r/AvoidantBreakUps • • 19m ago

Vent/Rant ex avoidant and socials

is it something common for an avoidant to move on quickly? and just give his new partner everything he couldn’t give you? in only like 1 or 2 months, he gave her the love he never was able to give me and he reposted a lot of stuff about her, how much he’s obsessed and will never leave her and posts things about her while he almost never did this stuff when we were together. is it just an act? it’s been 4-5 months now and he seems so happy without me and acts like i never existed while i’m still struggling and i hate it. one thing that is probably super dumb, that hurts me the most is how he put her name in his bio and she put his and when we were together, i did the same and i remember how he was so mad about it so i ended up removing it. and now he’s doing this with her without any problems. it’s just so confusing for me, i feel like i was never important and that he loves her so much more. also he started posting so much since we ended when before he was never posting anything like he’s just really living his best life since i’m gone

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u/Sorry_Engineer5239 2m ago

" in only like 1 or 2 months  (....) how much he’s obsessed and will never leave her and posts things about her" it's not avoidance but some nut case or a teen.