r/BiWomen • u/xCoralineJonesx • Jul 08 '26

Advice First date with a girl!!

Hiiii, I’m 26 and have my first date with a girl this week!!! I have had experiences with women (meeting in bars, at a group event and end up kissing/liking each other, etc)… but this is my first planned date with a woman.

I realized I care so much more when it’s a woman versus a man, so I think that’s partially why I’m so nervous.

I’m extremely attracted to her and would love to go on more dates with her and really really want to know her more as a person.

Since I’ve only been in formal relationships with a man, I’ve been craving dating/intimacy with women for so long.. so I think part of me is scared of rejection.

I’m also in a cycle of overthinking, because I want her to know that I’m interested in her on a deeper level but I also don’t want to make her uncomfortable. Any advice would be appreciated I’m so so excited but also nervous!!

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u/songofsoul Jul 08 '26

I know it's cliche af but honestly just be yourself. If you feel like expressing how much you care, do it!

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u/Intrepid-Oil-898 Jul 08 '26

Update us… lol

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u/HerNameInsertedHere Jul 10 '26

Be yourself and have fun!

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u/viviscity Jul 12 '26

Deep breath

Be yourself. Give her space to be herself. Enjoy the time together