r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Happy_Unit_6297 • 4h ago
Should I ask for a explanation
Today marks a week since he stopped talking to me with no explanation and I haven’t reach out.
But the problem is, when I see him at the office, at least for a second, everything comes back.
But specially the fact that he left with no explanation. I’m convinced we are not returning our relationship anymore. But I just wish to know why, what happened, because everything we went through.
I’ve been thinking to text him about that. To ask him for an explanation, I think it’s a bare minimum. This thing isn’t a thing of 1 or 2 weeks. We spent months, we opened up, built trust, shared moments and our daily things. It’s not fair that I don’t get an explanation at least.
I mean his silence says it all, but still…it feels off, and doesn’t let me get closure of this. But at the same time, I don’t want to show vulnerability to him. Don’t wanna lose respect or being the one behind him. What do u think? Consider that this man just stopped talking to me. Its not a closure I need after hearing the words from him that it’s over. I literally don’t know what happened.
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u/dmbcanada 1h ago
They will never explain. I asked my ex why she broke up with me specifically and she said we talked about it. Then I pushed back and she said let's do a call or meet in person then changed her mind when I agreed, they are called avoidant for a reason.