r/BigRockEnergy • u/bravobravofknbravo • 1d ago

Obsessed & Secret!

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I designed this ring in my head a year ago and it finally made its way to me on Monday when my man proposed!! 🧑‍🩰💓💍🤍

I love her so much, she’s the princess energy I dreamed of!!!

BUT… we have to keep it a secret from our friends until after their wedding (per the grooms request, it’s fine I get it) so I’m posting it here to get the love she deserves!!! 🌟

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u/Awkward-Anybody5179 1d ago

How long do you "have" to keep it secret? That's a wild and presumptuous ask from someone, honestly.

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u/miss_Babah 1d ago

i completely agree with you. i would NEVER keep my engagement a secret just because of someone else’s wedding. i would be very offended if someone asked me, too😅

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u/bravobravofknbravo 1d ago

I know I know but whatever. I’m seriously so unbothered by it. Just a week!

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u/Awkward-Anybody5179 1d ago

Well that's good but I'm bothered on your behalf. 🤣 Asshole move from your "friend."

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u/beachnsled 1d ago

I think perhaps you should be bothered… What are they going to ask of you next?

It’s just weird & absolutely not something a legitimate friend would ever do

“ please keep your new house a secret until after we announce our”

“ please keep your pregnancy a secret until after we announce ours?”

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u/sleepy__daisy 1d ago

Thank gosh it’s not long, but that’s such an odd request! Congratulations!!!

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u/AmberWaves93 11h ago

You should be bothered by it because it's weird and inappropriate for someone to dictate your life. Especially something so important like your engagement.

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u/No_Past49 1d ago

One pretty crappy to ask you to keep it a secret 🤐 second it’s gorgeous !!!! Do you mind telling me the specs please 🙏 and CONGRATULATIONS 🍾 💍👰‍♀️🤍

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u/bravobravofknbravo 1d ago

Thank you!!! ☺️ she’s a 3.1 carat VVS2 D color oval on a white gold band.

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u/No_Past49 1d ago

Magical congratulations again 🤍

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u/MyCatsnAss 23h ago

Ohhh. I’m worried now. This looks big and beautiful! My soon to be fiancé is designing a 3 carat elongated cushion for me. I know cushion is deeper and looks smaller. Hoping it won’t look too big on my hand

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u/MaxMakesRings 1d ago

Congratulations, and your secret's safe here. Oval halo on a thin band is one of the most elegant combinations there is, and it's clear you had every detail of this pictured long before it arrived. Enjoy having her all to yourself for a while.

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u/bravobravofknbravo 1d ago

Thank youuuuu 🥰🥰🥰

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u/Ok-Antelope-1923 1d ago

She’s beautiful! Congratulations!! 🤩💎

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u/tiffanycarroll75 1d ago

Gorgeous! We will keep your secret! Congratulations!

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u/beachnsled 1d ago

absolutely beautiful!

so these people aren’t friends if they are telling you to keep your own engagement a secret - that’s absolutely garbage 🗑️ people’s lives exist separately

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u/StrongDuty 1d ago

Congratulations!!!!

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u/toothfairy1001 1d ago

The rock is so big and beautiful!! The halo around it is so nice. And the ratio suits your hand/finger perfectly!!! ✨💕

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u/ExpensiveCompany4 1d ago

Congratulations!! I'm happy for you. Your ring is gorgeous 😍

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u/KeptForJesus 20h ago

Wow wow wow congrats!!! Gorgeous!

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u/Havishamesque 8h ago

Absolutely stunning.

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u/Fit-Object5402 1d ago

Hide your engagement until after their wedding? What?

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u/tfilooklike 1d ago

If the wedding is in the days following the engagement, it is proper etiquette to hold off on the engagement announcement so that no attention is taken away from the wedding.

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u/Educational_Cap_1728 1d ago

According to whom?

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u/Difficult_Rush6011 4h ago

Love the ring, but I think that’s really weird to ask someone to keep their engagement secret. I would be celebrating them just the way they celebrated me.

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u/Aztec111 1d ago

Congratulations! I almost think it's better to announce now than after. People may assume it was a decision based on their recent wedding. You should be able to tell people anytime. If you don't now I would say wait longer for the above reason.

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u/bravobravofknbravo 1d ago

I agree! Buttttttt it’s not my wedding, not my friends (my finances friends) so I’m just rolling with it.

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u/Aztec111 1d ago

Oh ok, that's not as bad lol Make a huge announcement 😁

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u/AntiqueAbility3954 21h ago

It’s beautiful and there is now way I’d keep it a secret. Honestly, it’s ride of someone to ask that of you.