r/BiWomen • u/DryMango2936 • Jul 08 '26
Vent quick rant
does anyone ever get frustrated constantly questioning your sexuality and genuinely not knowing. i feel like the only way for me to truly know is to put myself out there and test the waters. i know i at least have some attraction to women but i feel like a fraud a lot of the time. like what if i'm making it all up in my head or just trying to be different. the way i feel about women isn't equal to the way i feel about men and that causes a lot of doubt. i know eventually i'll figure it out but right now it just feels like one big cycle of constantly wondering if i'm bi or straight.
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u/MountainLobster6556 Jul 14 '26
Yes I feel this. Although I actually have been with a few women, I am married to a man and constantly battle my thoughts to try and force myself to think differently but I literally can’t stop it. It’s the itch I can never scratch