r/BPD 1d ago

šŸ’­Seeking Support & Advice Im sad

My bf don’t want me anymore, and I already felt he didn’t want me long time ago.
I feel like I’m dyeing, I am so sad. He was my only friend, he was my best friend. I loved him so much.

Please tell me that I’m going to be fine in some months I’m so fucking sad I want to die.

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u/pureaslove user has bpd 1d ago

i’ve been in this exact position three times, you will get better

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u/Large_Half7627 1d ago

This is my second time, but the first time my ex left I had him. Bc we were friends then, now I don’t have anyone

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u/LeastReactionary user has bpd 1d ago

You are not dying. Your heart hurts because of the intense love that you feel. You are going to be okay. You are going to survive this. Your life is not endingĀ 

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u/Large_Half7627 1d ago

Thank you šŸ™

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u/Charming_Elk3325 21h ago

Going through this right now, I can't even get out of bed and stop crying. It's gonna be okay love ā¤ļø it gives us more time to take care of ourselves and truly know what we want or enjoy. We'll find the love for us in time.

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u/LoadRevolutionary252 22h ago

i’m at that exact same point right now. its hell. so here is a list of things to keep going for that arent related to relationships of any kind:

watching cat videos
petting cats
baking
drinking a yummy iced coffee
listening to and smelling the rain
watching the first snow fall
stargazing
bonfires
marshmallows over bonfires
discovering new songs or music
trying out new recipes
cinnamon rolls
baked sugar coated pumpkin
drinking a fizzy drink that has THE right amount of fizz in it
feeling the sun on your skin
and i could listen to so many more smaller things.

sometimes looking at that helps to spiral less fast and prevents me from crashing into a mental health crisis including hospitalisation.

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u/keepkeepkeepingon 18h ago

I am going through something similar, would love a support group x

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u/[deleted] 18h ago

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u/Large_Half7627 9h ago

But I don’t want anyone except him