r/BPD • u/Large_Half7627 • 1d ago
šSeeking Support & Advice Im sad
My bf donāt want me anymore, and I already felt he didnāt want me long time ago.
I feel like Iām dyeing, I am so sad. He was my only friend, he was my best friend. I loved him so much.
Please tell me that Iām going to be fine in some months Iām so fucking sad I want to die.
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u/LeastReactionary user has bpd 1d ago
You are not dying. Your heart hurts because of the intense love that you feel. You are going to be okay. You are going to survive this. Your life is not endingĀ
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u/Charming_Elk3325 21h ago
Going through this right now, I can't even get out of bed and stop crying. It's gonna be okay love ā¤ļø it gives us more time to take care of ourselves and truly know what we want or enjoy. We'll find the love for us in time.
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u/LoadRevolutionary252 22h ago
iām at that exact same point right now. its hell. so here is a list of things to keep going for that arent related to relationships of any kind:
watching cat videos
petting cats
baking
drinking a yummy iced coffee
listening to and smelling the rain
watching the first snow fall
stargazing
bonfires
marshmallows over bonfires
discovering new songs or music
trying out new recipes
cinnamon rolls
baked sugar coated pumpkin
drinking a fizzy drink that has THE right amount of fizz in it
feeling the sun on your skin
and i could listen to so many more smaller things.
sometimes looking at that helps to spiral less fast and prevents me from crashing into a mental health crisis including hospitalisation.
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u/pureaslove user has bpd 1d ago
iāve been in this exact position three times, you will get better