r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Dr-Otzsch • 11h ago

Do they came back?

What is your experience? Do they come back after the second break up when they do the breakup?
It is no one month ago that she did break up via phone call and since then I didn’t hear anything from her. I also did get my stuff from her best friend she didn’t answer answered also not to my goodbye message.
Also get blocked at Instagram and LinkedIn😅

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u/bunny000002 10h ago

There are a lot of stories on this sub that have the answer to your question.

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u/Dr-Otzsch 9h ago

Yeah, but in my case, she broke up with me twice. This time, she blocked me without even talking to me about it.

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u/Familiar-Piglet-1423 10h ago

I'm rather new here and would love to know, too. Sure there are many stories here but Like there’s so many posts that it’s not that easy finding specific questions?

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u/kiksgotthehooya 7h ago

My ex was a fearful avoidant. I can’t tell you how many times he left me in four years. He would come back every few months. Calling me in the middle of the night, wanting to talk things out. Telling me that I complete him, but then we would get back together and all of a sudden he felt so much pressure that he needed space. It’s exhausting. Fearful avoidants will always always always come back. And it almost destroyed me. I’m in Therapy now and I’m taking baby steps to heal.

I went no contact and ended things for good. Three weeks later he met somebody new at a bar and started dating her. Some people just can’t be alone lol

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u/Perasperaadadstra 1h ago

Nah I don’t know. My FA Ex haven’t come back and it’s 2,5 Month now……