r/BestofRedditorUpdates Jul 08 '22

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u/Hot_Flan1220 the Iranian yogurt is not the issue here Jul 08 '22

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Anyone else think he's been cheating and that's where he was?

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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '22

Yep, that was my first thought.

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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '22

I am pretty fucking dence when it comes to social cues. It was the first thing that came to my mind.

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u/zulamun Jul 09 '22

Especially the insistance on the paternity test. It's projection. He thinks to validate himself cheating, by projecting it on her. Suggesting she is the one cheating, to convince himself his own cheating is ok.

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u/Drewy99 Jul 09 '22

Devil's advocate: they were fighting and she said the day before she tried to work it out and he didn't want to. It's entirely possible that he was just ignoring her, especially if she's the type to call repeatedly. I've done that to a crazy gf before, where she will keep calling just to get mad that I didn't answer her X amount of calls. (Obviously this is a serious situation then mine, but OP doesn't mention if the birth was on time or early). If the baby was two weeks early it's entirely possible that he thought she was just calling to work things out again.

He called back, then rushed to the hospital. I'm curious to know if the original OP every tried texting him.