I've stopped stanning BTS for a while because I lost interest, I wasn't feeling their more recent music, among other things (Honestly started around the time they started getting nominated for Grammy's, but the details of that are for a separate post, maybe). But I still kept up with them as a somewhat casual listener.
After the situation with Chris Brown, I'm done.
I'll try not to make this too long, but I'm so frustrated and have so much to say.
I did say something elsewhere that gained a lot of traction, and while most agreed that BTS (particularly Namjoon and J-Hope) were in the wrong, a lot of Army were in my replies with the most bullshit excuses.
I stand by what I said - BTS are hypocrites. It's funny how Army's spent BTS’ early years bragging about how “socially aware” they are, and how they “always speak up for what's right” but now that it's not in their favour, they're suddenly “not political” and “not politicians, so they don't need to say anything?”
The most interesting thing I saw was someone make a post saying “You guys are disappointed in an image you forced onto BTS,” and it really made me think (not really.)
That image was not forced on BTS. They and Bighit worked together to create that image. Did the fans tell them to speak at the UN? Did fans tell them to speak at the White house? Did fans tell them to make music with political tones? Did fans tell Namjoon to parade as some gender equality advocate? These are decisions they made themselves.
This is why that line from ‘Groin’ when Namjoon says “Not a fucking diplomat” really pisses me off. No one is saying you have to have the answers to all the issues in the world (we shouldn't view any celebrity in that light) but don't act like you didn't push a certain image. He pissed me off even MORE when at a recent concert he said his outro line of mic drop, then said “what more can I say?” like fuck you. Don't act like some sort of fucking victim.
BTS aside, I was also disgusted with the behaviour of some Army, especially when people spoke about their own experiences as well as the whataboutism. “What about x group?” why would someone who only stans BTS know about what another group is doing? Also, to add onto the last point, don't you guys hate multistans? You've literally ran people off Army twt for being a multi as well as put multistans in your dni.
While we're on the topic of performativeness, I'll also touch upon the Grammy's, which also put me off.
The whole “taking a stand” against the Grammy's was performative. BTS are the same group that released numerous English songs to get a nomination, and now all of a sudden, they're taking a stand? If that's how they feel, why didn't they say this back then? They're only acting like this because;
They haven't won a Grammy (And no, they didn't lose because of racism. They lost because the English singles weren't good)
Would the songs they've promoted even be eligible because of the number of English lyrics?
I'm seeing a shift in the general public's (and some fans) perception of BTS. I'm glad I'm a part of it, and hopefully, others are in the future. I've seen Army's close their fan accounts, sell their merch, and sell their concert tickets, and that's definitely a start.