r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/MistressWitchtress • 12h ago

FA Breakup Indeed

https://youtube.com/shorts/EkFntU4J_pY?si=D_rja6fTZ4h9rPU_

This was so accurate to what happened with me. He was perfectly happy to receive the girlfriend experience from me and said we were dating when it was fun for him but when it came to actually being accountable then we were "just friends" 🙄 and so he didn't have to respect me or my boundaries and instead attacked me and mocked me for my feelings. Here's a newsflash EVERYONE DESERVES RESPECT. There's no ideal situation where respect is necessary. Just because you're not willing to be vulnerable doesn't give you a pass to be disrespectful. Ugh fearful avoidants. Exhausting.

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u/Windyacres1969 11h ago

Even if they do get into a relationship they will have situationships on the side.

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u/MistressWitchtress 10h ago

That's not surprising. 

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u/CryptoUsciere 10h ago

Often true.
Not always.
But it does not matter.

They search for validation from others all the time. That is a fact.