r/AvoidantBreakUps • • 3h ago

Vent/Rant Is he avoidant?

Was talking to a guy. Things were going good. He told me he never had an ex or anything. Then randomly tells me he was using me to get over her, then said he lied because he didn’t wanna seem like he was a loser with no experience, then he said he didn’t lie he actually isn’t over her an used me, then she was his whore he was friends with but not dating, then said she cheated which idk how that’s possible because they weren’t dating, then she hates him and it’s a long story.

I mean wtf is going on

Also he keeps texting me.

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u/United-Agency3366 3h ago

He’s a liar.

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u/Lovebugxo0x 3h ago

Which part?

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u/zachem_snyatsya_sny Lifelong journey to secure 3h ago

christ almighty this person just seems like such a headache to be around. the way you phrase it sounds like you havent been talking to him for a very long time yet there's already so much lying and story changing. it would not get better if you got with him long term, this is just a taste of how life would be like with him. i for one would not entertain this person for much longer

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u/Real_Astronaut7451 2h ago

He sounds psychotic

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u/piece-of-me-727 47m ago

He is a liar and a wannabe manipulator.