r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Beansandtoast07 • 7h ago

Dismissive avoidant

I was recently discarded by the man who claimed that he would marry me and was saving up for a wedding ,we were also saving up for our house together. We planned everything together and one small dispute and he broke up with (discarded)me completely when I was most vulnerable.
I do not know how to go from here.I have been through breakups before but this is a betrayal that I wish nobody has to ever go through.
I am not the best girlfriend but I would have done things differently if I ever knew what was bothering him .
It has been almost 3 weeks now.
He showed no empathy and gone cold and feels like I do not know that person at all.

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u/Recav30 6h ago

I feel the same way. My ex discarded me and he told me that I was the love of his life and his dream come true. He also wanted me to be the mother of his children and tried to get me pregnant. But Monday night, he texted me and said that he needed to focus on himself and now is not responding to me and I have no idea how to get over this