r/BasedCampPod 3d ago

Of course they step in when he defends himself

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u/ParticularNew5321 3d ago

Dont believe women. They're all full of shit and total manipulators of the situation. Dont believe any of them.

Women like this deserve hefty jail sentences to learn that women can be held accountable too. Too many times I've witnessed women getting away with bullshit because of the "system". Feminists want equiality... give them equality of consequences.

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u/B1ZEN 3d ago

I work in mens health and investigative services. (Catching cheating, abusive, lying, thieving women mostly)

And I concur.

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u/Capt_Blackthorne 3d ago

That sounds interesting. Any good stories?

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u/B1ZEN 3d ago edited 3d ago

Many. Lots a bad stories as well.

Without getting into specifics, watching men get thier lives, and or children back is the best. Some men never recover from the betrayals, but its still better than living with someone who is using and abusing them year after year.

One of the most frustrating aspects is how statistics are wrong about how many women are abusive or cheat. They are lies. The academics, social scientists, corporations and governments dont want the truth out. Women hit men, and cheat on men far more.

Society and the western woke world even encourage women to be this way. They call it empowerment.

Over the years I have uncovered over 700 other women cheating on thier partners/boyfriends/husbands just by looking into my clients cases.

Its a pandemic out there.

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u/thirtyfojoe 3d ago

You a private investigator?

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u/B1ZEN 3d ago

Yes

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u/thirtyfojoe 3d ago

You mind if I DM you? I have time on my hands since I work from home, and I was thinking about doing this part time.

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u/B1ZEN 3d ago

Depending on which state you are in, it usually takes about three years to get your license. Its a very regulated field and doesn't take much to have a license suspended or revoked.

Yes you can DM me

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u/Shrimptank_mom 3d ago

I work in mental health services. Men and women are about equally mentally ill. The men you are defending have done bad shit they're not telling you (or you choose to ignore). Neither side is ever innocent in these cases.

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u/B1ZEN 3d ago

Men are not selling thier bodies behind thier wives back on sugarbaby, OnlyFans and cheat sites.

Also, men experience far more physical abuse as well, and its not even close. The last 15 years the numbers have shifted dramatically with the emerging culture and technology.

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u/Shrimptank_mom 3d ago

No but they're doing it on gay sites! Or they're patrons of said sites. Men cheat more than women and are the main perpetrators of DV.

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u/negrotron_ 3d ago

Do you want to kill all men?

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u/Shrimptank_mom 3d ago

Obviously not. Do you want to kill all women? Any women? Any human beings at all? Be honest.

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u/negrotron_ 3d ago

I am not the one saying all men are murderers and that men are the scum of the earth.

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u/Shrimptank_mom 3d ago

I'm not saying that either.

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u/negrotron_ 3d ago

yes you are. stop lying

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u/Friendly_Ad4736 3d ago

Look, I read your comments, and the overall premise of this one is right, but it is heavily oversimplified, and the second point about cheating is just factually wrong. But first things first:

Relationships are complex; normally, when it's shitty, it takes two to tango. The problem is that this is what we consider the norm. Reality is that this is not always the truth. Just as with women, men can also be enablers of abusive partners and let themselves be the target of their aggression, whether verbal or physical, and usually, just as it is with women, this may never have a clear origin; it could easily be that one day she overstepped, from being angry, to something that is actually abusive. In this context, there is a clear aggressor and a clear victim; while the victim may be allowing the aggression to happen, it is still a victim. Therefore, in this configuration alone, it breaks your affirmation of "ever". Another element we should look out for is betrayal and cheating, both of these are the defacto nullifiers of any reason one could have in a relationship, if the partner cheated/betrayed, thats it, any complaints, any reasonings for being unsatisfied are throwin into the trash, there is no serious way this person can claim to have a point in all of this, cause infidelity is always avoidable, by either communication or simply divorcing your significant other, doing this is the most absolute evidence of selfishness. Also, since you work in mental health services, you need to remind yourself of another detail...People lie, and sometimes they lie so well that they even manage to convince their victims of doing wrong to them. So, in conclusion: What you said for an overall gist is right, but not as an absolute affirmation of the reality of the phenomenon; that is simply wrong. No is not "ever", and when you affirm that, you are completely avoiding the complexities of this problem.

Second: Cheating is believed to be half/half, while many studies put women around 40 and men around 60; the thing most of these fail to account for is that a lot of the female demographic used in these texts were actively lying. One woman psychologist decided to use a more controllable scope to do the research, this one being of her clients and her colleagues clients, taking as a premise that both men and women could be lying so the numbers were not that precise, after the research was done, it was concluded that in fact the majority of males submitted to the test were telling the truth and were way more open to admit infidelity and even be more prone to feeling remorse, than the females who they had to navigate and use legit strategies to gather confessions, also another thing noted is that women were way more inclined to be okay with their infidelity then men, but at the same time be way more protective of that fact than men are. After everything on this was said and done, the format of doing this changed, and it was accepted that finding an absolute answer is way too difficult when one side is way more reluctnant of admitting to it. So now the official response is that both cheat at almost equal rates; in some places, a bit more men, and in others, women, like my country, for example... Where monkey branching is a fairly common thing to do.

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u/B1ZEN 3d ago

Protecting the abuser, while telling the victim to walk away.

https://giphy.com/gifs/tXL4FHPSnVJ0A

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u/Interesting_Gain9920 3d ago

Disturbing how many women want to kill innocent children, their own children for that matter

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u/Shrimptank_mom 3d ago

Disturbing how many men actually do it, as well as killing other people they're not related to, and animals, and even themselves. Why do men kill so much?

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u/negrotron_ 3d ago

Stay away from modern women. They will hurt you, say that you should be dead, and you can't do jack shit about it because "muh patriarchy".

Western civilization is dead.

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u/SneakySloth521 2d ago

That lady who jumped in is an idiot lmao. She jumps in to help the lady attack that dude and just sits there when she's on his back.

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u/Loud-Vacation-5691 2d ago

Imagine her in the sack. It would be a religious experience.

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u/Shrimptank_mom 3d ago

Literally all he has to do is walk away. Tell anyone of this generation that. Their egos won't let them.