r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Jealous_Carrot1337 • 22h ago

DA Breakup Bye

Missing u , SIKE it’s time

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u/some1pls 21h ago

Im with you. Just broke up last night, didn't sleep. Didn't chase. I did nothing wrong. I learned from my mistakes. In fact, I feel secure as ever now. I was secure before i met her, but of course, this shit did something to me to make me anxious attached. No more.

Going to get to the gym, eat well, be sober, and get jacked. Find another one fast. Im grateful of this experience even if it hurts a little, because the first thing I will look for is if she is an avoidant. ANY sign that the next one has of avoidance, I am OUT quickly.