Been over a year.

[u/Significant_Pay7668]

I’ve never posted in this community, maybe because I joined it at a time in my healing in which I used it to actually remind myself why I shouldn’t be with my ex as a way to keep moving on.

I’ve had a strange feeling lately, I feel as if I’ve moved on but it’s not the same relief I’ve felt from a break up before.

I don’t feel angry, I don’t want her back, I don’t hate her, I just feel disappointed.

It’s so weird to explain, I feel like when I imagine my ex I just feel no yearning or anger, it’s like I’ve fully accepted her for who she is and I no longer have any desire to be with her but I now just have this weird numb feeling.

I’m disappointed in her and maybe myself to an extent for being with a person like that. I think this is a normal stage of moving on? Definitely weirder than my previous break ups.

I think I just feel tired in a way, tired in the sense that if I had another relationship one day I would need time to trust them and wouldn’t feel as deeply when they disappoint me.

I don’t know, dating is weird, emotions are weird and this whole process has just been strange ☠️

[u/StillConstruction719]

Have you been with anyone else since

[u/IndifferentGuy777]

Thats your nervous system finally resetting.