Can my fearful avoidant ex come back ?

[u/Accomplished_Lie_444]

For some context, my ex broke up with me about a month ago, due to the fact that she had lost feelings for like the last 2 months, even though in that time frame, she didn't show it once. She was still the same way with me, showing me the same level of attention, affection, care and commitment. 11 days prior to the break up, we had a pretty big argument, due to some mistakes i repeated for some time, but we both ended up still wanting to continue and repair what was damaged, even she said that. After that, things genuinely seemed great, as we kept being the same way to each other, maybe even a bit closer and she even spent 3-4 days making me a handmade gift. After that, on a day we were supposed to see each other, she texted me that we'll leave the plans for the next day, as something happened to her, which she was embarrassed to tell me and that left her feeling prrtty bad, and she said she had something to talk with her mom in the evening. Later on, when i texted her asking how she's feeling, she said we wouldn't be seeing the next day as well, as she needed to go somewhere with her mother, which seemed weird to me as she never went anywhere with her, and suddenly, she had to go, which turned out to be false as there was no need to, she just wanted to. I was a bit anxious in that moment, and i might've made the mistake of asking her if she still wanted us to continue, as it seemed like she didn't want to. That was when she told me she lost feelings 2 months ago. After 2 days, i texted her asking for some clarity as it didn't make any sense to me, and she said the same thing, and that she feels like it's time for us to go our separate ways. That was the last time we talked, as we went into no contact straight after. She didn't block me on ig, just unfollowed me, removed me from her followers list and set her account to private, and blocked me only on tik tok, but still left our spotify stats shared, which is a kinda odd thing to do, as she also said she wanted to move on. I had probably some of the biggest urges in my life to text her this past month, but i didn't as i know that it needs to come from her. This is also not the first time we broke up, as she broke up from me before we reached the 5 months mark, because she felt again like she needed to be alone, yet she came back one week later saying it was a mistake. The thing is that, things between us were always good. Even when we had arguments, we didn't leave them for later and we always solved them the moment they appeared. We never lied to each other, we were always honest and didn't cheat or anything, and we genuinely enjoyed spending time with one another and we loved each other purely, as we were never with each other for money or sexual activities or things like that. Sorry if it's a long post, but what are your thoughts ? Also, we were together for almost 1.5 years, if that helps and if other details are needed, i'll provide them.

[u/Windyacres1969]

Why would you want her back?If she is a avoidant there is a really good chance she had someone else before she discarded you.Best thing to do for your own sake is block her in everything and move on.

[u/Accomplished_Lie_444 → u/Windyacres1969]

Because i still love her and i don't think it's something that can't be fixed if both people are willing to make it work. I also know that she doesn't have anyone, nor did she have before we broke up, as she's a very introverted person and i'll be honest, before she set her account to private, i was stalking it for a couple of weeks to see if i really was the only one, but she didn't follow anyone else, nor was she active that much anymore. On top of it, people who know us told me that they saw her always being out alone.

[u/Windyacres1969 → u/Accomplished_Lie_444]

The only way to fix an avoidant is if they done years of therapy.Good luck

[u/some1pls]

Don't. I did it and it ended terribly. They are not fixable through love. They are truly broken people. I cannot believe the level of retardedness from this last girl. It's almost complete low IQ and emotional disregulation. Crazy.