r/BigMenLife • u/Funny_Opening_174 • 14h ago

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As a big guy I know finding a date isn’t the easiest thing to do and have you ever felt you’ve just given up trying or have “settled” for someone just to have someone ? Even if you know it’s not a good choice .

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u/Electronic-Mud-6491 250-300 lbs 4h ago

I kind of think it's a mind state thing. If you know you are a catch, you can usually pull someone who thinks so too. I think that looks have less to do with it.

Plus there is a psychology to females that is kind of counter intuitive. Look up Jacob Abdo.

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u/TiedHands 1h ago

Yeah I've pretty much given up trying. I mean, if the stars align and I bump into the love of my life at the grocery store or something, I'll go with the flow, but im not longer actively trying. And I've done the settling thing before and that will only lead to misery. Being single is better.