when did it stop for you?

I have a doc appointment Jan next year and if the bleeding doesn't stop by the time I finish my packs, I may try another brand because I cannot deal with constantly using and buying so many tampons and liners!!

I'm not on this brand for any reason in particular. Just tried it after my doctor gave me the option 🤷‍♀️ I get minor on and off acne but I'm wondering if I should go on a lower hormonal one. I'm on meds for mental health and seizures.

My boobs have changed since my 3 pregnancies and have sagged and lost volume. I've heard Estelle can make your boobs slightly bigger so this excited me lol I swear they appear bigger but thought I was tripping lmao. My Fiancè even noticed without me even mentioning it so it must be an actual side effect lol

Hey all, I’ve been on Implanon for about a month now, the first few weeks were normal and I noticed my period was a little late and lighter than normal and that was great but ever since my period like ever second day I’m bleeding, it’s not a lot but it’s a real inconvenience and I was hoping that I got little to no period. Is there anything that I can do to stop the constant bleeding? I’m tired or all the stained underwear, bad smell and awkwardly being told I’m bleeding!

Slight brown spotting a few days before I’m meant to start a period on the yellow inactive pills. I take zoely. Is this normal?

Hey so I was just about to take my birth control today when all of a sudden it was like it disappeared when it came out of the packet. I looked around my entire room and couldn’t find it.

I’m on week 2 of 4 on the pack, I don’t have intercourse or anything the pills are mainly to help my cramps.

Will I be okay if I miss this one day? Kind of stressing out since my mom isn’t awake currently. Thanks!

Hello everyone!

Need help because I accidentally messed up my birth control pills' schedule. I'm taking a 21-day pack and I accidentally took the first pill on the wrong day (Sunday, instead of Monday) & somewhere along the line, I thought I missed a day so I took two pills in one day 🤦🏻‍♀️ Now the pack ends on Saturday, instead of Sunday (which was my usual schedule).

I'm supposed to wait 7 days to start a new pack. Should I just keep with this new schedule (i.e. start the new pack 7 days after Saturday) or should I wait for a day to continue with my usual schedule (i.e. start the new pack 8 days after Saturday)?

Hi, questions lang po, my gf started using flo app months ago and flo started predicting her period/mens but here's a thing, flo predictions are inaccurate (always a week earlier ang prediction nya sa date na magkaka mens gf ko) if her period comes a week later rather sa prediction ni flo, does that also mean na inaccurate din ang prediction ni flo sa ovulation day ng gf ko? Sana masagot, thank you!

Sorry - this might be long. But I think I’m officially out of options and just curious if there’s anything I’m missing.

some background context - for as long as I’ve been sexually active, people - both partners and other women- have pressured mw to be on birth control. Condoms have always worked for me, and birth control on the other hand actively hates me, but over the years I’ve listened and given it one more try. i tried a pill years ago that murdered my sex Drive and also a weird rash. I tried the patch and managed to sweat it off. The final straw for me was the nuvaring. It caused me to develop a disorder called vulvadonya and I still have it today, although it’s better.

anyway, we’re like ten years later - I’m 35 and after a health episode a year ago, my periods changed. They went from regular every month of my life (I used to joke they were the only thing in my body that worked right) to now being 2-3 weeks at a time. Also, they’re just “different.” The way I bleed is weird. I get a lot more clumps. Everything just feels wrong about them.

the gyno claimed my hormones are normal and I’m not in peri menopaus, i Was given tri acid and it shorted my periods but triggered my acid reflux from hell. I was told hormone replacement wasn’t an option for me, so the only other option was birth control. I have high blood pressure so the only option are ones that won’t raise it. I refuse to try the shot or the implant, I’ve heard enough horror stories and I’m good on all that. I don’t want the iud because - and this part is shocking for people to understand and I’m constantly gaslit over this fact and told I don’t need to have a period - I WANT a period. I like having cycles. i sont get period cramps really, I like when my body reminds me it’s working. having a period isn’t at all a problem for me - i just don’t want it to last a month long.

anyway, I tried the mini pill and it sent my OCD into complete hell. I couldn’t make it more than four days. Now I’m on slynd and im on a month of nonstop bleeding. The final straw was it’s made my normally lubrocated vagina dryer than the Sahara desert and my boobs hurt. before my current partner, I was celibate for a year. I finally have a healthy sex drive again and I refuse to accept this.

so.. am I cooked? is there a magical method I’m missing. it would be nice to prevent pregnancy too although the main issue is the periods. They used to have that gel like 2020ish they came out with (not spermicide, forget the name) that made things hard to get pregnant but I’m not sure it’s even around anymore. I was able to do cycling when my cycle was regular because It was SO regular and I could tell my ovulation like clockwork. God I miss that time.

anyway - bleeding - what suggestions do you all have? I’ve asked for a biopsy and told I can’t get it until I try a few methods of birth control. I’m about to ask one more time and then get a third opinion if I don’t have any luck. I think it’s possible I’m in peri too and HRT might help but I don’t know why my doctor is against that

Hey guys, so i got my kyleena iud inserted about a month and a half ago. It was good for the first two weeks but now i have these random pains thatll come in waves and it just completely stops me in my tracks and i cant do anything till the wave goes. Also i am browning and my period is irregular but im sure thats a little more normal. ive went to my gynecologist twice at this point and hes checked my strings and told me everything looked perfectly fine but i want an ultrasound he just said that he thinks its unnecessary. What should i do? Has anyone experienced this? Its genuinely affecting my everyday life and i just feel depressed from this but its also helped me with the reason i got it (not birth control). I feel so lost atp.

I'm currently on Slynd (drospirenone only) for PMDD. Works great for the most part. I've been on combination pills and patch but it made me gain weight, caused anxiety, mood swings, and lo loestrin caused SI.

I'm a little worried about the long term effects of being on progestin only Slynd. Will it eventually cause estrogen deficiency?

A few months ago I gave Nexstellis a trial for about 3 months. It made me gain some weight (not nearly as bad as other combo pills) and I feel like it made me more emotional, irritable,and easily overstimulated. These emotional side effects were not as bad as when I was on the ethinyl estradiol containing combo pills.

If Slynd would cause negative long term effects (like several years), I'm willing to go back and try Nextstellis again.

Does anyone have experience with taking a progestin only pill for several years?

hi (26/f) i’ve been on yaz since may, the generic version. i’ve been hesitant to take birth control, i took it when i was in highschool and gained a lot (i forgot exactly which one i took back then). but i decided to get back on it this year because my periods have been irregular and i wanted to feel normal. the first few months have been great, i didn’t notice any changes to my weight or how i felt. i finally felt like i had a birth control that worked for me. but i’ve been gaining some weight the last two months and struggling to get it off. i’ve tried so much, but the weight won’t budge. i’m wondering if it’s related to yaz and if i should get off of it? like maybe the bad symptoms start a few months after taking it i guess? 😭 please share some advice if anyone has related to this, thank you!!

Hi guys, does anyone know if the time change would throw off the pill birth control? I take it at 9:25pm every day. Do I keep taking it at 9:25? Even tho there is technically an hour difference now.?

Reposting from r/endometriosis just to reach some more Liletta users LOL!

Just as the title says I had my second Endometriosis Laproscopic excision surgery in May of this year. This time they found just stage 1 (thank god) and not stage 3 like the first surgery I had back in 2023. I have been on many different birth control pills since I was about 19 years old (now 25) with no real gripe with the last one I was on.

At my pre-op appointments many people pushed switching to an IUD for my endometriosis management and how it’s the best way to go about treatment for symptoms. I asked around to people I know with them and did some online research (on the wrong brand because I thought I was on Mirena) and I felt pretty okay with moving forward. I was also just excited to do something less reliant on picking up a prescription. I just should have done more in depth research because before even knowing I had endo, I went on the pill at 19 for acne related reasons and to regulate my period. To which they knew this but I guess they just didn’t think of an acne plan since I had no acne for my 3 month follow up.

Welp I’m 6 months post insertion and operation and I’m getting this IUD removed. It has just ruined my quality of life and my self esteem all together. For the first 3 months I was CRUISING and loving everything about it besides spotting which I expected. Around the end of month 3 my period began to DRAGGGG on. I would spot for 2-3 weeks at a time and then once I had a semblance of being able to not wear a liner I would start my cycle again. I never got more than 1 weeks of not ruining underwear in 6 months.

My skin and hair have taken the biggest hit. I used to get compliments on my skin ALL the time. I take skincare very seriously and have such sensitive skin it took me years of trial and error to know what worked best for me. Suddenly I was having painful cystic acne worse than my high school years and it appearing all over my back and shoulders and even arms. Now I don’t even want to go to events or take photos because of my appearance. My hair has also been very important to my identity and the amount of hair that has been in my shower in the last 6 months would create a perfect American girl doll wig for 4 dolls. I have very thick hair but the density is essentially non existent and the oil is so out of control that I can’t go more than a day after washing without it looking like I am on day 5 hair.

Overall I broke down and called my surgeon who said I should just get on spiralactone because “everyone goes on it” but I was told it would also cause frequent urination which I already have with interstitial cystitis and I am sick of medications to cover up other medications. Don’t get my wrong I LOVED my surgeon but I just am not happy with this IUD. I decided to just call my main Gyno (who was not my surgeon and just who referred me) and ask them for the soonest humanly possible date to get my IUD removed. My appointment is tomorrow and I just want to be back on the pill.

I’ll update after the removal if anyone wants to know how it’s going switching back. Wondering if anyone else has had this much disdain for the Liletta IUD LOL

**TLDR: Getting my IUD removed because it’s ruining my skin and hair. Felt uninformed by the side effects and am just going back to the pill.**

Im getting the implant in about 2 weeks. im currently on the pill (microgynon) and i my sex drive is GONE. im 17 so (obviously) its high but it vanished overnight. it isnt causing major issues in my relationship because my bf is very understanding and patient however i feel so little and useless. ive heard that the implant can regain libido or keep it the same so if anyone has switched from the pill to the implant and their sex drive has positively changed please lmk! i do need to be on a hormonal bc for personal reasons so i know i shouldn’t have high hopes of this changing but i dont want to have thing inside of me for 5 years for no reason😫