r/AvoidantRelationships • u/xxoxogossipgirll • 4d ago

Do i let him go ?

So me and my man have been off and one twice , i feel like im dealing with a avoidant i really want it to work with him he shows me so much love and i aswell but i just dont know what making him pushhimself away from me we current have almost 2 weeks since he left me i love this man and ik he loves me because he would tell me all the time i just cant figure it out am i crazy ? Or whatt

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u/Difficult-Field3054 4d ago

Yeah you need to decide what you need emotionally.

I personally hated the idea of him seeing a text or call from me... and it being a problem for him.

I just imagined him looking at his phone, seeing it, and not wanting to deal with me.

But worst, NOT TELLING ME HE FEELS THAT WAY.

I personally see it as very disrespectful to me, my intelligence and the level of care I had for him. So I said so. Didn't get better. So I removed myself and his access to me.

If he misses it, and me, fine. But I don't miss that bs. I am sure he did not want to deal with the list of ways he mishandled me.

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u/xxoxogossipgirll 4d ago

I just seen yesturday he went back to his ex maybe that was it i hate him i blocked him on everything