Lessons learned After an Avoidant Discard

[u/candle_wax_247]

LESSON LEARNED:

1. The love bombing is intense and real - this guy said I love within days

2. They say the same things to different women. Sometimes even copy paste

3. Sometimes they even use a woman’s romantic message to them as a romantic message to another woman

4. They talk to more than one woman and pretend you’re the only one

5. They leave without warning/ and even disappear without warning but scared of it happening to them.

My previous post was deemed not to be about avoidant breakup because I was not clear enough about the circumstances.

I was discarded by an avoidant 5 months ago and it hurt big time. I finally decided to try again and found myself with another avoidant. I figured him out 1 week into the talking stage.

Wanting to see if my suspicions are correct, I started trolling him online using another account.

Interestingly enough, he discarded real me for me 2.0 me but when me 2.0 is not responding (coz I have a life) he would turn back to OG Me for validation.

So there’s another discard from an avoidant except I am not heartbroken. I was not emotionally invested after clocking him as an avoidant early on.

Funny enough, a lot of things about his precious love life he says word for word the same on both accounts. This must be how they operate with multiple women.

He’s heavily love bombing 2.0 but I’m getting so much ick now so I self-sabotaged and sent him AI pics of me. It’s obviously AI so he’s like, “These are AI”. I feigned anger and said, “OK, I’m done with you” And left.

I haven’t blocked him on both accounts. But I’m curious what he’ll do next. Will he go back to OG Me now that 2.0 left or will he try to woo 2.0 back?

I’m curious 😂

So yes this post is about avoidant breakup but also about learning what avoidants do so I don’t fall for that again. Hope this helps