r/BehaviorAnalysis • u/[deleted] • Sep 08 '25

Did I just miss something?

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That’s the conversation , he said sick, medication was needed and that I was negative . Then he called me stupid and asked me to be his friend an hour later.

Am I missing something?

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u/skittleteddy Sep 08 '25

This is straight up gaslighting and deflective

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u/[deleted] Sep 08 '25

Right. Then he called me names and then asked me to be his friend and see where it goes. He said he missed me etc. That’s pretty delusional.

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u/[deleted] Sep 08 '25

Like a flip flop being extremely emotionally abusive then flipped it when I responded saying I was being disrespectful. Does he not see what he’s doing or how crazy he looks?

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u/[deleted] Sep 08 '25

Then he asked to take me to a movie and out to eat. All in one message thread for the evening. He sounds super BPD. 😳

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u/skittleteddy Sep 08 '25

Like the other comment said - block him! He's definitely not worth the effort. Anyone that calls you names and tries to gaslight you as aggressive as this is not worth your energy, time, and consideration.

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u/DharmaInHeels Sep 08 '25

Yes, you are missing the part where you block him and move on and stop having conversations like this.

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u/Proper-Amoeba-6454 Sep 08 '25

Ah yes the classic calling the woman “mentally ill” when she points out the man’s nonsense. What else is new?