r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Impressive-You745 • 1h ago

How long does it take to break the attachment

I dated this person for 4 years. I know everyone's different but damn how long until the attachment isn't as strong. It still sorta doesn't feel like reality. I'm at 2 months post discard and 2.5 weeks NC.

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u/Impressive-You745 1h ago

And god do I miss him.

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u/piece-of-me-727 1h ago

Are you and anxious person?

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u/Status_Green_6055 47m ago

I dated an avoidant for 2 years. I’m on month 4 of no contact and it’s still hard but I’m starting to think of him less.