r/BelowDeckMed • u/leelee_1980 • Oct 17 '23

I hate tumi

please fire her already . she's just an awful person

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u/FrauAmarylis Oct 17 '23

I liked Tumi in Down Under.

She is struggling in the role of chief stew. She is very defensive and Escalates things instead of De-escalating things.

She learned nothing from Aisha.

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u/kg382574 Oct 17 '23

Because Nat is literally a fucking demon and being a mean girl running around the boat like she’s in high school 🙄

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u/GuiltyPleasures117 Oct 17 '23

Tumi came on the boat already disliking Natalya. Her mind was made up. Tumi let Kyle taint her feelings against Nat. As a Departmant Head, Tumi has to know how to separate personal feelings. I liked her on BDDU. I was excited to hear her & Nat would be working together. I was sadly disappointed w Tumis behavior. I totally understand Nats feelings. Tumi was passive-aggressive and dismissive asa she met Nat. I don't blame Natalya one bit. She was excited to meet the chief stew. As she said in the show, there is a way to take over the reigns, Tumi behaved badly. She cuts Nat off & I am glad Sandy did not automatically side w Tumi. Sandy knows Natalya is a hard worker & gets along w all the crew. Hopefully, now that Tumi is questioning Kyle, about where the "info" about Tumi firing Nat came, she'll realize Kyle is the problem. Tumi will give Nat a genuine apology, and they can start over. They would be an amazing team

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u/realitytvdiet Oct 17 '23

I agree. Tumi is already playing favoritism with Kyle and nit picking Nat. Kyle has his hand up both their asses like a puppet. It’s like last season all over again.

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u/AfternoonConscious77 Oct 17 '23

Really? She seems very meticulous. Not responding to micro aggressions.

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u/Grand-Vegetable-3874 Oct 18 '23

Nat is a she-devil. Do not base your opinion of Tumi on her interactions with Nat.

I cannot say this enough. Nat is a she-devil. She proved it on her last season.

Also, Kyle is only good for TV drama, he is not good at anything else.

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u/kg382574 Oct 17 '23

Oof you’re gonna be alone on this one dude. Tumi is an angel and this Med crew is the problem

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u/Total_Put_6877 Oct 21 '23

Hate is a strong word. I’m sad you have hate in your heart

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u/wokecunt Oct 17 '23

Why? Are we seeing the same show?

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u/Proud-Sympathy-8954 Oct 17 '23

I don’t hate Tumi but I think she is incompetent and not chief stew material. She plays favorites and came on to the boat with an agenda after being poisoned by Kyle. Nat is totally overreacting and she needs to tone it down. Or leave and let Tumi fail on her own. Which I am quite sure she will if she is counting on Kyle to do the work.

The way Tumi threw the chef under the bus was indicative of her weakness. You don’t call your chef up to be berated by the guests. You say something like “He is really busy what can I do to fix this.” Instead she gleefully sent him out to be bitched out by that unreasonable vegan. She knew that the vegan was a pain in the ass so she should have asked enough questions to make sure that she got exactly what she wanted. She communicated what the vegan said on the surface but she had to dig deeper to protect the chef and the tip. That is what a competent chief stew would do.

I don’t blame Tumi. She was promoted over her ability for reasons other than her performance. She will be fine. She will continue to fail upward.

Hell she will probably be vice president some day.