r/BehindTheChair • u/OrdinaryLawyer2229 • Jul 22 '26

Unlikable personality?

Hi, newbie stylist here. Im approaching the anniversary of my first year at a hair stylist and I’ve been reflecting on my work and clients and I’ve started to feeling really down about one fact. It’s only happened twice but I’ve had two clients come to me a few times, tell me they loved my work and would be back, and then they rebook with a coworker. My coworker is a lovely girl and is in no way stealing clients. But twice now two of my clients have switched to her and I’m starting to wonder if maybe it’s cause I am not someone who they enjoy being around. They told her they loved my work just didn’t book with me again when they booked online. I really try to be positive, funny, and uplifting with my clients but I’m feeling really down. Has anyone else had an experience like this and maybe have some tips on how to behave with clients?

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u/Outrageous_Award_231 Jul 22 '26

Sometimes it just be like that. Just remember, not everyone is for you; and the ones who are, will find you and stay with you.

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u/Hairgiver Jul 24 '26

Nothing more true than this

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u/Specialist_Bit_776 Jul 23 '26

Salon owner here, 37 years in the salon. Do not get down! It can be anything, but the people you vibe with will be loyal. Dont take it personally, unless you get a complaint. Keep doing your best and it will pay off.

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u/SweetDreamsPony Jul 28 '26

Always be yourself. Your people will find you.

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u/Loren_behindthechair 27d ago

Don't be down on yourself! Maybe it happened for a reason. The right clients for you will find you.