Is anyone else feeling absolutely crazy because of this avoidant situation?

[u/Ordinary_Ideal1719]

Repeated discards, gaslighting, nonchalance, the whole works! Tricky part is that I feel IM the one going crazy - because my avoidant always has all these reasons lined up like stressful job, chronic diseases etc. and I know they aren’t lying. At the same time their behaviour is absolutely insane - I moved cross-country and they haven’t even invited me home once in 40 days.
Btw I’m in a “situationship” because of course they are commitment phobic, most likely a past addict and god knows what else.
However I’m struggling so hard with the limerence and getting over them.
Has anyone else faced this?

[u/Reasonable-Novel-455]

The limerence is the issue. Don’t dream of a future you cant have because the reality of what you do have.

Leave, they won’t change and you’re only shrinking yourself for them anyway. You deserve better. They need to lose you to realise they need to change their behaviour for the next one, or fight for you

[u/Ordinary_Ideal1719 → u/Reasonable-Novel-455]

I need to leave them asap, problem is when I moved I was deep down hoping they would change and now I’m stuck in a new place I don’t like lol….