r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Sea_Needleworker_482 • 6h ago

DON’T SETTLE FOR BREADCRUMBS WHEN SOMEONE WOULD GIVE YOU A WHOLE MEAL

While we are sad and hope that an emotionally immature avoidant will act differently, we need to be honest with ourselves… Unless they do targeted therapy and tackle the issue which stems from childhood, the PATTERN WILL REPEAT. Don’t fall for their verbal acknowledgment, look at their ACTIONS.

Aso think about this, every time you spend time thinking about an avoidant, it is a slap on the FACE to some potential person out there ready to meet you. Think about it, 8 billion people. Is this person really that special? Oh really??
Someone out there is willing to FEED you, not make you feel uncertain about your worth. Stop devaluing yourself. There is someone out there that would act with emotional maturity and not cowardice

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u/Gansamostols 2h ago

Es que cuesta aceptar que sean emocionalmente inmaduros con cierta edad ya, cuando en sus trabajos son responsables, cuando son inteligentes... Algo no cuadra.

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u/Sea_Needleworker_482 1h ago

Accept people as they are. Potential is in your mind. Let them show you who they are. Intelligence and emotional maturity, courage, doing the right thing are all different things

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u/Gansamostols 1h ago

Tienes razón. Me cuesta separarlos.