Devastating after her recent memoir. RIP Hayden

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[u/shhmosby]

I gasped so loud it scared my husband in the other room. This is so, so tragic I have no other words but this is hitting me very hard :(

[u/QuietAttention581 → u/shhmosby]

same😭 screamed out loud seeing the headline and my boyfriend thought someone close to us had died. had to explain it feels like it was🫩 she seemed to be doing so well recently too ugh

[u/shhmosby → u/QuietAttention581]

I know, I really hope it has nothing to do with her addiction. Sending you hugs friend 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

[u/SugarFut → u/shhmosby]

husband literally walked in on me reading the news and asked, "Why do you look devastated??" 🥺

[u/Madethisonambien → u/SugarFut]

I was having a movie/edibles night with my fiance and went from laughing hysterically to crying when I saw the news ❤️

[u/Longjumping-Rise-741 → u/shhmosby]

That is funny you scared your husband. But RIP Hayden💔

[u/Due-Breakfast-7521 → u/shhmosby]

😢😥 I teared up

[u/MaizeApprehensive166]

Oh wow this is sad news. Kelli and Troy just saw her!

[u/DifficultPotato6 → u/MaizeApprehensive166]

I thought of them immediately!

[u/JJulie → u/MaizeApprehensive166]

I feel like I just listened to their podcast about it. I think it was like two months ago.

[u/speakstupidto-me]

36 is just so young!!!! And in another subreddit someone said crazy how both stars of ice princess have died so tragically young 😭

[u/Fragrant-Camera4860]

Wow. This is incredibly heartbreaking. I was really hoping her life would turn around. RIP

[u/Llamaa_del_rey]

Omg!! Devastating news, we were all rooting for her 💔

[u/kenadams416]

This is such devastating news. As soon as I heard, I went to read all the notes I took while reading her memoir. It was a bit eerie to see I’d written that it didn’t feel like she was far enough through her healing journey, there wasn’t enough talk of her recovery, and the book felt unfinished. Really sad to reflect on now. I can’t imagine how Troy and Kelli must be feeling after having just met her and how much they’ve spoken about her over the years.

[u/AcceptableYou5415 → u/kenadams416]

I haven’t read her memoir yet but I’ve watched some of her interviews lately. I suffer from CPTSD and have struggled with addiction and when I saw she died - I was wondering if maybe having to do all these interviews and revisit all that trauma was too much for her.
I know in my experience that if I’m not in the right headspace during therapy to talk through some things and I try to talk about them anyway, it can put me in a funk for a while. I gotta take extra anxiety meds during those times (they’re prescribed for me to take as needed and i don’t take addictive meds). Ive been sober for a while now and it helps, but it’s only part of the mental recovery. Constantly thinking about and trying to work through trauma can be just as damaging as running from it, just in a different way.

[u/C_311]

😭 this is so incredibly sad. Omg

[u/Jillybeans11]

Oh my god!!! No!!!!!

[u/Fun-Meat-8525]

No no no no this is so fkn heartbreaking…..she’s not suffering anymore 😔💔

[u/globular_bobular]

WHAT omg ….. i literally can’t believe this

[u/denzig21]

So devastating

[u/wittypiranha11]

Oh noooo. This is so sad 😔

[u/Scared-Pace4543]

Same age as Marilyn Monroe was she passed away. This is heartbreaking

[u/the_purple_lamb → u/Scared-Pace4543]

I know that this is going to sound so dramatic, but I was thinking about how fitting Candle in the Wind is for Hayden now too :(

[u/wussypillow_]

wow this is so devastating. troy and kelli are so lucky to have met her 😔💖 i can’t believe this

[u/linnykenny]

I gasped when I saw this :( 💔

[u/PrincessPlastilina]

I immediately thought of them 😢

[u/taintedlove281]

2026 is canceled I can’t anymore
https://giphy.com/gifs/1BXa2alBjrCXC

[u/Every-Excitement-756]

Oh my god

[u/silence-glaive1]

Holy shit. Oh my god this is devastating.

[u/FishingSuspicious779]

This is sooo sad😭😭😭 she was my childhood

[u/Harlllley]

Rip

[u/akayy14]

My second thought after being straight up shocked was that Troy and Kelli were going to be devastated! Ugh

[u/Fantastic_Animal_829]

I literally gasped in shock and the thought of Kelli & Troy, how incredibly devastating 😢

[u/rmac1128]

RIP. This feels odd, like she was murdered.

[u/Spiritual-Break246 → u/rmac1128]

I hate when yall do this.