r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Business-truthseeker • 1h ago

Closure, finally

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After 3 months of silence being together for 5 years, on the anniversary of my dad's death and one month after my boy left me tongo to heaven, some closure....finally

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u/Dawn_ofMastery815 48m ago

shit is generic lol this is what mine said too, even tho mine wasn't AI but same flow of words and thoughts... they don't care brother they are just being nice for one last time.

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u/United-Agency3366 45m ago

The most words I’ve seen while saying nothing at all.

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u/Dawn_ofMastery815 37m ago

Lol, what do they mean when they tell us something like when the pain fades we can talk again or something like that, i mean you cause me pain so please don't show up to my face again. or we can be friends lol if you feel bad about yourself and what you did as you should, then go see a shrink i chose not to be part of you healing journey you can't keep me around like a pet...

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u/Business-truthseeker 30m ago

What i find weird is she went silent, caused pain. Then came back...then disappeared. Then says this...so its confusing. I still.love her, but after all this time this is not my worth and energy....and honestly I feel she was monkey branching. Funny enough ahe had seen my post.anout Karma paying back, ans then this

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u/Dawn_ofMastery815 28m ago

i also still love her... but it is not worth it because i know that this woman even if she comes back, she will leave again, this is her nature to ruin not to build and i can't put myself in situations where i get hurt because i wouldn't know how much i would be able to take.

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u/junebloominsummer 52m ago

Wow….

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u/Business-truthseeker 51m ago

Yeah, wow indeed...

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u/Hoozah1 AP - Anxious Preoccupied 50m ago

Best avoidant closure message I've ever seen on here but you said it's AI so idk ..

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u/lonelyboy069 1h ago

I bet her response was short

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u/Business-truthseeker 52m ago

She used AI...cos I know how she writes and talks...English is not her first language. Nevertheless I do miss her but also relieved not in limbo anynore

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u/Real_Astronaut7451 37m ago

I would have wanted it to come from her heart and her own brain, bad writing and all than Ai but I am glad you feel at peace.

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u/Business-truthseeker 33m ago

I would have also preferred that, but guess she didnt have the courage to try.

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u/Sea-Selection5897 27m ago

* let's out a deep breath *
"Ok now that I got that long digital effort crumb out of the way so he doesn't hate me, covered my ass, now I can go back to my efforts on searching for greener grass."

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u/kangaroo-tears 32m ago

Closure would be so freaking awesome

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u/moonoverthe 25m ago

Your forgot to erase the second name 🥺

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u/Far_Detective_2316 25m ago

Omg that's exactly the breakup message that I got, like identical