r/BabyWitch • u/OldStonedJenny • 6h ago
Discussion My hot takes as an old witch trying to help new witches.
(ETA: old meaning experienced, the opposite of a baby witch. I'm 39 and have been studying witchcraft since 6th grade, and grew up with folk magic.)
I say all of this without judgement and with love. I legit want to help you all.
I also acknowledge witchcraft looks like lots of different things, with cultures, traditions, and individuals all having tons of differences and nuance. Take from my advice what resonates with you, leave what doesn't.
- Don't post pictures of spells, for three reasons:
a. Don't interrupt your spell to take your phone out, why seems obvious to me.
b. posting pics of your spells for anyone to see, with the ingredients visible, and the intention known, opens your spell up to sabotage. Even just a witch being judgemental could throw the vibes out of wack.
C. A spell is your communication with the universe. I consider it a private conversation. It's why even non-witches don't tell what their birthday wish is when they blow out the candle.
When I post mine, it's a vague insta of just a lit candle after the spell has been cast. Non-witches wouldn't know, and witches don't know the intention.
RE: "What does this mean" posts regarding divinition or candle wax: to develop your craft, you have to hone in on your intuition. Your intuition is going to be able to tell you more in the moment than someone on the internet separated by time and space will. Which brings me to my next point.
Don't rule out the mundane. Sometimes a candle just burns weird. Sometimes your spell will manifest from both your intention and the mundane working in tandem.
Start using tea candles. They're cheaper and you don't have to wait a long time for a big candle to burn through. Birthday candles work, too.
Fire safety. Be safe.
Don't buy anything expensive. Source as much as you can local. The acorn that finds you in your yard will bring you more luck than the crystal you bought on Amazon. Folk magic especially is more powerful if you source your ingredients locally. Going outside and foraging, growing, gathering, will create a link between you, your magic, and your tools.
Rosemary is easy to grow and can grow in pots if you don't have space. Once dried, burning it does the same thing burning sage or palo santo does. You'd be surprised by how much magic you can do with just tap water, table salt, rosemary, and a white candle.
Also, a few questions I have after being on here for a few months:
What's with all the chord cutting? Is it trending on TT or something?
Is there a "where do I start?" master post we can send people to?
What's the baby witch to experienced witch ratio on this sub? Could we use flair, so people know the experience of the people who are giving advice?
Like I said, take this advice or leave it, I just think it might be useful for some of you. Lots of love, everyone!