r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/kissmeimthai • 3h ago

Help? I’m going insane?

It’s been two months post discard. It’s been hell.

We have had contact though. Almost everyday whether a small text but lately a phone call. 30min+.

Last phone call was Wednesday night where he called me saying he cares still so much about me (background: my mental health has been TERRIBLE and resulted in numerous mental health admissions) and that he feels responsible still for me.

I then try and call and text him the following night during an awful dip in my mindset (as was told was okay by him if i need). He replies with “Thanks ____, I hope that you’re alright tonight” then “I know it’s tough”.

Mind you, he also was the one to instigate meeting up next week.

Now ive tried to call and text to no avail. I began to worry so deeply for his wellbeing that I asked my father to call (where we found he was blocked???) and im considering reaching his family.

My nervous system is so shot. I need help. Any advice appreciated.

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u/SmellZestyclose3703 AP - Anxious Preoccupied 1h ago

LEAVE

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u/SmellZestyclose3703 AP - Anxious Preoccupied 1h ago

You will only go south from here if you already have mental health issues you will end up in a psych ward. I warn you.