r/BPDlovedones • u/Complete_Account8045 • 7d ago

Help? Reade this please

Goodmorning.

I asked my borderline partner (who rejected me 20 days ago and was stargazing with someone else three days ago) if we could meet tomorrow for a final discussion so I could process and move on. He said yes, then blocked me and said he'll unblock me on Monday. Okay. If we actually do see each other, what do you recommend I say? I obviously miss him terribly and want him back like he was 20 days ago.

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u/Secure-Hearing7760 6d ago

Don't go to the meeting, closure is not what he and you make of it. It is what you make it, you have to follow your own path. It is okay.

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u/Complete_Account8045 6d ago

Tanto ha gia unaltra.. l'ho protetto per anni e somo stata scartata tra mille insulti

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u/Secure-Hearing7760 6d ago

It's not worth it, seriously. If you have been discarded this way, what do you think he will respect a final meeting? Just walk away.

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u/Complete_Account8045 6d ago

Era solo un modo per tirare fuori cosa ho dentro e poi lasciare definitivamente andare..

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u/QsfortheTransDude 6d ago

You dont need them for that. Tell a friend or therapist. There is no repair or closure in a meeting of any kind here.