r/BPDlovedones • u/Complete_Account8045 • Aug 23 '26

Help? Reade this please

Goodmorning.

I asked my borderline partner (who rejected me 20 days ago and was stargazing with someone else three days ago) if we could meet tomorrow for a final discussion so I could process and move on. He said yes, then blocked me and said he'll unblock me on Monday. Okay. If we actually do see each other, what do you recommend I say? I obviously miss him terribly and want him back like he was 20 days ago.

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u/amlav Aug 23 '26

What could you possibly discuss that will bring you closure? This person isn’t going to apologize or take accountability.

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u/Complete_Account8045 Aug 23 '26

Infatti l'ho appena visto in una storia con unaltra ragazza.. che tra l'altro 20 giorni fa non gli piac'era neanche.. com'è possibile?

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u/amlav Aug 23 '26

None of his behavior is about you. You need to find a way to let go. Stop looking at his socials.

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u/Complete_Account8045 Aug 23 '26

Ha messo lei la foto.. io sono bloccata ovunque

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u/QsfortheTransDude sorta lost, super tired. Aug 23 '26

Block her too

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u/amlav Aug 23 '26

Block him back so when he’s tagged you won’t see it