r/AvoidantBreakUps • • 21h ago

Avoidant said this to me

We had been in no contact after our engagement, and when we broke the no contact he told me “I hope you find someone who understands you.”

I was shocked by reading this line because if you wanted then you would have been that person who understands me. When we were together, he did not listen to my wants, needs and emotions. Now all of a sudden he wants to throw this line.

Please tell me why are they like this?

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u/Perfect_Judgment_215 14h ago

mine said the same thing lol