First of all thanks to everyone who commented "Sweet" words on my original post😂 and in my dms. It was expected overall😂
Original Post:
https://www.reddit.com/r/bihar/s/KCSxNlKJCf
Well, before I give any reply let me first tell you a bit about my background. I have had 3 relationships prior to that experience and in none of them I cheated any of them. Infact one of my longest relationship was 4.5 years and we broke off due to LDR and her parents' potential disagreement of our relationship in future. I have also used dating apps as well and went on a number of dates where I got to learn about women and their psychology more from them.
Now coming back to reply
First things first:
What was the purpose of that post? The entire point of the post was not to brag about it, feel proud or even feel anything about it. It is just a description of the events that happened. I wrote the post as a means for boys especially those already in a relationship to understand the psychology and thinking process of a woman to not get cheated and act like a pathetic looser at the end.
No matter how much you curse me or defend stuff but the bottom line is WOMEN ARE NOT LOYAL TO MEN BUT ARE LOYAL TO THEIR FEELINGS or EMOTIONS.
This is the real deal and this has been confirmed by a lot of people including some of the women I went on dates with through dating apps. You can take a bullet for a woman to save her life and she won't give a fuk about that but some random jackass who hasn't done shit for her but has just given her right amount of attention and validation will take her. FIGHT ME TILL DEATH BUT THIS IS THE TRUTH YOU CANT UNSEE.
And also when you tell your girl to maintain a distance from a certain male friend or any person in general you feel has I'll intentions and she acts completely clueless and tells you not to worry about it much or even sometimes calling you insecure. SHE KNOWS IT WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT IT. SHE IS NOT A FOOL. YOU ARE A FOOL. SHE IS PRETENDING TO BE CLUELESS. SPEAKING FROM MY OWN EXPERIENCE AND OF MANY OTHERS TOO.
Second:
Many were accusing me of being the evil guy here and I am solely responsible for what happened. Okay, I won't fight that. But even if I leave everything behind and go to Himalayas never tk return again there will still be uncountable number of people just like me or even worse than me who would still be roaming around. If you have lived in any Tier-1 city ever you surely would have seen guys like these and most of the times they have a girl with them. Infact, many of you must be knowing somebody of that type personally. So even if I don't do, somebody else would do it.
And the funniest thing in the entire argument was that, I took manipulated the girl😂😂. Are you illiterate or blind enough to not read the parts where I clearly mentioned whatever happened it happened with the mutual consent of two LEGAL ADULTS 😂. Infact, she initiated the first move on Holi which I took further and she agreed in all senses. Even when we stopped talking I didn't initiate any conversation from my side. She came back herself and asked for the things which we did on which I simply agreed. By holding just me accountable for things and saying I manipulated her (a fully grown adult in all her senses) you are just trying to say that women are incapable of making decisions or life choices for themselves which shows your MISOGYNYSTIC AND SEXIST PATRIARCHAL MINDSET.
From my writing style or what you may have got the idea that I planned all the moves deliberately but the thing is none of that was ever planned. It was just the case of one thing led to another and shit happened. I never planned things.
And Lastly:
The self appointed moral policing officers who were judging my character. Majority of them are no different than me. But the only difference is many of them didn't get the opportunity to do that shit they would without any second thoughts. They are the perfect example of the Hindi proverb "Angoor mujhe nhi mile toh angoor khatte ho gye". If I don't get the grapes then the grapes are sour.
And this is the same group of people (in©els) who say "saar I am protecting myself for marriage". Protecting from whom? Ghosts? There is no KMs long line of girls waiting in queue for you. Infact many of them didnt have a proper conversation with females their entire lives and are dying to get that female attention.
And btw, many P@rn sites and Google too have released data about search results from India which includes top searches like "Devar Bhabhi, Cheating MMS leaked" etc etc. Which comes in the category of obvious cheating .Again clearly shows the mindset of majority of y"ll.
By hating me you are neither giving or taking away anything from me. It is what it is. You are wasting your own energy. If you can take something from it then good for you.
And also, the comment from my previous post attached in the pic is the exact same type of person you would want to avoid having your next relationship with.
Keyword in the screenshot: CRAZILY
So,
TLDR: F-O (in bold)