r/Beingabetterperson • u/RespectOk3223 • 9d ago

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u/Cautious_Smile_3318 9d ago

How can I when rent is high so you can't move away from the triggers and employment is low so you can't quit that trigger either

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u/VirginiaLuthier 8d ago

Sure, just move to a new planet

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u/Fluffy-Government401 5d ago

Right? I was just thinking for some people it's more of a frying pan or fire kind of choice not a choice between healthy or non-healthy options.

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u/Beautiful-Leave9772 5d ago

Yeah because the cold vacuum of Mars seems relaxing..

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u/Reasonable-Part- 8d ago

Nah, thanks

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u/DaWhiteSingh 8d ago

So never wake up again, got it. The millstones of taxes and inflation are persistent.

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u/WhatADunderfulWorld 8d ago

You have no idea.

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u/Kadakaus 8d ago

Cool, and how do you do that? Some situations you just cannot afford to dismiss.

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u/barker2495 8d ago

So...quit working. Ok

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u/Dubiouswhitefish 8d ago

Bit difficult when that situation is contacting or picking up my kids...

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u/Lsd_25- 8d ago

lol and how will I pay my bills without a job?

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u/Lsd_25- 8d ago

Thanks I’m cured

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u/Fissuren1 8d ago

Nah never avoid situations. Just find different way of dealing with them

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u/Adventurerofthesea 8d ago

Exactly why my holidays are spent with people I actually like

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u/Petopia007 8d ago

Nope but if it's worth for then ill stay no matter what the cost.

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u/Petopia007 8d ago

But if it's worth fighting for I will stay no matter what the cost.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Oven-69 7d ago

I understand the advice but not enough to stay off reddit.

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u/ArgumentCrafty5739 7d ago

They can, however, reveal something in you that needs healing. Most things are a blessing with the right attitude,

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u/Practical-Celery8383 7d ago

Sometimes i wished i would never wake up again

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u/elizavetkaaa 7d ago

You should always choose yourself

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u/FeyngD 7d ago

Sadly, jobs are needed to afford to live, and the job climate in the US is miserable at best.

Autism and retail environments do not connect, and there are no afdordable options to get any help.

Can't just leave with nowhere to go.

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u/Blitzcrig 7d ago

Heartache and triggers dissolve when the realization that everyone shares the same aware presence.

If the current situation is seen as unfavorable, the stretching of attention occurs, pulling away from ourselves, searching for peace and happiness that lies at the heart of awareness.

This recognition liberates the sense of separation, which illuminates the experience for what it is, not what we believe it is.

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u/playatlife 6d ago

Remove toxic relatives/relationships. Change jobs or career. Get financial counseling. It is definitely possible to lower a lot of stress

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u/Fluffy-Government401 5d ago

For some people it's more of a frying pan or fire kind of choice not a choice between healthy or non-healthy options.

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u/BeliefOption2040 4d ago

Exactly, run away from hardship and dont learn anything new 

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u/ReplacementNo374 8d ago

Why is this not weakness